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coy
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Joined: 1/24/2005
Msg: 78 | |
| Should a woman get a boob job or have liposuction done just to please her man in the bedroom
Posted: 4/3/2005 9:55:38 AM | I am in agreement with Steve (lone56wolf)
i'd like to add that michael jackson has vitiligo, but he has taken the cosmetic surgery a bit too far now.
with regard to the question here, would not ask my partner to get either one done, but if she wants to get it done, i would talk with her about it and let her make up her own mind. having had many fake and real breasts in my face over the years, i could care less. i can appreciate both. i guess i sound like someone who enjoys wrestling even though it's fake. as for weight loss, if you're concerned about your health, you could get lipo, gastric bypass, or go with the good old fashioned diet & exercise.
there are so many other simple things people do, especially women, to try and change their appearance. most of those things don't even involve surgery, but should still raise an eyebrow and make them ask themselves what they really want. | |
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| Should a woman get a boob job or have liposuction done
Posted: 4/3/2005 10:37:41 AM | I don't think it is necessary...................
However, if its a matter of bread earning for one only then one should go for this choice.
For Actresses, Singers, Models...... etc etc
Normal people don't care about it.
Majority of men would still see other women Breasts even after their WIVES have beautiful BREASTS ........................................ | |
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| Should a woman get a boob job or have liposuction done
Posted: 4/3/2005 11:40:49 AM | | For me their would be no point. Whatever gives a woman pleasure. I really don’t care if they are regulation NBA size or smaller than my kid brothers. My mouth and tongue are there to make her feel good not because of the plush furniture. | |
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| Should a woman get a boob job or have liposuction done
Posted: 4/3/2005 12:07:30 PM | My girls are fine the way they are.....
Little bit o' exercise and they would be looking even better...
I need to hit the floor and do 50 a few times a day.....
Ugh...exercise...I will walk again now that it is warm.
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| Should a woman get a boob job or have liposuction done
Posted: 4/3/2005 12:32:38 PM | | I am totally againest implants and liposuction. Period. It is potentially dangerous, and most don't give a rat's ass about that aspect of it. I happen to care about people, whether you believe it or not, and I've been around the medical communityl. Implants from my point of view are a big mistake. But it's your life. | |
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| Should a woman get a boob job or have liposuction done
Posted: 4/3/2005 6:48:36 PM | Ok... Here is a new.. well not new, but not mentioned spin...
There are always going to be exceptions... so I am officially acknowledging those now.
First of all... If a guy is so classless as to even suggest it... ladies, I am not normally a violent man, but find his bowling ball, golf clubs, or other suitable weapon, and let have it upside the head a couple of times to get his attention, then explain the nicities of respect to him.
EXCEPTION to the above: I mention it, only because I am aware that it happens... and someone has to be willing to take the heat for making the "unpopular" comments. Tin_Guys can take a lot of heat if necessary, so what the heck.
If a small bossomed lady is so obsessed with her lack of size that she is constantly drawing attention to thier lack of size to her guy, he is well within his right to suggest that she do something about it... Or ask that she do something about it, so that she will feel better with herself. To be put in the position of constantly being in the hotseat because of a self-percieved flaw is not very comfortable either.
Now... having said all that... the other side of the spin....
Unless a person.. male or female... has had something happen to them suddenly... emergency surgery, accident... were thier appearance has been drastically altered to the point that when they look in the mirror and say, "thats not me"... I would suggest that surgery is never the answer to a lack of self confidence.
If you can not be confident within your own skin, then you need to find a way to be satisfied with yourself. Surgery will never fix it. If you lacked the so much self esteem that you "needed" surgery to fix it, you will then find yourself wondering if this person or that person would still like you if you hadn't had the surgery in the first place.
If you are happy with yourself, and feel like "enhancing" who you are... by all means, if you can afford it, and are satisfied taking the risk. But not to find "self-esteem".. It does not work. It is just another horrible myth. A very expensive, heart breaking, horrible myth.
I am going to open one other can of worms here.... In the form of a related question. If a couple are together,... and SHE decides to have augmentation.... do you think she should be discussing it with him, and getting his input on the subject. My answer for the record, is that I think she should talk it over with him. I realize that it is her body, and she is free to do with it as she pleases... sort of... but lets face it. A dramtic change can have an impact on the relationship. Just as I think he should be discussing any "changes" with her before he runs off and gets an "enhancement" | |
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RitzNB
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Joined: 3/16/2005
Msg: 88 | |
| Should a woman get a boob job or have liposuction done
Posted: 4/3/2005 10:01:54 PM | tin man :
I am going to open one other can of worms here.... In the form of a related question. If a couple are together,... and SHE decides to have augmentation.... do you think she should be discussing it with him, and getting his input on the subject. My answer for the record, is that I think she should talk it over with him. I realize that it is her body, and she is free to do with it as she pleases... sort of... but lets face it. A dramtic change can have an impact on the relationship. Just as I think he should be discussing any "changes" with her before he runs off and gets an "enhancement"
I think the woman should discuss it with the man before making the decision. Partly out of respect and also to find out how he feels about it. If the man is attracted to a woman with smaller boobs that might impact how he feels about her physically/sexually after that. This might sound shallow but it's true. Lots of women who get this type of surgery will flaunt their new boobs. They figure it they paid for them then why not show them off. They often times will wear more revealing clothes that will attract male attention. How will this impact the relationship. Will the man become jealous or insecure. Possibly. Maybe he might like the fact that men are drooling over his wife/girlfriend but that he's the one going home with her. They can look but not touch. Sometimes there's alot more to it then meets the eye. If they can't reach an agreement about the surgery then maybe the woman can hold off with it for a short while. The bottom line is that only she can make the decision to go through with it or not. It's her body. She should take his feelings into consideration but she gets the last word. | |
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RitzNB
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Joined: 3/16/2005
Msg: 90 | |
| Should a woman get a boob job or have liposuction done
Posted: 4/18/2005 9:29:46 AM | For starters a man shouldn't ask me out if he's not physically attracted to me. He can see what I look like. If it's not to his liking he should move onto the next lady. Men shouldn't ask a lady out with the assumption that she'll change for him.
Example : I hear men say this all the time. She has a pretty face. It's too bad she's heavy or overweight. They then proceed to ask the lady out in hopes that she'll drop a few pounds. Then she'll meet THEIR critieria. What's up with that. If the lady was overweight to begin with then accept this. Either you can deal with it or not. Usually these men have weight to loose themselves. | |
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RitzNB
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Joined: 3/16/2005
Msg: 91 | |
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| Should a woman get a boob job or have liposuction done just to please her man in the bedroom
Posted: 6/15/2006 9:46:56 PM | i'm sure people will have something to say about this but When I am done school and have a great career and the money comes rolling in lol.......I plan on getting liposuction if I have not lost weight by then........then a boob job maybe....but a good one
I would get lipo or a boob job right now if I had enough money. they used to give gastric bypass surgery for free in Canada if you were diabetic by the way........
I wish. | |
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| Should a woman get a boob job or have liposuction done
Posted: 6/15/2006 10:01:44 PM | | Getting any kind of surgury is risky; things can and have gone wrong in such kinds of surgeries. If you can avoid surgury, it would be best. If there are some medical reasons such as excessive breast size needing reduction due to causing excessive back pain for example, then it may be appropriate. It is best to discuss such matters with a medical doctor and specialists first though, in order to discuss issues and determine an appropriate course of action. | |
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| Should a woman get a boob job or have liposuction done just to please her man in the bedroom
Posted: 6/16/2006 2:15:47 AM | Why are boob jobs and liposuction always shoved into the same basket.
Boob jobs are cosmetic unless that are actually boob reduction to cure back strain.
Obesity has been formally recognised as a nationwide health problem and , while exercies and diet, are excellent ways of avioding putting on any further weight they are the least successful methods of reducing existing weight. Liposuction is.
Would I have lipo to save my life.? Like a shot. | |
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| Should a woman get a boob job or have liposuction done
Posted: 6/16/2006 2:26:35 AM | The only time anyone should have cosmetic surgery is if it will make them feel better about themselves. I could not imagine asking someone I cared about to go through surgery to change their looks.
A man that is that concerned with how large or small your breasts are, isn't worth the time of day much less spending thousands of dollars and going through all that pain just to have bags of salt water implanted in your chest. | |
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