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 Lion1

Joined: 10/8/2006
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Women what do they want from a guy
Posted: 3/29/2008 10:04:54 AM
1-----Girls want "guys" that post to internet dating site forums and complain and cry about how they are so good to women and they still wind up getting dumped.

2-----Girls want "guys" that need to ask and be re-assured on a daily basis on what kind of man that women look for......

3-----Girls want "guys" that need to be told everyday that the "guy" is worthy........

These kind of "men" are so hard for women to find......

Follow these 3 rules and you will have women melting in your arms all day everyday!!!


Is there no shame,,,,,, this should be embarASSing,,,, to anyone with half of a clue.



 Lion1

Joined: 10/8/2006
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Posted: 3/29/2008 10:16:10 AM
One more time......

 sgtd34

Joined: 3/18/2008
Msg: 78
Women what do they want from a guy
Posted: 3/29/2008 3:47:55 PM
Woman themselves dont know what they want in a guy.
 TangoIndiaMike

Joined: 3/19/2008
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Posted: 3/31/2008 7:25:54 PM

Women what do they want from a guy


My guess would be the following:

Proof of love


And she asked upon me what it was I thought of her,
And I said unto her,
You my dear are 1 in 1,000,000,000,000,000 to me



Tim
 hunny7

Joined: 6/19/2007
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Posted: 4/4/2008 3:51:24 PM
you stand to be corrected... i for one know exactly what i want, it you men who have issues.....alot of broken men out there, and i'm not here to mend them lol
 betweensheetz

Joined: 3/23/2008
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Women what do they want from a guy
Posted: 4/12/2008 8:26:21 PM
"Women what do they want from a guy
Posted: 9/13/2006 659 PM
you tell me one decent thing that an average guy like me does wrong when it comes to gettting involed in a long term relationship i treat them like gold buy them what ever they want please them but i still wnd up losing them you tell me that"

I can't believe you went there. There are some questions in life that have NO definitive answer. Especially that one!

For instance, ask one woman this question and I can put my money on it that another will give you a totally different answer. Just read some of the responses from the women who already posted an answer if you don't believe me. Is there any consistency? Not!

Some questions just shouldn't be asked. It is all trial and error my friend. Find out the needs and wants of the "specific woman “ you are dealing with and try to satisfy them.

Unfortunately, there is NO blanket answer. Do not try to use the same formula on every woman you meet. Women are complex creatures. They will however, claim that it is simple to figure them out if we as men just paid better attention, but this is the greatest lie ever told to man. Women and Mother Nature are truly parallel phenomena. You can try to predict them but most likely you will just end up like your local weatherman, WRONG!

I'm no expert hence, I'm on this site just as you are however, my advise to you is try to listen and prepare. Even when we try listening and adhering to the signals of women, we will most likely get it wrong. Guess what? It is not because we didn’t listen correctly, it is because their signals are as clear as a music industry contract. It may say something one way but in reality, it means a whole other thing. I guess you have to be a combination of a lawyer and a psychic to understand.

I hope this was somewhat helpful lol
 coolbrezze

Joined: 7/3/2006
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Posted: 4/13/2008 6:22:09 AM
women dont have an idea of what they want .what was you thinkin?i dont buy any thing for a women .maybe flowers or a dinner ,but thats it .ive learned the hard way .ive also find that the more you treat them like crap ,the more they want you,go figure.
Women what do they want from a guy
Posted: 7/1/2008 10:21:54 PM
look women are different in different parts of the country.
example, my experience is that the east coast woman thinks her crap doesnt stink and that just because theyre a woman everything should be given to them.
they seem to play games with affection and expect the man to bow to her rules.
the west coast women is different ,thru exp. they are aggressive and actually tell the man upfront what they want, i certainly appreciated that, it gave me a course to run on.

european s both men and women arent offended and are open to taboo things the east coast woman frowns on, sex talk.
i think everyone should be able to talk about anything, after all were all adults.
so ladies stop playing the i cant believe you said that game ,your needs are just as dog as ours.
i think the answer for both men and women is to be more open,free in your speech and less judgemental.
Women what do they want from a guy
Posted: 7/1/2008 10:24:01 PM
actually id like to amend the thing about east coast women.its the majority of women on the east coast ive met that are like that. not all, there actually have been some cool ladies who actually acknowledge theyre just as human as a man is.
 yankee_holdem

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Posted: 7/2/2008 8:03:58 AM
Women know what they want ..................we just dont want to have to spell it out all the time.

As far as the "sex talk". Mens lives are ruled by sex, womens lives are not, we actually think about other things (sex included but not limited to). We don't need to talk about it all the time, after all we're all adults, we know how it works......................leave something to the imagination.

 Twilight04

Joined: 9/27/2005
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Posted: 7/6/2008 8:50:11 PM
Different women want different things. Some women want really affectionate men who'll dote on them and give them that happily ever after.

Me...I'd rather have a guy who goes out and does his own thing because I'm a pretty big loner as well. Together time is awesome but I need to have enough apart-time too. Plus the sweet thing usually doesn't work for me. I eat nice guys for breakfast. I'd rather have a guy who isn't afraid to debate and fight back.

So pretty much I want a semi-jerk who likes going out with the boys. I don't think you're going to find many other girls on the same line as me.

For underlying themes...go for honest, loyalty, being trustworthy, and being really good at communicating.
 fawneyedgirl

Joined: 12/10/2006
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Posted: 7/7/2008 10:13:36 AM
You're just being too general... nobody can tell you what all women want because we're all different!!! Just like you, we are all individuals. Just quit trying to always be "on" -- be yourself and enjoy your life ALONE first... When you can do that, believe me, someone will come along!!
Women what do they want from a guy
Posted: 7/8/2008 9:36:40 PM
The sex talk is 1 little thing and you go blow it up.
Leave things to the imagination? ha look at your 1st pic you have posted.
On a bed using your sexuality as alure.
I see that its ok for you because your a woman but if a man even starts to spell the word sex its omg look at what he said and the gets blown up
 Luv2Cuddle13790

Joined: 6/9/2007
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Posted: 7/10/2008 4:12:49 AM
I have to admit that I really hate that word-slut. It is so demeaning and hurtful for some people. Just because some women love sex and try to please thier man, she is a slut. I guess I am a slut also as I go out of my way to pleasure the woman that I am with, love sex and wish I could have it at least twice a day and capable of having it twice a day.
 rydog82

Joined: 6/28/2008
Msg: 90
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Posted: 7/16/2008 11:54:05 AM
Sometimes it has nothing to do with you either, sometimes people just don't click and it doesn't matter how well you treat them it wont work. You can still be nice, but let the girl earn the gifts and and such. You can still be a gentlemen, just don't overdue it and you'll be set. Just don't let them walk all over you, if you don't have their respect it wont matter if you have them, you will still be unhappy.
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