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 Author Thread: WHY are people so VAIN? Arrrghh, it makes me so sad, sick, and angry :-(
 reddhead

Joined: 6/4/2006
Msg: 75
WHY are people so VAIN? Arrrghh, it makes me so sad, sick, and angry :-(
Posted: 10/5/2006 6:29:08 PM
nice pic,,what magasine did u get that from lol
 reddhead

Joined: 6/4/2006
Msg: 76
WHY are people so VAIN? Arrrghh, it makes me so sad, sick, and angry :-(
Posted: 10/5/2006 6:36:41 PM
what can i say,, this time i took the time to read all that was said,,,, i wish everyone here would ,,try real hard to respect the values of others,and if you cant say anything nice,say nothing at all.silence is golden dont you think,and i hardly ever look at pics,most of them are not real anyway, but to call another person ugly is not acceptable,ever,and the rose of sharon is a flower,,,,,a beautiflul flower,,,if things continue like this ill leave this site in a flash,,,,,i havent met anyone yet who was real,but OP,, has been the only one ive waited for responses from,, because he speaks from his heart,and excuse me,, but if that is his real pic,,hes as cute as a button
 xemicangirl

Joined: 7/18/2005
Msg: 77
WHY are people so VAIN? Arrrghh, it makes me so sad, sick, and angry :-(
Posted: 10/12/2006 8:53:35 PM
Okay, I will admit I only read a small bit of what the OP said.
I take it that your feelings were hurt by people who consider
themselves better looking than you?
Anyhow, I have been insulted on my looks many times, online,
but mostly in real life.
I will admit it can hurt sometimes, and sometimes I just let it ride,
because I am not trying to impress the person who bashed me.
Once I declined to go out with a guy on POF, and he wrote back
and was making bad remarks about my weight.
In life you will find people who have to build their egos up by
putting others down, they do this due to insecurities.
Now, on the other hand, I have also been complimented many times
in my life about my looks........
I think you have to stay away from people whom you are not comfortable
around.

lol at brytenyte!!


You know Prophet, after reading the above; I have to disagree with you.

Check this girl out; she has been hurt by someone's rude remarks regarding her appearance and weight. Yet she celebrated the poor taste, I-am-not-smart-enough-to-express-my-disagreement-unless-I-make-a-twelve-year-old-remark wich was the response from Brytenyte no less.

HuggABLEHOTTIE

Ironically, and without a doubt 'brytenyte' had probably already made equally unintelligent remarks about your appearance and my big ass. So again, you could have saved yourself the time you took to re read at your mad attempt to understand what OP has eloquently written here. Obviously, a waste of your time...
However, I can almost bet, that you did understand what you read and what is even worse, you just proved that nowadays you need not be a model to be as vain and as cruel.

To those of you criticizing OP's written eloquence, well, I really think he knew just the type of people that would be responding. However, he had extremely high expectations from your vocabulary skills.

But hey Prophet, some of us did understand what you meant; probably the ugly ones huh?
 justmeinnc05

Joined: 8/12/2005
Msg: 78
WHY are people so VAIN? Arrrghh, it makes me so sad, sick, and angry :-(
Posted: 10/13/2006 9:09:03 AM
I tried to read your posts, but they are just so long!!!

I haven't meant many people from dating sites, and none of them looked like their picture. It didn't bother me at all. Ok, one did.

You speak of honesty, but I find your profile to be rather dishonest. You have three pictures on it. The first two look like the same person, the third looks like a totally different person. Nothing wrong with any of them, but they aren't all the same person or you have gained a lot of weight. I think if you are into total honesty, you should keep the one that looks most like you do in real life.
 lisajeanangel

Joined: 8/23/2006
Msg: 79
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WHY are people so VAIN? Arrrghh, it makes me so sad, sick, and angry :-(
Posted: 10/13/2006 6:24:52 PM
If you take the time to read what Prophet is talking about I am sure that you would see that he has been hurt by people judging him for whatever their reasons are. Now we have all been hurt before and it is not easily fogotten for a lot of people. How can people respond in a negative way to him when they won't take the few extra min. and really read what he is saying. Hang in there Prophet, some of us do understand what you are saying.
 justmeinnc05

Joined: 8/12/2005
Msg: 80
WHY are people so VAIN? Arrrghh, it makes me so sad, sick, and angry :-(
Posted: 10/14/2006 2:46:49 PM

i'm seeing an eeeeeeego trip here! and pal, the jesus look went out with the 60s, man, so maybe, like, uh, get a hair cut and a bread trim? you're not Jesus, you know?


Personally I am not seeing an ego trip. As to his hair, I think it looks great. Went out with the 60's? Maybe you should stop being such a slave to fashion.
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