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 Author Thread: why do looks have to be so much of deciding factor in womans choices?
 singledad13b

Joined: 9/25/2003
Msg: 197
why do looks have to be so much of deciding factor in womans choices?
Posted: 4/3/2005 6:28:03 AM
self image and body image are two different things

I have alot of confidence in who i am

but its woman that make a man feel ugly

you can only approach so many woman
with a smashing attitude that are rude and mean
before it affects how you view yourself

but as far as who i am i am a dam good and kind man
and the little hotties can eat there own crap when the losers they date cheat leave or divorce them
 singledad13b

Joined: 9/25/2003
Msg: 198
why do looks have to be so much of deciding factor in womans choices?
Posted: 4/3/2005 6:30:41 AM
crap I have been raising four children alone for ten years
so good father

provider

nice guy
all thats out the window

they want money they want to be able to have the weekend fling
while hubby is out golfing
why the heck do you think DEsperate HOusewives is so popular?

YOU think the woman like looking a Nicolette Sheridans fine ass in a bikini?
no they like dreaming of the passion
and watching the little witch committ ADULTERY
 Paradoxx

Joined: 3/5/2005
Msg: 199
why do looks have to be so much of deciding factor in womans choices?
Posted: 4/3/2005 6:40:28 AM
Reality check...Singledad, rejection hurts...but that is really cynical...and heading toward anger at all women for being "too shallow" to do what you want them to.

Again, you are angry because they will not do what you want them to do, (that is, love you, sleep with you, date you). Now we're all *****es, especially the beautiful ones.

I admire your perserverence, and committment to taking care of your kids...BUT, what would you say if some guy called your daughter (if you have one) a ***** cause she wouldnt pay him attention, or love him up? Bet you would be tempted to kick some a**.

Whoever that beautiful lady is, she owes you nothing.

Thank about that.

That's plain scary.
 Windjammer

Joined: 3/26/2005
Msg: 200
why do looks have to be so much of deciding factor in womans choices?
Posted: 4/3/2005 3:06:56 PM
its only cynical to women.all u girls look at it from a 3rd party prospective.not a 1st.women want seccessful,hot,guys and lovers.they usauly go for hot losers that still think 5 minutes of sex is real love making.Seccess is built over time,unless your a kennedy,or just blessed.by 35 things should be going ok for you in the money dept,if not.you probley wont be any thing any way.and there are girls that dont mind that.looks wise,99 % of all women are shallow,its just a fact.deal with it guys.the other 1 percent are just out of bad relationships and rebounding.Thats not to say a very low uncountable group arent looking for better not perfect.better is a good thing.most women ive dated in my past would bed me while looking for mr perfect.they figure,at least the sex is good.and one woman went as far as to buy me diner before hand and presents.i felt like the girl.it was kinda cool.lol.bottom line.you want to get laid,even if only one time.come here.you want to meet a nice girl.turn your computer off.go into the world.and meet some one the old fashioned way.they wont come to you guys.go to the.at the grocers,or the gas station,or a park.the beach worked for me when i was younger.And when i was married,its like i had a sign above my head,im married,come do me.i never did them,but it was cool.
 Paradoxx

Joined: 3/5/2005
Msg: 201
why do looks have to be so much of deciding factor in womans choices?
Posted: 4/3/2005 3:33:19 PM
Whining is such a turn off.
 Paradoxx

Joined: 3/5/2005
Msg: 202
why do looks have to be so much of deciding factor in womans choices?
Posted: 4/3/2005 3:51:35 PM
Sometimes I find myself making love to my own misfortune.
--Norma O. Abrego
 markawelch

Joined: 3/1/2005
Msg: 203
why do looks have to be so much of deciding factor in womans choices?
Posted: 4/3/2005 3:52:15 PM
Yes, it is................
 SweetKristine

Joined: 8/26/2004
Msg: 204
why do looks have to be so much of deciding factor in womans choices?
Posted: 4/3/2005 4:02:35 PM
but its woman that make a man feel ugly


^^^^and men don't do that????????? sheesh! i can list ya off listttttttttts of men ive dated/been friends with/messed with etc/that have made me feel uglY!boat floats both ways, and when someone does that to another human being, shows the lack of self esteem they have
 markawelch

Joined: 3/1/2005
Msg: 205
why do looks have to be so much of deciding factor in womans choices?
Posted: 4/3/2005 4:14:29 PM
kristine,

you know that it goes both ways.
 SweetKristine

Joined: 8/26/2004
Msg: 206
why do looks have to be so much of deciding factor in womans choices?
Posted: 4/3/2005 4:15:12 PM
thats why i said the boat floats both ways
 markawelch

Joined: 3/1/2005
Msg: 207
why do looks have to be so much of deciding factor in womans choices?
Posted: 4/3/2005 4:17:07 PM
Ah, I read too fast and missed that part.

My apologies.
 LoganX

Joined: 3/29/2005
Msg: 208
why do looks have to be so much of deciding factor in womans choices?
Posted: 4/3/2005 4:17:43 PM
Both ways? Boats can float many ways, and some sink.
 SweetKristine

Joined: 8/26/2004
Msg: 209
why do looks have to be so much of deciding factor in womans choices?
Posted: 4/3/2005 4:17:44 PM
your forgiven this once :)
 Paradoxx

Joined: 3/5/2005
Msg: 210
why do looks have to be so much of deciding factor in womans choices?
Posted: 4/3/2005 4:35:10 PM
Soapbox...Victim Mentality as I see it.

Victim mentality will hold a person in the same place forever....and the sad part, the cage is self built. If a person continually views women or men with cynicism and mistrust…they will meet women or men who fit that concept of of the opposite sex. Are all men or women loosers, players, shallow? Seek and ye shall find.

This same thought process is used conversely with professional athletes, they are trained to envision success again and again…because this will result in positive, real time results. You will find what you expect to find.

Karma, psychology, fate…call it what you will, but people will attract others who are as healthy as they are. If someone is having repeated run-ins with people who are unhealthy, unavailable…maybe it’s time to look in the mirror. Karma may be trying to teach something, and will bang your tender head and heart against that wall again and again until you learn that lesson.

Okay, I've said my peace.
 SweetKristine

Joined: 8/26/2004
Msg: 211
why do looks have to be so much of deciding factor in womans choices?
Posted: 4/3/2005 4:36:03 PM
Both ways? Boats can float many ways, and some sink.

^^shush!
 markawelch

Joined: 3/1/2005
Msg: 212
why do looks have to be so much of deciding factor in womans choices?
Posted: 4/3/2005 4:36:56 PM
......and we haven't even mentioned how they can crash on the rocks or ground themselves on a reef!!!!
 SweetKristine

Joined: 8/26/2004
Msg: 213
 Mr. Peanut Butter Cup

Joined: 9/10/2004
Msg: 214
why do looks have to be so much of deciding factor in womans choices?
Posted: 4/4/2005 1:32:02 AM
Last time I checked men were more into looks than women.
 reallyrusty

Joined: 12/11/2004
Msg: 215
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why do looks have to be so much of deciding factor in womans choices?
Posted: 4/4/2005 1:13:42 PM
then you should do some checking not that i'll continue to blame woman any longer because men are just as guilty about what we want in woman as woman are in men in the past few months i've grown up alot in the way i see things i have had great pleasure in meeting some really good and nice people even i don't make a love connection i know i've made some really good friends i was even told i was a good looking guy but to be honest i know it was a polite lie though i know i'm not ugly nor any where near it in fact but i deserve to be happy and i will whether single or if i find a true love connection you people who are beautiful inside and out thanx for being honest those of you who look good on the outside but lack on the inside i hope you find a better way to look at life and for those of us who don't look great on the outside but have a great inside just be happy knowing we don't need some one who looks good but is good and those of you who don't look good on the outside and look as bad on the inside or even worse you'r going down a very lonely road well i think i've done covered every one i really do hope every one who reads this knows that all i want for you all is happiness we all have problems, issiues and doubts but it's when you see it and know its there that it becomes easier to fix so lets all make life fun and rid our selves of those negitives that make it hard to deal with life just remember give the next guy/girl who asks you out at least a few minutes to talk with you , you may very well enjoy there company as a friend if nothing else
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