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| Does sex get better with age Posted: 10/2/2005 2:04:43 PM | | I believe the saying goes "If you don't use it you'll lose it" is so true especially for men!!! Age doesn't really have a lot to do with it getting better, its an attitude thing you either want to enjoy sex or you make it just another ummm chore lol. I have always been sexually motivated and I do love to try new things. People are so afraid to open up and say how they feel. My friends who are my age who have no interest in sex I feel are bored because they are not willing to try new things. You won't know what you like till you try it. Some things do take trust and time which I hate to say but most guys are in a hurry I found and that can ruin everything. Give me a man who lets me take some control also to pleasure him and who takes his time and listens and I him ...I don't hate to say that ALL night does NOT mean anything is wrong lol like "nurse" thought it is the oppisite for 2 people who know how to please each other enjoy each other so much that they can play all night I am lucky to say I have met such a man at 43 who is better then any guy I was ever with in my 20's or 30's !!! makes me feel very good that with patients and listening and not afraid to do the unthinkable as many of my friends are that I can please my partner and in return be very very satisfied myself!!! Guys stop feeling pressured to perform and ladies if your so grossed out by trying new things have your man shower shave trim and think about how he enjoys you so why not enjoy him???? Give and take in everything I say!!! Love this site!!! | |
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| Does sex get better with age Posted: 10/5/2005 11:41:31 AM | hi, did u mean it gets better as u age?...or as your lover ages?...or with older lovers?... | |
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| Does sex get better with age Posted: 10/11/2005 6:59:54 PM | so far so good. the dirty thirties are great.
i had to do it, same threads over and over. i can understand why the mods get pissed. | |
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| Does sex get better with age Posted: 10/18/2005 11:33:06 AM | I think we appreciate sex more when we are older, because we are more sensitive to each others, needs, wants, and desires. I have learned to appreciate the soft touches more, and taking it slow. When I was young-er, I was always in a hurry to get to the destination, now I know it is the journey(to the climax) that is more important. That sure doesn't mean that speed isn't good anymore.....lol
Hey do the banana dance.... ...once you've tried it, you will never go back... | |
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| Does sex get better with age Posted: 11/4/2005 10:45:56 PM | | maggie tush your only 35 really when your 40 and up in your prime then answer the question | |
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| Does sex get better with age Posted: 11/5/2005 8:18:23 AM | | As a male in his early 50's sex is fantastic. I think a lot just has to do with your partner. Spend 12 years with a lady 10 years younger that lost her sex drive in her upper 30's. Now my X and someone else's problem. I've found that ladies in their 40's are the absolute best in bed. Fewer hangup's ...... been there and done that kind of thing.......know how to get what they want............... | |
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| Does sex get better with age Posted: 11/5/2005 8:48:13 AM | | Sure seems like it's gotten better. That's not to say it sucked when I first started. I'll put it this way... the very first time was lousy... it got better everytime ever since that first time. | |
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| Does sex get better with age Posted: 11/5/2005 10:06:06 PM | | Definitely for me....I think about sex more often, probably like men do, know what i like, am far more open minded than I was in my 20's. I'll try anything twice..just to make sure i did it right the first time. ;) | |
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| Does sex get better with age Posted: 11/6/2005 1:27:38 PM | Omg.......oui oui oui!! Most definately better, and it helps if your man knows what he's doing too!!!  | |
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| Does sex get better with age Posted: 11/6/2005 2:29:19 PM | I think the consensus is yes, and I agree. Unfortunately I was stuck in the marriage rut and practically gave up sex altogether. I think the kids do it actually(its a plot)... anyhoo... Once I got over that, I totally agree that women peak in their 40s and I pray I can sustain it because I get so much pleasure from sex now. I mean... I did before... until you know(the demise)... and I am gratefull to discover that my sexuality has been re-awakened | |
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| Does sex get better with age Posted: 11/6/2005 3:11:55 PM | Of course it does and that is not limited to women......
Men may be at their peak with juices at 18, but not in their prime at all.....not even close. Takes years even decades to learn to please a woman the right way and be pleased correctly toooooo......
If in shape....and active...there is no reason why a mature man and woman can not send sex and sensualness to a higher level.......
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| Does sex get better with age Posted: 11/6/2005 3:21:36 PM | | please tell me your joking lol.....im 34 and still love the all nighters.......has nothing to do with anyone doing anything wrong it has to do with everyone doing everything right hence the wanting to do it again and again lol.....i think sex is great at any age as long as your satisified with who your with......yes age sometimes gives you the expierence to be more open and comfortable which of course is the key to great sex..... | |
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| Does sex get better with age Posted: 11/6/2005 3:25:06 PM | | good grief do you know nothing about women lol the biggest irony and joke of the world is that men reach thier peek at 19 to 25 and women reach it in thier 30's lol thats why..... | |
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| Does sex get better with age Posted: 11/6/2005 3:43:17 PM | Actually women reach more of their prime in their 40's.....and that is just awesome.....men on the other hand have the highest sperm count and greatest chance of having children at 18 to 23....but that has nothing to do with being in your prime......just means more chances of reaching more often with quality sperm attached.
Natures way of keeping the human race going and active is to have younger men copulate with younger women and the result is that the men and women have a greater chance of producing off spring.
The irony of it all is that the best sex has nothing to do with creating babies......rather, enjoying the one you are with and all the pleasures that happen with good love making......and that I believe is what maturity is all about and why women enter prime when closer to not being fertile......and men when their sperm is not as abundant and it takes more time to do what needs to get done.....and both benefit.....
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| Does sex get better with age Posted: 11/6/2005 7:12:31 PM |
I totally agree that women peak in their 40s
I'm fortunate to have carried on my "peak years" into my 50's | |
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| Does sex get better with age Posted: 11/6/2005 7:19:38 PM | | Actually age has nothing to do with anything getting better..........what makes sex better or anything better is wisdom.....more knowlege on any subject is the key to anything getting better. For example...how many know what triggers multiple orgasms in women and how many have accidentlly found that and believe it happens on a hit or miss basis? | |
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| Does sex get better with age Posted: 11/6/2005 7:55:54 PM | | I honestly believe it does, with age comes experience and yet the passion and technique become even better. | |
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