| Strangest gift I ever got. Posted: 9/20/2006 8:08:41 PM | | Like who would even set those out in the yard with a price tag on them? I love to garage sale and it reminds me of the people who put out used makeup and open tampon boxes..it's like WTF people? | |
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| Strangest gift I ever got. Posted: 9/20/2006 8:24:29 PM | I dont understand why a couple who is sexually active uses "sex toys" at all. Isnt that just for when youre alone and don't have a partner? Ive gotten a little kinky now and then and used a cucumber with a woman on rare occasions, I will admit, but wouldnt dream of actually going to a store and buying something to use on a woman and frankly, I'd feel a little insulted if she brought one of her own out. My, my, we are surely in a technological age, arent we? Kind of like having to drink or do drugs to "feel good", isnt it? ... | |
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| Strangest gift I ever got. Posted: 9/20/2006 8:32:27 PM | As a kinkster, I know lots of couples who go and buy each other sex toys or other toys (crops, paddles, whips). Birthdays are always fun in that crowd! I received a bunch of flowers at a dinner last year from a couple who had stuck a riding crop in it. Later that year, a friend made a paddle with GOOD inscribed on one side and BAD inscribed on the other. Toys can make birthdays (and sex) that much more interesting.
HOWEVER buying each other used toys is just not cool.
Don't accept anything unless it's in original wrapping. If it's a kinky toy, clean it with sanitizer before using it.
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| Strangest gift I ever got. Posted: 9/21/2006 8:13:50 AM | Well Steven, for some people the missionary position over and over for years and years gets a little stale. Do you still eat the same exact thing for breakfast, every day, that you've eaten since you were 5 years old?
Ever heard 'variety is the spice of life'? No, I'd guess not.
Oh, and I didn't miss the 'you are all freaks' implication with your 'my my, goodness gracious heavens to betsy' folksy comment at the end. | |
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| Strangest gift I ever got. Posted: 9/27/2006 9:09:35 PM | Ok question then ...I have a purse on my bedpost full of my toys. I purchased them myself. My 1st LT relationship only enjoyed the missionary position and wouldn't try anything else. I went to a fanatsia (sp?) party and purchased their most expense vibrator. Tell you what it was worth every penny. Didn't have my 1st orgasm until 30 and not looking back. Problem is how many men will get freaked because I have "toys". And another thing can I use them in another relationship without somebody thinking their hand-me-downs for them. I did give my ex the main toy we used on him. Liked the nipple pincher but I can't handle that used on me. Prefer spankings and hair pulled. LOL!! Maybe this is too much info.
SWF
PS I really enjoy being a "freak"  | |
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| Strangest gift I ever got. Posted: 9/27/2006 9:21:55 PM | Okay first off, what kind of person would sell used sex toys? Second, who would actually buy them, and did they ask them to demonstrate how it worked?
I thought I heard it all with the double bagged condom story, but this one really is the icing on the cake.
Where do these people come from? | |
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| way out of line Posted: 10/9/2006 11:39:33 AM | | that was way out of line for your mothers boyfriend to do that, 16 is still a child and he should be ashamed. | |
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| Strangest gift I ever got. Posted: 10/9/2006 12:44:57 PM |
Who just goes out without his partner and buys sex toys to use on her???
I thought sextoys were meant to be used together and not on each other... Do you like to talk about urself in a discriminating way? | |
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| Strangest gift I ever got. Posted: 10/9/2006 5:28:28 PM | | Well, that cracks me up about the used toys at a garage sale. Wow, I would never part with mine! I would love it if my man went out and purchased new toys for us. Of course I would make sure to use it on him first since it was appealing to him in order for him to go out and buy it. | |
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| Strangest gift I ever got. Posted: 10/31/2006 1:35:53 PM | i think recycling sex toys is good for the toy and good for the environment.  | |
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| Strangest gift I ever got. Posted: 10/31/2006 2:30:34 PM | thats nasty
seriously that is real nasty  i dont blame you for never seeing him again : / | |
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| Strangest gift I ever got. Posted: 1/30/2007 12:15:00 AM | | yeah sex toys are a go together get as a couple thing or the woman buys them herself. But they were't even in the original packaging? Yeah that is scary stuff there.. YUCKYYYYYYYYYYYY | |
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| Strangest gift I ever got. Posted: 1/30/2007 6:04:52 AM | Wowzers...these threads get funnier and funnier! Used sex toys? Hell no. I have no problem however with a lover shopping for the unused variety without me...it's nice to get a surprise, and to think that he was thinking of ways to excite me... That part I wouldn't be ticked with at all. (well..ok I guess it would depend what it is! LOL) | |
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| Strangest gift I ever got. Posted: 1/30/2007 6:36:17 AM | | ewwwy! HAR! that is funny! one year i got crome weights for xmas. i was really upset as didn't think it was very romantic, at all. but in saying that they were a very handy present and i got a lot of use out of them, and still have them. i realised this, and then brought my then, best friend some for her birthday present. | |
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| Strangest gift I ever got. Posted: 1/30/2007 10:57:55 AM | | My Girlfriend says get what ever you know what I like. what is the deal other than it was used gross. | |
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| Strangest gift I ever got. Posted: 1/30/2007 11:27:20 AM | If you didnt have to use a scissor or knife to open the package, chances are that he was using them either on himself or someone else. HaHaHa! sorry but I find this funny.
If it was something that you both discussed before hand while chatting than I understand, but if he just pulled them out without prior discussion, than I would wonder about him too. Maybe he didnt have enough confidence in his package, who knows? | |
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| Strangest gift I ever got. Posted: 1/30/2007 1:03:02 PM | | to msg 27...wow yer missin out my friend...and some sex toys require 2 people...sex toys arnt all just vibrators and dildos...but even then...whatever im not intimidated by it...ive purchased sex toys for gfs before (new ones...in the wrapper) and she loved the surprise and i think we wore the batteries out the first night...and wore me out too! variety IS the spice of life...habit and routine are the cancer of human existance...as for the used toys...wow sned them right to the land of misfit toys...although i must admit the poster who stated its alot easier to make sure a used sex toy is clean and disease free then your partner kind of had a point...but i dont think im gonna go garage sailing for my girls next toy... | |
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