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Posted: 6/21/2008 10:18:43 AM | Deal breakers? Hmmmm. I'd have to say:
Alcoholics/junkies who won't admit it;
Using the F-word as a constant adjective ;
A person whose children are moochers;
Unkempt people who don't have enough respect for me to clean themselves up for a date;
Use of any recreational drugs.
I usually don't sweat the small stuff like leaving the toilet seat up or not cleaning up after himself occasionally, but if his behaviour compromises my core values, and embarrasses me, he's a goner. | |
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| Deal Breakers......
Posted: 12/19/2008 9:59:51 AM | the second i realize i can't trust you...
if the sun don't rise & set in each others eye's...
if you like girl's as much as i do...i already have enough competition...thanks..
unless i don't really care about you in the first place... in which case anything goes...
if youve had sex with any of my friends ....
or you want to have sex with any of my friends..probably not gonna work..
if you think the world revolves around you...
if your business card has gold digger written on it...deal breaker..
k.... i get it... i'm destine to be alone......
except for cheap meaningless sex and over night relationships.... .. | |
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Posted: 12/19/2008 11:44:14 AM | If he drives a pinto!
But ... would you still be adamant about that if the Gas Tank was in the front? ... 
- Too many Lies
- financially irresponsible
- nagging Hag | |
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| Deal Breakers......
Posted: 12/19/2008 6:29:51 PM | i guess i better put my pinto on craigslist ,maybe thats why i'm single?
honesty, honesty , honesty,and not on anti depressants | |
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Msg: 107 | |
| Deal Breakers......
Posted: 12/19/2008 6:40:43 PM | ^^^
Honesty is a deal breaker?
For me dishonesty is a deal breaker. | |
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Joined: 4/22/2007
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| Deal Breakers......
Posted: 12/19/2008 6:52:29 PM | ^I think you misinterpreted the poster's comments. It seems to me he wants someone who is honest, honest, honest ... I find it hard to believe that anyone would be attracted to someone who is dishonest, but I am a pathological liar - more or less - so you never know with me.  | |
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Posted: 12/19/2008 7:14:54 PM |
but I am a pathological liar-more or less-so you never know with me
Xavery that kind of honesty is very refereshing in online dating. May you shouls e-mail the guy looking for total honesty, seems like a pretty good match. | |
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Xavery
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| Deal Breakers......
Posted: 12/19/2008 9:06:59 PM | ^hmmm - well, if he really drives a Pinto, I might just do that, especially if it just would burst into fire .... but I think this is very unlikely.
Wait a second....hmmm....I think the totally honesty guy may have blocked me. The truth or untruth sometimes hurts. As I said, I may or may not be a pathological liar.
I actually think a deal breaker may be when we take ourselves too seriously. As the Indigo Girls would say, ''It's only life after all." | |
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| Deal Breakers......
Posted: 12/19/2008 9:31:26 PM | smoking
drugs
having no ambition at all
not liking animals
bisexual
too many sexual partners | |
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Posted: 11/3/2009 6:52:41 PM | Her lacking good communication skills is a deal breaker. 
I did make the acquaintance of someone who fails miserably at this. During conversations often a statement I'd made or a question that I'd asked her got no response from her.
The questions weren't deeply personal or something a person is unlikely to be evasive about, and didn't require a great deal of thought to reply. Thinking she might suffer from a hearing impairment I asked. At least I got a reply, and no, that was not the problem.
During telephone conversations I'd pause at an appropriate moment to give her the opportunity to respond, confirm, acknowledge, etc. I waited.... total silence on the other end.
Thinking the call had been dropped I'd ask "You still there?" Yep, she was there.
I've never claimed to be a mind reader and perhaps should be grateful for that shortcoming. | |
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| Deal Breakers......
Posted: 11/3/2009 10:21:03 PM | Smoking
Excessive Drinking
Lying (eg. Telling me he was only seeing me when he was also seeing two other women.)
Being a "Clingon"
Being Disrespectful
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| Deal Breakers......
Posted: 11/4/2009 12:59:47 AM | When he says that he went to see a girl because she was mending his shirt. lol
Bad teeth
Lying
Cheating which rhymes with beating
Negative attitude
Can't seem to get along with anyone and always blames it on them.
Hasn't grown up past 30.
Bad hygiene and is a slob to boot! So he gets the boot to the toot! | |
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| Deal Breakers......
Posted: 11/4/2009 1:01:25 AM | | P.S. I forgot! Always broke and trying to borrow money from you until payday! Such a turnoff! | |
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| Deal Breakers......
Posted: 11/4/2009 8:00:35 PM | All of the above ... and then some!
Okay well, hygiene, communication, honesty, trust, and commitment would be the top 5. | |
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| Deal Breakers......
Posted: 11/5/2009 12:36:55 AM | DEAL BREAKERS - smoker
- poor relationship with his mom
- does not like children ,cats or dogs
everything else (unless he is a Nazi or something ) I imagine can be worked out .... | |
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Posted: 11/5/2009 12:45:25 AM | Deal Breaker for me:
Too many (more than 3) ----- -> "must not's"
What life we may have yet ahead ~ is too short to be
too choosy
good grief are you so perfect, yourself? | |
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| Deal Breakers......
Posted: 11/5/2009 1:04:08 AM | Yes my perfection is such a burden
I am choosy and all women should be ...as you say " life is too short " why settle  | |
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Posted: 11/5/2009 3:26:40 AM | @Island Raven
sorry, my post was not directed at you personally, more towards the
men out there with their huge wish-lists.
good on you for being "choosy" and not "settling" | |
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Posted: 11/5/2009 5:20:31 AM | " Fluff",,,,,, Don't like it,,,never have,,,,and I'm pretty sure I never will.
My definition of fluff,,,,,,,conversations without substance,,,,something you can do with your girlfriends. Sidestepping confrontation,,,either the big ones,,,or the tiny eeny little ones. When someone "says" things that are said just to make (0r at least TRY) to make me feel good. Telling me things that every person in this world all ready knows about ya,,,,,, pretty sure I already know it too.
"Fluff",,,,,,something that belongs stuffed in a pillow,,,,only place I wanna see it,,,,or feel it. | |
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| Deal Breakers......
Posted: 11/6/2009 4:43:45 PM | I made the acquaintance of woman and we went for a bicycle ride down the highway. We didn't have much opportunity to talk as we cycled so it was a surprise to me that as we came to a tourist accommodation business along the shore she said "that place looks like a slum!"
While the place isn't Club Med it is a respectable business and it sure doesn't deserve that kind of snobbish comment.
She had no way of knowing beforehand that the owners are my personal friends. They are really good people, and I know how hard they have worked to build up the place.
After that display of contempt she'll have to find a new cycling partner. | |
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| Deal Breakers......
Posted: 11/7/2009 4:14:46 PM | First Date Dealbreakers
When you don't have a car
When your clothes have stains on them
If they don't have a job or don't want a job
If you talk during the movie
If you don't believe I am not hungry or force me to eat
If you talk about famous people you know or how much stuff you own
If you answer your phone and talk for more than 2 minutes regarding anything NOT important
If you don't like animals
If you talk about your ex
If you aren't curteous to waiters/customer service people, say your please and thank yous!!!
If he smokes or talks about drugs
If they've been to jail
If there are long periods of silence
If you've slept with ANY person I've known
When you are indecisive
If your driving gives me motion sickness
If you roll your eyes at me
yah... thats all I can think of for now... =) I'm shocked I've even had a boyfriend | |
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| Deal Breakers......
Posted: 11/7/2009 5:00:33 PM |
If you roll your eyes at me
Oh,oh.
Forgive me,,,,but while reading half your list,,,, I did. Really. But,,,in saying that,,,,I'll let you come back after 10 years and let you change that list of yours. Don't worry,,,,you will,,,,promise. Time does that to us. | |
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