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 apollo19

Joined: 9/10/2006
Msg: 76
Are some people meant to be alone forever ?
Posted: 9/30/2006 2:05:08 AM
Their have been times when i have got a bit down and thought i am not going to meet someone, not the sort of one i want, but its unreal you have to get out of that way of thinking, stop expecting people to come to you. Even in the bible it says a man has to look for a wife, if you want the someone worth haveing you have to search out for that special someone they are not going to fall out of the sky into your lap. So get those emails out.
Men often want more than just a pretty face, a pretty face may capture a man, but to keep one you have to have an attractive personality be loving and caring. The same goes for men as well. Mean narrow minded people are a turn off most often.
 kitkat111

Joined: 9/24/2006
Msg: 77
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Are some people meant to be alone forever ?
Posted: 9/30/2006 6:37:27 AM
hi,ive often felt miserable at not finding the right guy for me.i have had many opportunities in the past with guys i have known and met but ive never felt it was completely right. many guys who have been interested but i havent felt the same-there has to be some sort of chemistry for me..now of course as time goes by i think of my past relationships and wonder if i made some mistakes..i am 36 and feeling very fed up that things will never work out for me in my personal life.work is fine and i have my own flat and nice car and have nice friends.
i am finding though that i am avoiding seeing my friends because i dont want to talk about another failed relationship...i did see someone recently for 3 months but then he said that he didnt think he was ready for a relationship.i was hurt but didnt let it show.
 javlin4u

Joined: 7/9/2005
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Posted: 9/30/2006 9:36:58 AM
Would it be so bad if that were the case? I mean, you've got to look at the positives in any situation. I honestly don't see anything wrong with the dating scene (except the constant BS and games), but seriously...? There's NOTHING wrong with being alone. How many movies have you gone to by yourself? Meals your treated yourself to at a restaraunt?

Are some people meant to be alone forever...? Yes. They're called preists and nuns. Hermits are by definition "alone"... umm... ... ...but other than that? I personally think there's someone for everyone, but you have to realize---90% of relationships fail! And that other 10% who "make it" 60% will get divorced in the first ten years. Then that other 40%? Well, 30% of them get divorced by 15 years... ... ...

Given a long enough time-line nothing is permenant.

Enjoy being single, stop chasing butterfly's and some day one will find you.

(How's that for a rhorical response!?!?)
 apollo19

Joined: 9/10/2006
Msg: 79
Are some people meant to be alone forever ?
Posted: 10/1/2006 11:27:09 AM
I have finished with that bloke i was dating he was rude to me and i am not taking it, anyway, I am a good diver, look on the bright side. Don,t let the buggers get you don,t life is too short.
 chucklike2please

Joined: 9/10/2006
Msg: 80
Are some people meant to be alone forever ?
Posted: 11/25/2006 8:00:38 AM
no there somone out there everyone,the sea is huge and there pentyoffish out there for everyone,somtimes we all got go through hard times and relationships to find him or her, its hard at times but you find somone,dont give up keep nocking those walls down you find someone
 contex

Joined: 2/26/2005
Msg: 81
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Posted: 11/25/2006 8:29:09 AM
I think i am one of those that are going to be alone . I am a nice guy , good job ( for a long time ) , self supportive . I treat people the way i want to be treated . I have been divorced for over 20 yrs ( ex-wife treated me like crap ) , have had a few girlfriends along the way but they all thought they could do better ( I guess ) or were more interested in someone else .
Most women now days don't even give me a chance . The few women that i do message on here don't even reply at all . I am tired of going places by myself so I don't really go anywhere to meet women , unless you count my weekly shopping at Walmart , LOL . I live in a town where there are mostly cowgirls looking for cowboys ( and i am not one ) .
 2a4r5i225

Joined: 4/3/2006
Msg: 82
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Posted: 11/25/2006 8:32:32 AM
Hi, It seems like it at times, but know one is meant to be alone forever, for some it just takes longer to find someone than other people.
 chucklike2please

Joined: 9/10/2006
Msg: 83
Are some people meant to be alone forever ?
Posted: 8/4/2007 10:07:24 PM
IAM STILL SINGLE 35 MICHIGAN, I HAVENT GIVE UP ON THIS SITE YET BUT AT TIMES I WISH TO PUT IN TRASH LOL BUT KEEP GOING CAUSE ONE DAY SOMEONE EXCEPT ME FOR ME , AND BEEN ON THIS SITE FOR YEAR
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