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Posted: 5/5/2008 2:22:57 PM | Hey Techno and everyone else thats has an opionion on this,
I would just like to say that I am quite happy to message anyone that I am attracted to, just because I am bigger that doesnt stop me.
If I am not there thing thats no skin off my nose, if we were all the same how boring would life be. I am not restricted in anyway by my size and havent had any problems attracting men. Its all about feeling confident and sexy in yourself. I love make up and clothes and always make an effort thats important to me as a women
Personally I am only attracted to slim men! thats just my preferance so men including Ryan are entitled to like just slim women!
As for labels label me what you like it really doesnt bother me! plenty of people better and worse Live life and be happy dont be dictated to by other people | |
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Posted: 5/5/2008 2:44:39 PM | Im a BBW.............
after all....I have a massive personality
A wide smile
A huge heart
An enormous sense of humour
and
Boobs big enough for most men to want to eat!!!!
Yep....Im a BBW! Does it hold me back........not at all!
My last partner was a competing bodybuilder with a 58" chesh, very handsome, very outgoing, incredibly vain and worked out every day ....he was proud to have someone as wonderful and sexy as me on his arm! And just in case youre wondering....it was me who ended it!
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Posted: 5/5/2008 6:07:16 PM | I'm a BBW and proud of it
i lost over 3st and still am classed as a BBW and still proud of it
It is up to the individual what size person they wish to date but never judge a book by its cover.
i have dated both slim and big guys and have found that its the person inside that attracts me the most | |
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Posted: 5/6/2008 12:51:25 AM |
I prefer to feel it going up to the hilt and too much cushioning can take this sensation away...or maybe I just need a pump
As the great departed one (Or is he?) once said...
Think thats my problem too, not too skinny though or its the other problem innit, cushion for the pushin ;-) | |
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Posted: 5/6/2008 9:31:47 AM | | I prefer them to the self absorbed stick insects that used to come into my salon | |
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Posted: 5/6/2008 10:54:19 AM | | Im definately classed as a BBW. Never felt restricted because of my size and consider myself confident and have enough about me to project my personality which enhances and compliments my outer packaging .. I hope lol. | |
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Posted: 5/9/2008 2:22:50 AM | isn't a voluptous woman a curvy woman.
im a size 16/18 now in january i was a size 24.
i got sick of the name calling and abuse received off the internet.
But at least i proved one thing, for the last year or so when i was at my biggest i never got any male attention, i lose 4 stone and all of a sudden im getting messages, and men falling over themselves to want to be my friend.
but that doesnt mean i will settle for anything, a lot of guys out there think they are gods gift to women, but frankly dont float a womans boat , and if your a bbw the first thing they attack is your weight, or refer to you as ugly.
no matter what size women we are we are all humans . | |
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Posted: 5/9/2008 2:51:23 AM | Im a BBW. :) If a man is attracted to me, great, if he isn't i'm not going to whine into my cornflakes about it.
We all have different things that we find attractive and its no good people calling others shallow just because they dont like a fat person? theyre entitled to their preferences so let them have them. The sooner we stop seeing ourselves as second choice so will they, you have to love yourself before anyone else can. And i do.
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Posted: 5/9/2008 3:19:18 AM | I wonder if I could be classed as a big handsome man?
I'm not fat all over, but I've got a beer belly. | |
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Posted: 5/16/2008 9:53:15 AM | | if u going to clone some men for bbws can u make sure he is over 45 in midlands single lol plzzz | |
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Posted: 5/16/2008 9:55:15 AM | | well done on yr lose of weight its a buxxer to keep off lol, | |
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Posted: 5/16/2008 10:09:04 AM | | vin u entitled to yr opinion and i agree with u each to their own it comes to how confident ppl are about theirselfes and i am confident,so i don,t give a flying fart wot others think lol, just does my head in ppl who want to change u b4 u even met good luck to u , and if u have a uncle spare wants a big sexy women let me know ha ha | |
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Posted: 5/16/2008 10:30:08 AM | | Some women are big and beautiful, some arent, some blokes are big and beautiful some arent. a person can be aesthetically beautiful but can actually be pigs. I think its extremely shallow to have a very basic physical description as a cut off point in choosing a partner, still those who want the trophy bird/bloke have a right to an opinion as well | |
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Posted: 5/16/2008 10:31:57 AM | Are there sites devoted to FEWs (fat enormous women)?
Yes mate all you have to do is surf. not the washoing powder, the internet all tastes are catered for | |
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Posted: 5/16/2008 10:38:28 AM | I have to say that in my experience women in their 18-30's tend to spend their time looking for the good looking guy who is what society tells them they should be going for. I constantly hear friends going on and on about "bird's got to be fit", I constantly fight the losing battle (9 guys against 1 isn't exactly easy). That's not only the guys, when I moved back to the UK I was shocked to see how the women are becoming just as shallow as the men if not worse! (I know I'm generalising and not everyone is like that)
I myself have never cared about my weight or cared about what others thought of me. The only time it ever gets to me is when I become the "friend" to those I fall for because I haven't got 20 other girls chasing after me and I don't look like the guys they have fantasised over in magazines. I used to be a lot bigger than I am now, I only lost weight because I wanted to have more energy and be able to do more. Now I've got so much energy I don't know what to do with it, it's great! Which is why I tend to be constantly happy! And after all isn't it how we feel on the inside that makes us attractive to the opposite sex?
I cant agree more with that most people have said! It is the person themselves which attracts someone and who a person is should be what we look for! Has anyone else noticed how it doesn't actually seem to happen in practice? I say this after having met someone who I got on with really well and had a great time with but things didn't go any further than friends becuase I wasn't stereotypically skinny!
It'd be great to live in an ideal world where people are judged by the who they are rather than the how they look! Then maybe the pretty boys with no personality would have to change their ways to meet women! | |
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| uk bbw's and bhm's
Posted: 5/17/2008 2:36:46 AM | if a guy's opening line to me is that he "loves bbw's" I'm not impressed.
I don't want to be liked just because I happen to fit into his particular fetish. What would happen if I lost weight - would he move on to the next BBW he could find? | |
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Posted: 5/22/2008 7:29:06 AM | | Maybe its just my opinion but i have always thought its what is inside the shell that counts the most. It doesnt matter how the outer wrapper looks if you ask me. I mean would you ever look at something still in the wrapper and say that looks great. No you wouldnt its when you get beyond the wrapper and and you find out whats there that you realise how good something is. A bbw that is confident in herself has to be one of the sexiest woman around and will always attract compliments like most confident women. Personally its the eyes do it for me and getting to know someone. | |
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