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Posted: 2/15/2007 9:01:06 AM | The thing I cannot understand nor will I ever what happend to the part were all people did that one kind of silp pass a few people? Its about who you are not what surley a concept people seem to forget these days for some odd reason.
but answering one size dosent fit all as we have all found out, the funny thing I found out was at xmas I got 2 pairs of trouses a pair for work and a pair of jeans in the shop they fit me. weather they have a shirink manchine in the shop god only knows beacuse when I got home they didnt fit, unless the fool of the shop assitiant got the wrong pairs when I paid for them which may have been somewhat hard as they were in my hand all the time, or she was Paul Daniles in disguse lol and whipped them out of my hand when i wasnt looking I dont know?????.
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Posted: 2/15/2007 10:01:56 AM | | Im not a bbw im just fat lol i know that and quite frankly i dont give a damn im happy and i think other people see that, and in fact i dont care what other people look like i honestly think its more about personality. | |
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Posted: 2/18/2007 3:49:20 PM | well you see a lot on here say that but they dont mean it. I think and this only me that their all looking for some kind of cardboard cutout pitty life isnt the same then they would all have a perfect world to live in and us lot would not be here wrting and replying back to a thred.
I put this together once when I was doing a consumer behavour course at uni
``If I was a percect being living in a perfect world I would not be here now - however I am an Imprect being living in an imperfect world so here I am'' | |
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Posted: 2/19/2007 6:39:02 AM | Yes your quite right about paying more for fashionable clothing, I am a bit over weight but I am tall nealry 6ft so I carry mine well but these women on here in the UK (Not al thou, there are some deceint real people on here that do look futher than the pic) that is say their not shallow but it's really funny they will talk to you then when they see you picure come back with these words ``theres no spark'' the amount of times this has been said to me I could now run i grinding manchine of it but its true I think they should put on their profiles they are shallow says us al a lot of time and effot would you not think.
There use to be an very unsulting thing people use to say and it can be appiled to anything goes like this `` I might be overweight but I can do something about that what you going to do about...................and you can fit anything in there; a few good ones might be;
What are you going to do about the lack of your personality?
What are you going to do about shallowness you have?
What are you going to do about not being a real person?
What are you going to do about wanting a cardboard cut out
What are you going to do about wanting a man you can show off to your friends like one of your charm bracelets?
the list is endless the other thing I cant still fathom on here as well is this;
people will talk to you and then when they bore of you they throw you away like a bag from the supermarketm its like you will do till something better comes alone, havent they firured that the men are doing the same thing and so it goes on round and round and people like that give the rest of us a realy bad name. I can see why the realy decent people on here are careful I would be the same too. well I will get off my soap box now.
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Posted: 2/20/2007 2:28:29 PM | [I've just had it admitted to me in an e-mail that men love the idea of a voluptuous woman, just don't like being seen walking hand in hand with them]
Going back to message 114
I wish I had a £1 for everytime I've heard that 
I've found a lot of men who 'drool' over BBW's but are in a relationship/married to a size 12-14 female because they feel the need to be 'normal'!! BBW's are out of the shadows and standing big and proud - where they should be and not covering themselves in big baggy clothes  | |
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Posted: 1/29/2008 7:57:55 AM | can you please tell me what theses abbreviations mean? my head aches with trying to decipher text type messages, on here, but if your'e on about big women,then if someone prefers ample figures ,I dont think people have a problem approaching them,ample ladies usually come with a very approachable and bubbly personality | |
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Posted: 1/29/2008 8:02:16 AM | Read back in the thread it gives you the abbreviations, I think it may be the first page.
HTH. | |
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Posted: 1/29/2008 8:04:57 AM | BBW=Big Beautiful Woman
BHM=Big Handsome Male
I think, maybe ????
And BFH is ? Big Friendly Harry lol | |
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Posted: 1/29/2008 8:12:16 AM | Abbreviations again...tsk tsk 
Anyway, if the personality suits that's enough for me but If I had to choose a preference it would be BFH's any day of the week | |
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Posted: 1/29/2008 8:32:36 AM | fat and happy i say else do something abou it
im a large lady and i am happy although society says i have to be thin, i have joined a gym and am making slow steps towards losing weight but only for health reasons and for my childrens sake.
im happy in my skin it fits and obviously if i lose tons of weight itll just be saggy lol | |
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Posted: 1/29/2008 8:57:09 AM | | I'm over weight(noooooooo way i her you cry) and no I'm not happy but not because of what other ppl think but because of what i think,i don't want to be skinny because skinny to my on a woman is not right,i have friends that are skinny and unhappy they can't put on weight, wot gets me is ppl think cos your fat yr unfit well that's a load of BS i would say i was fitter that most of my skinny mates and the fact that I'm disabled and can't walk more than a few yards without pain makes ppl judge me as unfit and idle and I'm not,as for men not wanting to date a bbw then that's there choice,i wouldn't date a very overweight man and that's my choice,i prefer tall/short skinny men,each to there own,but there is no need for all the abuse that we can get just cos were big. | |
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Posted: 1/29/2008 12:26:41 PM | BBW stands for big bountiful woman, bountiful meaning quite a handful, but it has been changed by many to beautiful because, well, because big women are beautiful, if only they can get the confidence to believe in themselves.
Head high, dress well and not try to squeeze into clothes that show all the bulges, bit of make-up, and a huge great big s m i l e.
Pam xx
Big, but hopefully not for too long, but hopefully I won't become a miserable cow when slimmer! | |
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Posted: 1/29/2008 2:56:29 PM | I'm bigger and i think im sexy but thats my opinion,i think sexy comes from more than just how a person looks,its in thier personality.
For me theres nothing more sexy than a confident man who is happy in thier skin,i just think it oozes sex appeal.I think you need a pesonality aswell as attractiveness to be sexy,ive found men of all shapes n sizes to have something sexy about them. | |
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Posted: 1/29/2008 10:07:59 PM | I always thought that it meant Big Bodied Woman.. but wanted to be sure, just incase it meant 'breasts', not body.
So i asked one who used that term on her profile what it meant..
You know what she said?
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Posted: 1/30/2008 6:32:21 AM | If your big, in most cases ur fat and unhealthy. thats nothing to celebrate. go and lose some weight. most guys go for big woman cos they are easy because they have low self esteem and have big tits. thats the only reason. and these guys are perverts.
99% of guys on this site are perverts. im from the 1%.
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Posted: 1/30/2008 7:08:13 AM | hahahahahahahahahahaha
this coming from the person who doesnt have a pic on his profile? so what you hiding from then?? ginger hair, a big nose or a unibrow!!! you might want to change your profile to say size does matter personality un important
the point is it doesnt matter what you think beauty comes from within | |
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Posted: 1/30/2008 8:57:51 AM | I do refrain from messaging men who I find are very very attractive unless what they write on their profiles makes me think differently.
I also read profiles to see if they say what their 'ideal type is'- usually it says 'slim and athletic'- but I would rather see that than 'curvy' as I think the word has no solid definition.
I think a lot of people on here (from what I have read) reguard 'curvy' as just meaning having a bum and bigger breasts but being tiny everywhere else.
People heights arnt taken into consideration either most of the time. A person who is a size 16 and 5ft is going to look considerably bigger than sombody who is 6ft and a size 16....... | |
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Posted: 1/30/2008 9:24:03 AM |
~lillian~is~sexy~ said "the point is it doesnt matter what you think beauty comes from within"
...Is completely the right answer.
I'd much rather have a 'big' happy girl than a miserable size 10 for example... | |
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Posted: 1/30/2008 9:28:16 AM | Hi elidia
Im a bbw and would like to know the sites please....
Many thanks | |
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Posted: 1/30/2008 9:52:15 AM | Im very happy in my skin :) i dont approach men however not because i think they wont fancy me because im fat, but because i just dont approach men and prefer for them to approach me. :0)
Everyone has different preferences... Im large and tall... so i prefer tall men... some men prefer thin girls, some fat girls... hopefully someone i like will like me in return.
:)
and ali4mLondon
your big, in most cases ur fat and unhealthy. thats nothing to celebrate. go and lose some weight. most guys go for big woman cos they are easy because they have low self esteem and have big tits. thats the only reason. and these guys are perverts.
Im far from easy thanks, and dont know many larger ladies who are, mainly because like me they have some self esteem, my sense of self isnt reliant upon dropping my knickers for anyone who shows me some attention... perhaps you shouldnt generalise so much, i mean after all... you are hiding having no pic.. we could assume... youre ugly, boring, unintelligent and an arsehole... except in your case it wouldnt be assumption but truth.
:)
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Posted: 1/30/2008 12:46:13 PM | Four years ago, I was a size 24 ! Now I'm a size 12. I made a decision to lose the weight for health reasons ! I was a very happy size 24 and had more dates then than now ! But the truth is excess fat is not good for us ladies ! For no superficial reason just for health ! Being BBW and confident is a good thing but it is better to try and lose it if you can.  | |
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Posted: 1/30/2008 4:54:29 PM | im a big girl and over the years have experienced some very cruel remarks, looks etc. i had very very low self esteem (with guys) cause of the way i got treated at home. he was happy for me to be big as he assumed that i would stay with him as i had no confidence. i would talk away to guys in the pubs etc but never would i think they were interested in me - most likely one of the friends i was with which 99% of the time was correct.
however that changed 7 months ago when i joined here. i discovered there are guys out there who like us big girls and i only wish i had the confidence to do something years ago. | |
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Posted: 1/31/2008 3:33:31 PM | I'm not a small woman however it doesnt bother me that much!!!
I am loosing weight slowly for health reasons.
I swear it put guys off being big, however I wouldn't be attracted to a 'small' guy I'm talking weight here!!!
I say Love Handles all the way!!!!!! | |
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Posted: 1/31/2008 5:14:57 PM | | i am big. i am a woman .but as to weather i am beautiful i think its down to the beholder it all has to do with taste. the world would be a very strange place if we all liked the same things. me personally like men with bald heads but if a man with hair was to come into my life i wouldnt discount him as a partner just because he had hair . keep an open mind where love is concerned is cos its like lightning you just never know when, where, or who it can strike and 9 times out of 10 its not what we expect xxxx | |
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Posted: 2/3/2008 7:17:02 AM | | he seems a little confused that last guy,im taking it its a guy .ive found that larger ladies in the main, either friends or exes have always been real friendly, as they have no agenda and do not constantly feel as if they need to preen .and they are as a rule a better laugh to go out and have drinks etc .you dont listen ladies we loves ya xxxxxxxx | |
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