| Deal Breakers......
Posted: 9/18/2006 7:16:29 PM | I don't think I could pretend to have a deal beaker. If there is something I am not liking in the budding relationship that emerged after we met and to me it is a deal breaker then yes I think I have to stand up for that but to make one up because " I wan't to be alone but feel obliged to let her down easy" or " I'm just not into her but can't say that cuz it will hurt her" is lame. Sorry but who are you really doing a favor to here?
True deal breakers for me are chain smokers, drug abuse, mental abuse, overly clingy within the first few dates (best way to scare someone off is treat them like you own them and must call 5 times a day.... even more if you don't reach them) has a penis or once had one, has more facial hair than I do, sends me pictures of someone else or of her from 10 years ago (basically any lies to make her appear a different person), and she desires a good game of drinking sailors under the table .... and usually wins. | |
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| Deal Breakers......
Posted: 9/18/2006 7:24:10 PM | Pretend deal breakers ???
The real sameful deal breaker, is accusing your partner for crimes you have committed . | |
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| Deal Breakers......
Posted: 9/18/2006 10:46:18 PM | Firecrackers in the buttocks.
It ruins the mood. | |
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| Deal Breakers......
Posted: 9/28/2006 8:31:00 PM | who's pretending here....I think deal breakers are the root to the entire relationship...youi screw up...you're outta here.......
you mess around...bye bye
you don't pick up the dog shite...bye bye
you don't put the lid down, in the middle of the night...bye bye
ohhh, there's sooo many  | |
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| Deal Breakers......
Posted: 9/28/2006 8:42:09 PM | or smells like one
opps I think Im in trouble now
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| Deal Breakers......
Posted: 9/28/2006 8:46:35 PM | wtf...what the hell...what the......don't be such a betch girl...you'll make alot people really mad on here!!!!
you're dealing with alot of straight people!
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| Deal Breakers......
Posted: 9/28/2006 9:03:22 PM | When they turn out to be straight
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| Deal Breakers......
Posted: 9/29/2006 12:15:43 AM |  Lipstick on teeth
 coloured hair -roots show
snorts when laughing
 extra few pounds-spandex pants | |
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| Deal Breakers......
Posted: 9/29/2006 12:30:07 AM | | bad teeth even before the relationship starts h | |
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| Deal Breakers......
Posted: 9/29/2006 7:06:37 AM | Takers...I find out that someone is a taker; someone who will constantly take and has nothing to give. I RUN!!!!  | |
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| Deal Breakers......
Posted: 9/29/2006 8:28:14 AM | | Any form of broken trust will get you kicked out my door! | |
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| Deal Breakers......
Posted: 9/29/2006 8:13:24 PM | When he goes out with the boyz....
for three dayz
drags himself on the doormat..and then sleeps there all night...
brings home the wrong dog...
spent all his money at the track....
plays on pof all night...
while your waiting...hmmmm | |
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| Deal Breakers......
Posted: 9/29/2006 10:34:40 PM | plays on pof all night...
while your waiting...hmmmm:
right now
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| Deal Breakers......
Posted: 9/29/2006 11:26:55 PM | Excerpts taken from the last relationship:
1. Broken promises! (I'm not into illusions!!)
2. Being a closet girlfriend (Pretending they are not "with" you whenever other women are around.)
3. When they stop "putting out": chivalry becomes dead...they expect you to give all you have but they refuse to give back. Everything has to be their way.
4. When they stand up for every other piece of pu$$y but refuse to protect you whatsoever...I'm not into abandonment.
5. Yelling or having temper tantrums...I'm not into children.
6. When they don't know how to discuss things and they feel they have to win at all costs which then becomes abusive towards you because their ego has to win.
7. bad mouthing me behind my back...no unity.
8. etc, etc, etc
Makes me wonder...did I really shave my legs for that? | |
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| Deal Breakers......
Posted: 9/30/2006 10:21:33 AM | I do not think that I would ever pretend to have a deal breaker.
Accountability. I know who and what I am; sometimes it's not pretty.
I am human and far from perfect. My stuff is my own and I will admit
to my faults openly. I went from dysfunctional to more dysfunctional.
It's a long road to functioning; and not always straight and narrow for me! | |
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| Deal Breakers......
Posted: 11/6/2006 11:31:11 PM | how about...no job
no life insurance...(really important)
no car..
wearing your clothes...hmmmm
wearing your make up...
ok, thats a little far fetched (but shite happens)
Oh, I know big one for me,
someone who doesn't work out...they make you work out...to be a trophy...and they look like shite...
deal or NO DEAL?
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| Deal Breakers......
Posted: 11/6/2006 11:53:10 PM | Deal Breakers:
"I really enjoyed that last movie with Will Ferrell"
"I find Justin Timberlake's music to be socially relevant"
"Women, as a rule, do not enjoy sex. We just do it for men"
"Would you quit smoking for me?"
"I think pornography degrades women"
"A man who doesn't like hockey hardly seems like a man"
"I read this really great self-help book that I think you should read"
"I'm going over to my Ex-Boyfriend's place, he just broke up with his gf and needs someone to talk to"
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| Deal Breakers......
Posted: 11/8/2006 12:41:05 AM | Dishonesty, being cold, being sneaky, being too quiet, selfish, spiteful. all that kind of stuff. Been in too many relationship that I tolerated it for too long, learned the hard hay to not even let it take root. | |
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| Deal Breakers......
Posted: 11/8/2006 8:01:56 AM | If he is more like a woman than I am.............CYA...
Sorry hunny but I dont care what kind of gel you put in your hair, or what kind
of exfoliating face scrub you use.........and PLEASE stay the F out of my makeup bag!!!!!
I do NOT want to pick up your nasal strips off my bathroom counter, I do not want
to drop your shit off at the cleaners... you bought it... maybe next time you will read
the label too.. If you know I'm pissed and continue to poke at me, with your pinky in the
air....what you get is what you've asked for. But just so you know... I'm half russian...
and you can't have mean without me..lol.....If we go to the pub... have wings.. and you
order a beer, and stick a straw in it......I will leave your fairy ass there......for real....no lies.... I do not want to be your fulltime council.....Call your mom... she HAS to love you....
If you need meds.. date someone in the medical field...
We've all heard the line... Must love dogs.......
Must love cheese!!!!! lmfao
( I still only have one deal breaker... but I could go on and on and on ) | |
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| Deal Breakers......
Posted: 11/8/2006 8:49:15 AM | | How about a momma's boy...they drive me crazy. Don't get me wrong...family needs to be important but come on cut the cord! I have kids and don't need another to raise. | |
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| Deal Breakers......
Posted: 11/8/2006 11:00:45 AM | My Top 3 ...
#1. Hygiene! Hygiene! Hygiene!
#2. when theyre not interested in wrkg
#3. when theyre all about "ME! ME! ME!"
there's a few more but these are the most important... | |
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| Deal Breakers......
Posted: 11/8/2006 12:30:33 PM | | Poor hygiene grosses me out so that would be a deal breaker, that includes oral hygiene. Dishonesty, cheating, abuse of me or my children. | |
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| Deal Breakers......
Posted: 11/8/2006 2:20:34 PM | Let's see in a relationship I'd say lying for one - that's a bye bye, hmm cheating definitely bye bye and butt kick for good measure...that just says they figure you're not good enough or they don't respect you.
Using someone for money or whatever thats an adios too. Most of all if they don't treat you with any respect...telling you one thing and doing another NOT COOL....I suppose that would be a hint and a half as to what they think about you. I also agree with Fluffy's comments too...especially the not working deal.
I realize there is always a "learning curve" with certain things in a relationship. Perhaps they don't know that A or B bothers you if you don't say something...perhaps something you do bothers them....its all about communication...saying what you want, where you're at, what you're looking for etc. Talk and usually things work out...or they end if they are supposed to. At least that's what I"m finding out...
Just my $0.02 | |
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