| Breast Augmentation over 45 Posted: 1/31/2007 6:42:16 PM | I personally think anyone who wants to enhance their boobs should do so if it will boost their self esteem. I myself would have a penis enlargement if I didnt have a complete phobia of someone with a sharp knife and the word OPPPS being uttered at the wrong time.  | |
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Tarika
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| Breast Augmentation over 45 Posted: 1/31/2007 7:10:07 PM | I was just reading this forum because I was curious as to what kind of response the op would get. I certainly don't need any work on my breasts... But, I don't think one is ever to old to beautify themself in whatever way they wish. | |
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koigee
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| Breast Augmentation over 45 Posted: 1/31/2007 9:44:35 PM | From one girl to another girl, I dont see a thing wrong with you. One thing is for sure I have big breast and I dont have a good man yet so breast size believe me has nothing to do with it. Be happy with what god gave you girl as I know plenty of women your size that have good husbands and it has more to do with the person for a man in the long run.
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| Breast Augmentation over 45 Posted: 1/31/2007 10:17:48 PM |
If you think you are going to get a 'better' man because you get 'bigger' boobs, you may want to re-evaluate what you are looking for..
I agree w/that 100%. I was curious, so I looked at the OP's profile... I don't see anything wrong with them!
I want some breasts to make em bigger so I can have a better profile on POF> to have a better man, a better life and a well u fill in the rest.
If you think making them bigger is going to get you a "better man", hate to tell you girl but the real "better men" aren't going to care about B-cup vs. D-cup if the personality is there. Then again, I think its pretty silly/shallow of *you* to be thinking "bigger breasts so I can have a better profile on POF".
I'd work on your self-esteem and personality, and take a long hard look at why you think it would help, before jumping off and spending all that money to find out that it really didn't get you a "better class of guy" and wind up still being depressed. | |
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| Breast Augmentation over 45 Posted: 2/1/2007 12:19:02 AM | HEY THERE HI, OF COURSE BOOB SURGERY IS GREAT, I,VE PAID FOR TWO SUCH SURGERYS DIFFERENT WOMEN OF COURSE AND THE DR DOES GOOD WORK.
I PASSED UP AN EXPENSIVE TABLE SAW FOR THE X,S X,MAS PRESENT BUT HEY WHAT A PAIR.
SO I,D HIGHLY RECOMMEND IT BESIDES SOME WOMEN NEED ALL THE HELP THEY CAN GET RIGHT. | |
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| Breast Augmentation over 45 Posted: 2/1/2007 1:09:41 AM | couple questions for you .... How much over 45 do you want to be? (I couldn't resist :) And really do you want to be getting attention for your boobs first and all your other qualitites down the road? I'm not saying that the store bought stuff doesn't get attention.
Lord knows that women who have developed late in life (say after the knife), are happy to show, tell, and have you touch their investment. I like a bit more variety, but then I got a couple of dependents I have to support, so I'm coming from the other side.
It seems that the Doctor in this area doing the 'bolt-ons' thinks one size fits all and I think the patients are required to show his work in revealing clothing afterward (like the sign in the yard advertising who did your landscaping). | |
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| Breast Augmentation over 45 Posted: 2/2/2007 10:53:31 AM | | Breast augmentation should be considered an elective expense when at present a trash bag is still required during missionary sex. | |
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| Breast Augmentation over 45 Posted: 2/2/2007 11:29:41 AM | OP I would suggest that you view sites on before and after a few years with breast implants.
Depending on where you incision is like any surgery you will always have a scar. With implants they do drop. They will ripple and be seen depending on how you bend. The implant can be felt no matter where it is. Having a monogram is more painful and also harder to detect if anything is wrong. Usually now with implants you now have to also have a extensive ultrasound done every few years. You also need to consider scar tissue build up, that may also change the feeling of the actual breast. Some women breast can feel more lumpy and from the implant ripple feeling. Due to have a object now in your body you can be more prone to sensational loss especially in the nipples. Some have nerve damage, from this, or from the incision.
You also need to afford to replace them maybe 6-10 yrs down the road.
Like any surgery you need to allocate recovery time. Although you may feel good after a few days you will have to 'care' for them. don't drop to soon and they will anyhow. Wearing a support bra 24/7 for many weeks, maybe months. No lifting anything over 5lbs, and pushing things for min 3 weeks after surgery.
So you also have to plan help in domestic things or errands for quite some time. To have a breast lift it's the same.
It's something to really think this is serious surgery that sure you can go back if you want, but also this may change the original shape requiring more surgery.
It's up to you, it seems to be a confidence thing for you right now, and maybe just try to work on remembering when you were confident and bringing it to the forefront now see how you feel by doing this. Buy a push up bra, or a padded one.
I just know that from the girls that have done it sure it made them feel better visually. But with them all 'men' didn't like feeling them, leaving them to feel more self conscious to undress of allow the 2nd base to happen. They could see the implant, and scar.
Whatever you decide do this for you. Know all the in's and out's of risk, and future in this factor.
Please don't do this because you think men want big boobs. | |
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| Breast Augmentation over 45 Posted: 2/2/2007 6:13:05 PM | If you really believe bigger breasts are going to land you a better profile in POF , then I have to ask you what is it you really want ? Someone who sees only your breasts when they look at you ? Someone who wants to sleep with you because you have large breasts ? . If you really want a nice profile in POF . Be happy with yourself , That is when you will find a life and well you know > fill in your own blanks ;) Large breasts do not make men love you or want to be with you forever , Brains do , and if you have that , you dont need to worry about anything else ;) Angelzzz | |
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| Breast Augmentation over 45 Posted: 2/2/2007 6:15:06 PM | If you really believe bigger breasts are going to land you a better profile in POF , then I have to ask you what is it you really want ? Someone who sees only your breasts when they look at you ? Someone who wants to sleep with you because you have large breasts ? . If you really want a nice profile in POF . Be happy with yourself , That is when you will find a life and well you know > fill in your own blanks ;) Large breasts do not make men love you or want to be with you forever , Brains do , and if you have that , you dont need to worry about anything else ;) Angelzzz | |
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| Breast Augmentation over 45 Posted: 2/3/2007 7:47:35 PM | I must say that I did NOT read all 7 pages of posts here but as a man that has always preferred Larger NICE BREASTS(see this is the first time-somone qualified them) I do not prefer bigger breasts because they are bigger. I like nice breasts. I would much prefer appealing smaller breasts then unappealling large breasts. I normally can look on these sites and see a woman with 5 pictures of herself on her profile and I can tell if she had a boob job. In a shirt the look great BUT they are still fake.
One last thing. I have known woman that were exotic dancer and the women that had normal breast ALWAYS got tipped more.. | |
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| Breast Augmentation + research Posted: 9/5/2008 2:33:40 PM | dont get the mellon look. you wont like it. go for the lifts that are under the breast and lift the tissue so that the top of the breast is your own. there is fellow named DR LEE in W. Va who did a nice job for a friend. I dont know if he still practices.
Research it. You will learn alot and do what you are doing by asking others for information. smart. | |
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| Breast Augmentation + research Posted: 9/5/2008 3:51:02 PM | | Bionic Woman - be happy with what you've got. I know women who have had breast reductions because of back problems and depression etc. for being TOO BIG. Trust me you don't want to go bigger. | |
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| Breast Augmentation + research Posted: 9/5/2008 6:03:13 PM | I still don't get why this is in the Over 45 threads..>> SO THE FOOK WHAT if you're a certain age!! If you wanna look good, and you don't think you do now, then go for it!!
As we age and things sag or our bodies shift in weight.... who's to say that a little more on top won't compliment your figure?!?
Same goes for the lifting or tightening of said saggy bits!!
Get some good recommendations and do your homework, but if you want it, then don't let anyone stop you. Just DO IT.
But know that if you do, now that you've posting a thread about it, you'll have to come back and show us all the results. I know a *few* men that might be happy to hear about them rules.
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| Breast Augmentation + research Posted: 9/6/2008 8:52:08 AM | Well since another 2+ year post has been ressurected....
Women as they get older sag. It is a fact. I personally do not care for fake breasts, but if she wants to tighten them up so they are not at her belly button, go for it...
I prefer smaller breasts... | |
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| Breast Augmentation + research Posted: 9/6/2008 12:55:59 PM | Better to have two small, cancer-free "real" breasts....
Ask any woman who has survived breast cancer, or ask anyone who has lost a loved one TO breast cancer! | |
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| Breast Augmentation + research Posted: 9/7/2008 6:02:47 PM | Every survey I've seen suggests half the men like them and half the men don't. So no matter what you do you've got a 50-50 chance of pleasing whatever man you are enamored with.
Having lived with someone that went through it I'd say they were spectacular to look at but ... and this is a big but..... the internal scar tissue and other issues she had seemed like a lot of trouble just to look good in a dress. People have this idea that medical treatment is all wonderful, they never seemed to understand that anytime you go under the knife, or the arthroscope, of any kind of invasive surgery, you'll have some consequences later in life.
I wouldn't recommend it unless you were flat as a board or trying to restore yourself after cancer surgery. | |
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| Breast Augmentation over 45 Posted: 9/7/2008 6:14:18 PM | Yes, get it all done, I am going to have mine put up on my sholders so that by the time I am sixty five, they will be just perfect.... just kidding, I would do it in a second, if I could afford it.
show your cleavage, get some if that is what you want but dont do it for anyone else but you. You dont want to attract a man because he likes your boobs do you?
heck ya, go for it, all the way face lift, lipo botox, implants the whole nine yards
have fun, but they have those things you put in your bra called cutlets? try those for fun
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| Breast Augmentation over 45 Posted: 9/8/2008 6:11:19 AM | Personally, any breast augmentation over 42 would be too much for me. But then, I do have a past history of overnight concussions from a past relationship.
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| Breast Augmentation over 45 Posted: 9/9/2008 10:20:50 AM | Surely you are kidding???
I think you should find ways to enjoy who you are and not worry so much about who you are not. Frankly, I am suspicious of woman who are overly obsessed with "trying" to make sure people, particularly men, see how much cleavage they have. Talk about a huge red flag. It screams insecurity!
It sounds like buying an automobile solely because of the tires on it. The tires my friend are only part of the whole ride. Personally, I want to know how she purrrrs when she is turned on.
If you had larger breasts, what would you do with them that you cannot do now...that really matters anyway?
And one more thought. What kind of man are you trying to attract? Because I can promise you the kind of guy you are only going attract by how much cleavage you have, isn't going to be around long anyway. Just long enough to find the next pair. It will not matter how much you have.
I guess the real question it comes down to, is what are you really looking for..... Quantity or Quality? | |
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| Breast Augmentation over 45 Posted: 9/10/2008 1:51:08 PM | | Oops I got this mixed up with that other thread. I thought it said "Grandma show us your new tatas. | |
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| Breast Augmentation over 45 Posted: 9/10/2008 3:00:03 PM | Girl, you're hot, I can't imagine snow falling within ten feet of you. Wish I lived in Canada. | |
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| Breast Augmentation over 45 Posted: 9/11/2008 10:30:11 AM | I think cosmetic surgery is a good idea, but only if you are doing it with realistic expectations. In the OP case, I think it's a bad idea. She had two perfectly healthy breasts that are slightly above average in size and she should be happy about that, not disappointed. I think the OP's problem is in her head and not in her breast size.
All cosmetic surgery is temporary...it needs to be maintained or redone about every ten years. The recovery time is long...a few months. If the procedure should have complications, well then fixing them is going to be a real beotch. And it will be limited to how good it's going to look. Each time you fix it, you get more scar tissue. The more scar tissue the more problems you have.
On a woman over 45 who has boob implants, it makes her upper torso look older, because the new implants look younger. If you have lose skin on your stomach from being prego...then it looks even worse. However, I can see where a woman would want to restore her breasts to the way they looked before having babies and breast feeding.
Going too big is a problem. Hollywood stars have had lots of problems when they go too big. Pam Anderson and Dolly Parton have had problems and have had them redone a few times and they still have problems. But because they went so big, the skin is now stretched out and going smaller is not an option anylonger unless they want them to look like deflated ballons.
You need to know all the cons of all plastic surgery you consider, because only you will have to live with it, your doctor doesn't have to live with it. | |
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