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Posted: 9/17/2006 2:42:55 PM | | Dont let them get to you Fiesty...To be honest i really dont think guys have any idea what sizes are really....i once spoke to a guy who ran a bbw forum on a well know site he asked me why no one had joined his forum..so off i went and had a look ..only to find he actualy thought that a bbw started at a size 8 and ended at a size 14 ....Now i ask you how is that for thick as a plank..... | |
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Posted: 9/17/2006 3:02:10 PM | Thats the 'one size fits all' brigade lol. How I hate those 'one size' garments.
The other thing is, when are people going to realise that a size x for a 4ft 5" person is gonna be different for the same size x with a 5ft 5" woman????? We're all different shapes and sizes. My sister is 5ft 10" tall and weighs over 11 stone but is only a size 12. It's all relative! 11 stone on a much shorter lady may look completely different. | |
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Posted: 9/17/2006 3:06:21 PM | I think the trouble with guys is they are so up themselves that if you have something in your eye they think you are winking at them........
I'm not a BBW I'm an overweight small person.........and If I was attracted to someone I would go over and say hi. I am usually attracted to inteligent funny nice guys though so I don't really look at their size!!.....well maybe  | |
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Posted: 9/17/2006 4:53:05 PM | I think that everyone is entitled to their view's Ryan, Techno and Vin.
With guys it is not their views that bother people but the way they portray it in writing which seems insensitive!
But as I say each to their own, you go for what you like whether it be a slim, fat or other person it is up to each individual. | |
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Posted: 9/18/2006 6:16:31 AM | MSG 55 Good point you raised, there, about how difficult it can be to convey our thoughts on this and any other issue. As techno said, if he uses a term to describe someone, and someone takes offence, they had no way of telling as to how he actually used that term. We have little scope for nuance on the threads, which I why I frequently ask people to clarify thier posts in case I have misinterpreted it.
We all have our opnions on this issue, and it's more important to respect those opions rather than complain about them. | |
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Posted: 9/18/2006 6:35:12 AM | My sincerest apologies to the girls above...I never meant to offend.... I meant to just show that all girls arent the same shape because they wear the same dress size.....
Am suitably chastised and will go sit in a corner with my dumba$$ cap on  | |
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Posted: 9/18/2006 6:36:59 AM | ^^^^ 
Scot has hit the nail on the head, a lot more concisely than i did  | |
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Posted: 9/18/2006 6:51:08 AM | | Well I always knew men were thick , now I know they are fickle as well | |
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Posted: 9/18/2006 7:21:20 AM | Google search for dating bbw, and you'll get plenty of sites for bbw dating.
Me personally, those who've seen my posts know that I don't care for walking matchsticks... those girls freak me out dude.
I'll be blissfully happy to marry a nice curvacious natural redhead, and raise a family with her.
*goes back to sleep to continue dreaming* | |
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Posted: 9/18/2006 10:08:26 AM | As a fully fledged BBW, I do always check out a man's profile carefully before responding. If they say they want a "tall slim blonde" or "you must look after your figure" then obviously I wouldn't respond even if we had everything else in common.
Otherwise I think the fact that you're here and looking means that all you can do is check out my profile and then delete the message. | |
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Posted: 9/18/2006 10:13:27 AM | | I'll hump anything within reason as long as we can both fit on the bed | |
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Posted: 9/18/2006 10:50:26 AM | Firstly Ayatollata Punani
As a women i actualy find your post offesive and over all quite sad,that you have so little regard for women let alone yourself even an animal has more respect for who it has sex with..I can actualy see you being a very lonley man unless, you change your views on women....
After searching the profiles on here i have found very few men who openly admit to likeing bigger ladies, I would never mail any man unless i knew what he was looking for....Yes ive had a few male msg me but ever single time i check there profile its says looking for a tall slim blonde or someone of average build....So why are you msg me ??? If you like big women then hey say it on your profile..then at least we know your not one of the secret bbw men who hide away so your friends dont know....So unless you say on your profile you will get a firm no answer from me everytime..... | |
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Posted: 9/18/2006 10:57:26 AM | | I've heard that men pay to be squashed by big fat women, reminded one man apparently of his housekeeper - the time she sat on him because he had been naughty, when he was a child of course, not as a grown man. | |
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Posted: 9/18/2006 10:57:29 AM | MSG 63 I thought you might be pleased that guys who are obviously looking for this "tall, slim blonde" have chosen to message you. To me, it shows they have enjoyed your profile, and consider you worthy of contact DESPITE the fact that you don't appear to suit their physical ideal. In that respect, they have deduced that your personality, warmth and charm are far greater than your implied physical "drawbacks" (I use the term knowing that you accept that you don't fit their particular physical bill)...and I say good luck to both them and you!
I am, however, sorry that you failed to appreciate the humour in MSG 62.... | |
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Posted: 9/18/2006 10:58:00 AM | | Excuse me elidia, but the women who enjoy my company in the bedroom are on the same wavelength as me, they know exactly what the rules are and wouldn't be there if they didn't want to play by them. Just because you may choose to live by some sort of pantomime dream code, it doesn't mean everybody has to, and so whilst you sit there waiting for your prince charming, I shall be getting laid and enjoying every minute of it, as will my playmates. | |
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Posted: 9/18/2006 10:59:59 AM | | I think men are scared to admit that they are attracted to big women simply because of what society will say about them. This thing about they only want someone who looks after themselves................well I excersise every day and eat a healthy balanced diet and am very active especially in my job (which is for 40 hours of the week). So what do you blokes class as "looking after yourself"???? There is a breed of man who doesnt hide the fact they like bbw's and its them that I find myself attracting the most........but I am simply not attracted to them at all and never have been. lol | |
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Posted: 9/18/2006 11:06:29 AM | Woaah isnt this a touchy subject?! Ooh arent we all a wee bunch of firebrands on here! lol
Well to be perfectly honest, i have never fancied big fat men! id be scared of them crushing me to death!
My bloke is about 15-16 stone, but he is 6ft 4 and muscular so looks yummy! But any bigger and he would just be fat!! lol then i wouldnt fancy him any more then r'ship would go off the boil!
He has also said that if i was to put on loadsa weight and become like a size 20-22 he wouldnt find me attractive and unfanciable and then there'd be no hope for our sex life!! lol
Im not saying this to demean bigger men or ladies, as all people have different tastes and fancies, as mentioned in several previous posts. This is only mine and my partners opinions and not really worth owt in the big bad world but i just thought id tell them!! hehe
Big can be and is beautiful and there is nowt wrong with being a bbw, its all horse for courses!
think ill leave u with one of my all time fave quotes from 'the ricki lake show'....
'bigger the cushion, better the pushing baby'!!! | |
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Posted: 9/18/2006 11:12:24 AM | elidia - Saying no to someone just because they do not specify that they are looking for the larger lady on their profile may just be shooting yourself in the foot as you may miss a chance with someone who may really like you. Many profiles on here do not state any preferences as to size (mine for one) but only the type of person that they are looking for. It's like I put on an earlier post "I look at the whole package - not just the dress size" I'm not saying that I prefer a petite/small/medium/large/extra large - Because I don't really have any preference, all that I am looking for is someone who is genuine to share happiness - and I'm sure that there are many people who are looking for the same.
Unless the messages are insulting, why not answer them? As you never know, but it seems that you have more of an issue with your size than the people who message you. | |
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Posted: 9/18/2006 11:20:40 AM | I always reply to messages as I believe you never know whats around the next corner in your life! But its annoying when you dont get a reply back!!!!!!!!! lol
Sammi - just to clarify I am not touchy about it and I think that as has been said before the way things are written on here can be misunderstood. I would also like to know what would happen if you were to gain weight due to having children like many women do or have an illness like pcos (which doesnt always make ppl gain weight straight away) would your partner leave you?? I once dated a bloke who told me if I lost weight he would leave me. Guess what I said..............on yer bike then m8!!!!!!!!!! lol | |
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Posted: 9/18/2006 11:21:34 AM | | My favourite line to people is "don't be fooled by the fact i have cheekbones" | |
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Posted: 9/18/2006 11:27:16 AM | Lilmiss - i wasnt referring to u at all when i used my opening line! Twas merely a lil ice breaker to start off my very long post with!!
And even if i do have more children, i would hope i would lose the baby blubber and get back to my pre pregnancy size ( not rushed tho! need to stay healthy for breastfeeding purposes!!)
And as for the medical conditions theory.. i do sympathise with ur plight immensely and i know how tough it is to lose weight when its out of ur hands ie in medication or an illness causing weight gain.. but it doesnt always make u put on weight, look at victoria beckham, she too has pcos and so does louise redknapp (ooh im noticing a pattern with the footballers wives!)
So please dont take offence at anything i say as it is merely my own opinion and what do i know eh?!!
EDIT// Just re-read ur post & u already noted about it not always causing weight gain so my bad!! and my apologies!!! | |
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Posted: 9/18/2006 6:16:54 PM | Confused here!? 36 E(?) to 'balance you out' (?) ...... 5'1/size 12/you topple over(?!?)
Yeah ....... I'm laughing too ...... but this was 'unkind'. | |
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Posted: 9/18/2006 6:49:45 PM | Is BBW bigger than A Few Extra Pounds.. or is BBW someone who has A Few Extra Pounds but is beautiful?
Or someone very tall | |
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Posted: 9/19/2006 1:15:38 AM | ^^^^ Susie B, if you had actually read all of the posts on here you would have realised why i made this point  | |
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