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| What would you do if you found your guy was looking at porn on internet?
Posted: 9/24/2006 1:36:02 PM | Well Jazzgirl2006,
Honestly it sounds to me that you and this guy are not a match at all. Sure, nothing is wrong with looking at porn or innocent flirting on the internet, but you are clearly not kewl with that. He is not the one for you at all. Find another guy. You are a very attractive, decent virgo gal. He sounds like he may be libra, saggitarius or an aquarian. That certainly would explain his behaviour, lol. Very few virgos are interested in porn. Find yourself a nice Taurus man or perhaps Cancer or another Virgo. You don't need to settle hun! | |
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| What would you do if you found your guy was looking at porn on internet?
Posted: 9/24/2006 1:36:49 PM | Well Jazzgirl2006,
Honestly it sounds to me that you and this guy are not a match at all. Sure, nothing is wrong with looking at porn or innocent flirting on the internet, but you are clearly not kewl with that. He is not the one for you at all. Find another guy. You are a very attractive, decent virgo gal. He sounds like he may be libra, saggitarius or an aquarian. That certainly would explain his behaviour, lol. Very few virgos are interested in porn. Find yourself a nice Taurus man or perhaps Cancer or another Virgo. You don't need to settle hun! | |
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| What would you do if you found your guy was looking at porn on internet?
Posted: 9/24/2006 3:16:06 PM | | In the whole scheme of things looking at porn on a website is pretty mild.... let him get on with it.... men apparently think about sex every six seconds so believe me they probably need to use a bit of outside stimulation. However if he has to pay to view the porn i would be checking my credit card bill..... Cos if he was making you pay for it then if it was me all hell would break out.....lol. | |
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| What would you do if you found your guy was looking at porn on internet?
Posted: 9/24/2006 5:43:15 PM | | My partner and i look at porn at diffrent times and sometimes together... I am pregnant, I see nothing wrong with looking at pron. We offten just chat to others of the opposite sex just to find out some tips ect... Even though we have a GREAT sex life! I think you need to sit down with him and chat about it... | |
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| What would you do if you found your guy was looking at porn on internet?
Posted: 9/25/2006 6:30:44 PM | Jazzgirl2006,
I'm a Cancer and my partner is Aquarise that really has not much to do with us, but i know when he gets pi$$ed off he really get pi$$ed off. We have a great sex life together because we make it special, we do diffrent things now and then ect... What kind of porn was he watching? I know i use to watch alot of anal porn because i hadn't tryed it and wanted to. So we tryed it and do it everynow and then... I was watchin porn all day yesterday doesn't mean i was cheating on him, i was bored and you know in the mood but i still did nothing. He came home from work and watched a movie then we went to bed later. It's all about being in the right mood. | |
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| What would you do if you found your guy was looking at porn on internet?
Posted: 9/25/2006 6:35:28 PM | | Yeah, lol, us Libras are notorious for flirting and cheating and we are very visual. Librans are just born flirts. We do it without realizing it sometimes. Venus is our planet too, so we are suckers for love and romance. Usually can't live without it. So I really hope you don't take it personally that your boyfriend is flirting/looking at porn/and doing God knows what else online, lol. I'm sure it's nothing about you and the relationship between you. But if it bothers you , I still think you should find someone more suitable to your tastes. | |
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| What would you do if you found your guy was looking at porn on internet?
Posted: 9/25/2006 6:43:27 PM | Colorado_cuddles:
this is where is disagree, Comunication is lacking in many relationships thats why they break up! It doesn't really matter what star sign you are. have you ever read your start sign for the week and it has been wrong??? I'm a bit of a mixed religon. I beleive in God but i also believe in budisum and alot of many other religons because most of them want one thing peace! I know i look at porn and so does my partner and i know 100% he DOESN'T cheat on me and will never! | |
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| What would you do if you found your guy was looking at porn on internet?
Posted: 9/25/2006 7:17:38 PM | "Are you out of your mind terminal? How is that fun? No offense but how on earth can you condone someone messaging other girls when he has a girlfriend? Would you consider him meeting these girl or cyber with them as "in fun" too? Just wondering...I don't see anything fun in it at all and I would leave the guy pronto. I assume the conversations where not with already established friends but girls he chatted up or cybered with."
Can I just ask.... Are you saying that after a guy starts dating he is not allowed to make any new female friends? When I say "friends" I mean it in the purely plutonical/non sexual sense. Obviously he's not allowed to "play away".
If that is what you are saying biker I'm bloody glad I'll never be in a relationship with you.
I would also like to point out that us blokes can talk to each other about sports, cars.....erm......uh..... ok I'm stuggling now.... we can talk to girls though about things we wouldn't talk to another bloke about and as a result get tips and ideas to make our sex lives with our partners better ;) | |
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| What would you do if you found your guy was looking at porn on internet?
Posted: 9/25/2006 10:46:16 PM | I would say thank god he is looking & not doing. yet.....
Guess what??? All MEN no matter how nerdy or quiet or average they are. All of them look at porn. Its a fact. they sit & keep themselves busy with whatever it is they wish they were doing. So if i was all of you ladies, I would stay close to my man & be recetive. find out what it is that makes him tick. & be there to supply it. Be willing to experiment & be there.
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| What would you do if you found your guy was looking at porn on internet?
Posted: 9/26/2006 4:23:34 AM | | Ok let me set the record straight,he is not a pedophile!He goes to a few adult porn sites,the women that he cyber chatted with,were all over18,like 23-25,I saw there profiles!I wrote this topic,cause was hurt ,and wanted to know if men still do that stuff ,even when they are in a relationship,is it considered cheating? | |
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| What would you do if you found your guy was looking at porn on internet?
Posted: 9/26/2006 8:22:54 AM | I don't think you should worry a bit about him viewing some porn. It's not cheating. It's just another form of entertainment. I would be more concerned about the women that he chatted with, but if this is a relatively new relationship, maybe it is just contacts that he made when he was looking.
What I think you need to do is discuss this with him. Find out where his thoughts are about all of this. Communicate and keep an opened mind.
I just came out of a 10 year marriage. I think one of the main problems was that when we had issues with each other we kept them to ourselves. Trival problems built up into huge problems because of non-communication. | |
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| What would you do if you found your guy was looking at porn on internet?
Posted: 9/26/2006 10:50:04 AM | I haven't read all the responses to this yet, but first you shouldn't jump the gun. Many emails come in that end up putting porn sites in your history from hotmail etc..or other sites you visit, porn sites pop up..just check on the history if it's only the index page..if it's more well then it's different.
But really, what's wrong with him looking at porn? If your secure enough about yourself and your relationship, it shouldn't be a problem, heck it can make a great tool for you both if your open about it.
As for messaging young girls..well he must be on a dating site, BUT..so are you ;) | |
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| What would you do if you found your guy was looking at porn on internet?
Posted: 9/26/2006 11:00:15 AM | The issue should not be whether he is looking at porn, the issue is; "Does his activity negatively affect your life?"
Some women are very defensive about males viewing porn. The question might be; "Why?"
Personally, porn bores me. I would rather watch a good movie, go for a walk, read a novel or enjoy the company of a real person.
ha! | |
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