| full-time single dads Posted: 2/22/2006 12:46:54 AM | Hello Everyone;
I'm a fulltime single dad of a beautiful little girl who is turning 3 yrs old in April/2006,I thought I had lead a pretty amazingly full life prior to my daughter arriving in it,But to all that will read this and post a reply here...............
THIS JOURNEY HAS BEEN THE MOST REWARDING AND ENRICHING HUMAN EXPERIENCE I'VE EVER HAD.IT'S ABOUT BEING SELFLESS AND NOT PUTTING ANYTHING AHEAD OF YOUR CHILDREN,CUZ IF YOU DO...THERE'S A CHANCE THAT YOU'LL LOSE SOME PART OF THEM IF WE DO,IF NOT ALL OF THEM. SO LETS RE-AFFIRM OUR COMMITTMENT TO OUR KIDS AND TO EACH OTHER,THEY REALLY DESERVE IT AND THEY TRUELY ARE OUR FUTURE.
GOD BLESS
we are not alone,we have our kids g/j | |
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| full-time single dads Posted: 5/20/2006 4:11:14 AM | | Interesting you should say that.I have found that single women and single mothers dont appreciate that my kids and me come as a package .The single mothers expect me to abandon my kids and take on theirs instead,Seem women are much more unreasonable about men with kids than men are about women with kids | |
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| full-time single dads Posted: 5/20/2006 6:29:12 AM | I am a single dad of two girls and although i do enjoy being a parent i have only one question,,,,when does this fk,n job ever end,,lol jk
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| full-time single dads Posted: 5/20/2006 7:00:12 AM | smoothburner answer to the second part of you ? i dont date single dads with young children simply because i had my own children quite young and even if they are not looking for a replacement mum you still become a big part of each others children if you get together and things work out you become a family and i dont want the responsibilty of young children anymore. i love my kids to bits as any parent does but i am also looking forward to the day when although i will alway be around for them when needed i wont be resposible for them and do some of the things i didnt do ie travelling and im retraining to be a nurse at the moment so when my son leaves school i will just of finished my studies as well. if the guys had older children simlar to my youngest age then that would be fine as i am not bothered about being around other children just not the little stage again. good luck to all single parents we all deserve a little me time and this is a good way to chat | |
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| full-time single dads Posted: 5/20/2006 9:31:20 PM | | single father of two boys 2 & 3. Single dads need to stand together and change laws and views.http://www.single-dads.com | |
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| full-time single dads Posted: 5/21/2006 12:13:12 AM | I find you single dady's ROCK!! And should be cause being single mom isn't easy so I know where you men are at. I wonder how men feel about us single moms? | |
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| full-time single dads Posted: 5/21/2006 9:32:50 AM | Single Dad with 4 kids at home. 22 year old just finished a 2 year degree. 21 year old finishing a 4 year degree this June. 12 year old and an 8 year old. Luckily the older two help out alot. The neighbors too. Boomslang | |
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| full-time single dads Posted: 5/21/2006 10:11:00 AM | single dads are hot I think it is awesome that you take care of your kids instead of run from your responsibilities. I only like to date single dads  | |
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| full-time single dads Posted: 5/21/2006 2:20:15 PM | Just raising my hand... Single parent dad and lovin it... | |
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| full-time single dads Posted: 5/21/2006 6:01:28 PM | | Im a single dad of 2 teenage boys. I have raised them for 5 yrs by myself and wouldnt have it any other way. I wouldnt mind having someone to share my time and life with but Ive found that women dont want a single dad. Especially when they are teenagers. Dont ask me why you would think that a man raising his children would be respected with all the deadbeat dads out there.Anyway good luck and hang in there its worth it | |
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| full-time single dads Posted: 5/31/2006 3:36:31 AM | hey guys, i'm a single mom and looking for a single dad, and i though there is not any i live in edmonton any one close by. will be lucky to meet him | |
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| full-time single dads Posted: 6/9/2006 7:16:01 AM | | Of coures they are more single dads, my brother is one even though i always have his daughter. I'm a single mom seeking a single dad so if your interesed i guess i'll here from you. | |
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| full-time single dads Posted: 6/9/2006 7:17:57 AM | | I would NEVER tell a man to leave his kids ever. I take it as a bonus. I never met a dad who had there kids with them. So no all women do not feel like that. | |
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| full-time single dads Posted: 6/9/2006 8:08:06 AM | I'm a full-time single dad to a 3 and 5 year old. I had kids later in life and many of the women close to my age who've had children are celebrating their kids' teenage years and looking forward to them moving out.
I keep running into a stereotype that single parents are women. Even in the stories to share with children to help explain separation and divorce, the images are of dad packing his bags and leaving. Has anyone come across children's stories that present a more balanced approach?
Cheers, R. | |
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| full-time single dads Posted: 6/9/2006 4:34:32 PM | | Got three kids at home. Raised them on my own for the last eight years. I feel privaleged to have done so. Long may it contiue... well I would like my life back sometime | |
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| full-time single dads Posted: 6/9/2006 4:56:58 PM | i think single dads rock
its soooo sweet to see that not all guys have to disappear when they did something they "didnt" mean too
that happens too often all over the world and im glad to see that some have enough balls to stay and do something ....
that is my thought | |
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| full-time single dads Posted: 6/9/2006 7:40:38 PM | | Well i'm a single dad..Raised three from my marrage...had two more of my own...took in a few foster children ,and a few strays along the way .....kids keep you young....... gotta love them | |
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| full-time single dads Posted: 6/10/2006 11:49:56 AM | | I am also a full-time dad.I had both of my children for a few years ,but my daughter moved out with her mom,when she turned 12.My 9 yr old boy still lives with me , and now I have a family living with me temporarily, including my 2 neices. Can get hecktic,haha.Great most of the time. my daughter still stays with me , for alot of weekends.Guess I wasn`t too hard on them,growing up, haha! I know that it does tend to put a hitch in the dating thing,but who is in a hurry? Just have to make the best of it , and enjoy your time,before they get too old to hang out with you. | |
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| full-time single dads Posted: 6/24/2006 9:10:21 PM | | to me single guys are a rare breed and a god send and to me lets us single moms know that there is a few guys that arent dead beats when it comes to their relationship not working out that they are willing to step up to the bat and take care of their responsabilities my ex doesnt even do anything with his boys any more because hes basically chosen alcohol over them oh well as they say his lose and time goes on later alpinette | |
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| full-time single dads Posted: 6/24/2006 9:16:37 PM | | it doesnt and even though it sounds like you were joking god bless you and all the other single dads out there for being there for your children i know times can get crazy being a single mom myself but we get thru later alpinette | |
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| full-time single dads Posted: 6/24/2006 9:27:14 PM | Hello all I am new but just wanted to say that I also am a single full time dad and love it. It is no different than being a single mom and yes it is rough at times but the effort is worth it for it is not about us it is about them. Between work and raising them it does not leave us parents much time for personal life but would not trade a single day for a day when I could not be there for my son. My ex is a dead beat and is rarely involved with anything in my sons life or even sees him but thats her loss. It is nice to know that there are men like me here who raise thier kids....way cool  | |
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| full-time single dads Posted: 6/24/2006 9:43:57 PM | you know there arent many single dads out there but i think they should meet the single moms and help each other out ... i think its great that there are men in the world who actually want to be with there kids | |
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| full-time single dads Posted: 6/24/2006 10:17:01 PM | | wow...well i dont agree...seems the other way around, but maybe u like i have met the wrong single parents..idk...good luck though, like myself, there are some good ones out here ~ Z | |
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