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Posted: 11/9/2006 7:38:11 AM | | ^^^^^^ talk about taking the " chicken " shitt way out of a "Fowl" situation eh! | |
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Posted: 11/11/2006 9:15:20 AM | Snoring that is for sure!! I had this one guy that snored so loud, I slept in the living room and he still woke me up.... Not funny if you haven't slept in three days because of his snoring | |
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Posted: 11/11/2006 9:25:15 AM | ^^^^That's what earplugs are for, silly. But in my case they might be for him not me.
My dealbreaker is an extremely jealous personality, to the point of possessiveness.
And of course all the other basics...lying, cruelty.....and so on. | |
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Posted: 11/11/2006 10:12:41 AM | OMG............ if he smells................ hes DONE! seriously... ew | |
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Posted: 11/11/2006 10:33:10 AM | | Deal breaker? Hmmmm she doesn't own a big fishing boat? | |
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Posted: 11/11/2006 11:39:30 AM | | earplugs... No way, then I can hear myself breath and won't sleep anyways | |
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Posted: 11/11/2006 11:41:39 AM | | Deal? What deal? There is no dealing in a relationship, they either do as you say or they are OUT! | |
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Posted: 11/11/2006 11:43:34 AM | | Snoring is a deal breaker for me too....they better darn well snore or I don't want em. Call me nuts but I love sleeping next to the one I am involved with and hearing them snore. The sound comforts me and puts me right to sleep. Plus strangley enough, at times when woken in the middle of the night and lay listening to him snore, it puts me in the " mood " so a win win situation...Lucky for me the man I am seeing now is a expert snorer :) | |
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Posted: 7/4/2007 6:15:19 PM | ^^^^snoring isn't a big deal...just shove em over all night long, or get ear plugs....
wake em up, have sex for a while and then you're snoring before them...HA!
I had to bring this up again babe, nothing to do with you Knotttty.......(we're ok)
how about a mid life crisis and you can't come along......
like buying a convertible and there's only room for one???
Or going on a holiday and they didn't buy a ticket for you???
Buying something, without your consent?
OMG...how about that they bring home a new pet and you didn't say, you're ok with it???
Ok, this is an old thread, but it has so many great memories..... | |
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Posted: 7/5/2007 1:27:16 PM | | Lol; let's see. If they don't know who Jim Henson is and can't name at least one Fraggle. But then again I'm aalways willing to teach the ways of The Muppet's | |
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Posted: 7/5/2007 2:14:10 PM | No Bu11shit,
Just deep boot therapy all the way... | |
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Posted: 7/5/2007 8:48:11 PM | | This thread brought to mind a 'pretend' deal breaker on Seinfeld. He told his girlfriend he really wanted a threesome, hoping she would dump him in disgust, only to have her say that she'd love one, too! Beware of anything 'pretend'. | |
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Posted: 7/5/2007 11:53:13 PM | someone who suddenly loses the ability to remember what HYGIENE is,..... soap? water? toothpaste and brush? and most importantly antiperspirant!... EVERYDAY!!
If my dog smells better than he does. Buh bye!
Wait that isn't pretend that is real UGH! Truth actually doesn't hurt as much. NEXT. | |
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Posted: 7/12/2007 10:37:59 PM | My old coach had a truly bizarre solution he'd tell all of us as his guide to getting rid of an unwanted girlfriend:
Step 1 - Stop bathing. If she sticks around, go to step 2
Step 2 - Ask her to bring her sister into the bedroom. If she sticks around, go to step 3
Step 3 - Explore the darker side of your sexuality. My coaches' suggestions included trying bondage, but go to the bar with your buddies after you've tied her up, introduce her to bizare porn, maybe even explore beastiality (that one is the sickest of all).
If she sticks around, his advice was to reconsider ending the relationship.
Not my idea, I promise. I can't imagine wanting to be with a woman who would put up with this sh*t.
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Posted: 7/15/2007 2:36:57 PM | A couple of things that will have me run as fast as I can:
For me the dealbreaker will definitely be snorting and spitting in public. It is absolutely disgusting and why you have to do it in public is beyond me;
and yes any kind of abuse is a definite no, no, and of course having to put up with the ex | |
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Posted: 7/16/2007 4:42:33 PM | | Someone who swears too much,especially a person who has to use the F word every second word,women who dress in guys clothes and think its sexy haha.PPl who just talk about themselves and when you do say something it goes through one ear and out the other. | |
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Posted: 7/16/2007 9:46:31 PM | | thumper you break me up !!!!!!! hahahahahahaha-------just tell him/her the truth I like you but that's it .And either leave it alone or just be friends . | |
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Posted: 7/18/2007 8:21:09 PM | | well... I would say if your at the point when you want to give up, you really don't need to pretend... I mean, you gotta be true to yourself, and be honest enough to say it just isn't working... sometimes it's a really hard thing to do, but life's too short to be unhappy all the time.. I'd much rather stay single than just be with someone for the sake of being with someone.. | |
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Posted: 7/19/2007 9:51:12 AM | 1) Can't accept/like me just the way I am.
2) Cheap! I'm not talking about a guy who can't afford to take me out, that's poor and I get that, I don't expect anyone to pay my way. I'm talking about the penny-pincher who doesn't leave a decent tip when we're out, who asks how much everything costs, who is always talking about money (ironically they usually have money.......guess that's how they keep it).
3) Doesn't make me laugh (they may be too serious for me and/or have no sense of humour or a different sense of humour). | |
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Posted: 7/19/2007 3:37:14 PM | For me the deal breaker that I might not know about in the beginning, could be the behaviour of his children toward me if they are older, or his parenting style if they are younger.
Clashing parenting styles can drive any relationship into the ground. At least that's my experience. | |
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Posted: 7/19/2007 8:39:00 PM | | I discovered that a guy being homophobic is a deal breaker for me... it's not that I even know or am close to that many people who are gay, just being around someone who I know is closed minded is a huge turn-off for me. | |
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Posted: 7/20/2007 8:21:30 PM | deal breakers?!?...
the easy ones are the habitual ones: drug use, excessive drinking, smoking (the occasional one is semi-sorta okay)...
the behavioural ones would be: control issues, jealousy and intolerance(you know...racism and the like...) | |
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Posted: 6/13/2008 11:32:43 PM | Bringing back an old thread to life.........
Had a conversation with another POFer tonight....some how we got on the topic of personal habits/preferences if you will. And I realized and wondered why people are not as forth coming in their profiles when faced with filling out that dreaded about me section.
The topic was night time routines.....this friend and I both discovered we are TV/movie watchers in our beds and we can sleep quite well with the noise going on all night...lol...but how many are out there that can say the same. I dated someone that had to have the room pitch black and no sounds through out the house to be able to achieve a nights sleep.......drove me crazy after awhile...but I sucked it up..but found myself at times sleeping else where just to have what had grown to be a familar sound to me at night...
Are these types of rituals deal breakers...absolutely..so why are most people not talking about their day to day lives in their profiles....we can all speak about integrity, humour, fun, active lifestyles and so on...but what are the day to day important factors about who we have become over the years.....those true compatible qualities we truly need to seek out in others....
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