| is she cheating
Posted: 9/27/2006 5:14:54 AM | | Take her back one more time then dump her a$$. | |
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| is she cheating
Posted: 9/27/2006 5:33:41 AM | she might not be cheating .... yet but shes is certainly showing she needs space from you.how many times do you call her when she is out with her friends????
we all need space sometimes...ask her whats up and try talking to her before jumping to a conclusion. | |
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| is she cheating
Posted: 9/27/2006 9:48:12 AM | | I wouldn't say she is cheating, but it sounds like she wants to get out of the relationship, my best advice for you is talk to her about it, and if that what she wants then let it be on both of your terms. And dont come out accuding her of cheating.... thats never good! | |
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Posted: 9/27/2006 10:40:24 AM | | I'd do something really nice and romantic for her, and really shock the hell out of her, take her to a nice dinner. Then when her guard is down, let her know exactly how she makes you feel when she does that. Then tell her basically that you enjoyed the time you spent, and walk away from the table. Don't answer any calls...If all goes well she'll be left speechless and will have to realize what her actions have done and maybe in the future she'll think twice about being selfish. Then if she wants out of a relationship she'll just do it rather than being a coward. | |
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Posted: 9/27/2006 10:53:45 AM | | I can tell you really quick what is going on... NOTHING! Well I can't tell you for sure but I would say that's the jist of it. Most likely when you first got together she didnt spend as much time with her friends but thats normally because she is all wrapped up in the little puppy love stage. Now that you've been together a little while she doesn't have to be up your butt. Of course she wants to go out with her friends all the time. I know I do.. And maybe if you know she is out with her friends then you shouldnt be calling her. I wouldnt answer either. If I'm out dancing with the girls I don't need my cell phone to my ear... | |
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Posted: 9/27/2006 11:08:03 AM | the things you mentioned are not always a sign of a cheating partner but it is always a sign of problems in the relationship.
talk to her and more importantly.....LISTEN to what she tells me and TELL her what you need to tell her as well. | |
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Posted: 9/27/2006 1:17:18 PM | | she may or may not be cheating but shes definitly not that into u anymore. end it! | |
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Posted: 9/27/2006 1:26:26 PM | | Why not just ask her. I mean shes either cheating or shes just really needs a break from you cause sometimes guys can get soooo attached and smother a person that it gets annoying (and yes some girls do it to).. but girls need time with there girls too, heck guys go for beers, pool, hockey, soccer, baseball, hunting, fixing trucks and cars together so why cant girls go shopping or just hang out for beers.. I would just plain out ask her you are dating so theres no harm just ask are you cheating or are you just getting sick of me.. then try and back away.. the thing most girls hate is an extremly clingy boyfriend who phones and phones and phones all the time, filling up my voicemail when we have only been apart for a few hours. bahhhhh i suggest take a breather, relax, calm down, leave her alone for a whole day then give her a call and ask whats up. | |
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Posted: 9/27/2006 7:41:29 PM | IS SHE A PISCES?
DOES SHE STAY OUT "ALL NIGHT"?
DOES SHE DO DRUGS?
IS SHE A PISCES?
DOES SHE IGNORE HER CELL, OOPS, ALREADY COVERED THAT...
DOES SHE HAVE A "ROUTINE" OR CERTAIN TIME/NIGHTS SHE GOES OUT?
ANYWAYS, ENOUGH OF THE "DOES SHE'S"...
HELL YEAH!! SHE IS CHEATING!! AND PROBABLY WON'T TELL YOU ABOUT IT UNTIL SHE IS PREGNANT WITH HIS SPERM DEPOSIT AND THEN WILL HAVE THE NERVE TO ASK YOU IF YOU WOULD BE THE DADDY!!!
DROP THE HO!!!!
Oh, was that harsh? Did it sould like a road traveled by this once blind traveler? Again, HELL YEAH!!!
DROP THE HO!!!
And your life will improve 100 FOLD, BELIEVE ME!!!
Good luck in your endeavor to find out if the HO is just that, A HO!!!!
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Posted: 9/29/2006 11:24:40 AM |
dude no offense but your name says tired of head games and using my friend to piss her off sounds like a game to me man !
well dating is a game whether you or I agree to it or not. Try being blunt to anyone on the first date and see how far you get lol
You have to play this mating dance and it is a dance because emotions are involved not logic like solving a crossword. Your intent should be one of good will and well being for that person but if you show up with a hot girl to have your own fun, who is she to stop you? She is going out already without you and not returning your calls. Move on, grab a hot girl on your arm and dance the night away. OR you can sulk and brood and vent frustration becuase you are pineing for a girl with little or no interest in you. Its your choice. Choose wisely. | |
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Posted: 9/29/2006 11:29:28 AM | Dude,
They all cheat sooner or later. You just need to come to grips with the fact that well as my good friend once said: "They're ALL crackers. Sad, really." 
If you think it. Get out. Better to leave her behind with questions and your dignity intact than find out she's a ho and have your heart ripped apart. Women do that, you know. In fact some really enjoy it. This sounds like one of those cases. i wish you all the luck in the wolrld but I say: "Run. Run, screaming into the night." | |
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Posted: 9/29/2006 11:45:55 AM | Who in the world can answer that? OOH waite... YOUR girlfriend can!
Sit her down an talk to her... let her know that you miss her and you are feeling neglected.
It's not good that she'd rather go out with her girlfriends all the time..... when I'm with someone I enjoy hanging out with him... maybe going out with girlfriends once in a while.... | |
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Posted: 9/29/2006 11:51:58 AM | | I think you should find out for yourself, its very easy....follow once where she is going....if you need a plan I can give you one.....no one know better than you if she is chating or not...if you are giving her enough, I am sure she wont, if you are sleaping with her 1 a week chaces are she is....everyone can tell you diferent story find out for yourself....take a picture of her in action and send that to her frineds, parents, post it on the net...people like that deserve it... | |
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Posted: 9/29/2006 1:41:08 PM | | Ask her...whatever happened to communication in relationships. | |
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Posted: 10/4/2006 11:06:14 AM | | they all cheat all ladies cheat so what all men do to women need a reason to cheat guys just an opportunity evary person knows thats the way the game is played. | |
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Posted: 10/4/2006 11:09:35 AM | | thats is a wuss move go out and bang other ladies that what i would do if she goes out with her friends go out with yours for the same reason .and hope to get lucky. | |
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Posted: 10/4/2006 11:55:13 AM | | Sounds like it dude! Sorry. Either that or she's over you. None of them being good. To avoid any further self esteam issues I would cut my losses and bail before she does. | |
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| is she cheating
Posted: 10/4/2006 6:46:29 PM | It sounds as though, you are pressing her a little to hard. Give her some space then maybe she will be more receptive to you. In the event she is cheating on you, either she will tell you directly or you will never find out.
Good Luck! | |
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Posted: 10/4/2006 9:13:57 PM | | What would she do if you didn't return your calls? You don't know do you? You have always returned her calls because you care for her. She doesn't return your calls because she doesn't care for you in the same way. She has taken all that positive attention that you have lavished upon her and realised that she is so lovable, that she doesn't even need you. She's too gutless to tell you, because she knows she's being selfish. It's tough. Don't feel sorry for yourself, feel sorry for her. She's a selfish b!tch. | |
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Posted: 10/4/2006 9:44:53 PM | Does it really matter...either way she's being disrespectful to you and the relationship...I would just let her go...especially if you're unhappy under those arrangements...it's not worth your time nor energy to analyze it...her actions are very obviouse in that she is no longer interested in sustaining the relationship...there will be other people who will be far more considerate, respectful and appreciative...believe me...and you'll be a happier person for it and be rid of doubt. Good luck  | |
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Posted: 10/5/2006 11:35:34 AM | Well I don't know if she would be cheating...we don't want to accuse her of doing so..But maybe she thinks it is time to take it slow, maybe take a break from one another...
"Short Story": 
I was in a relationship w/ a serious guy..(My opinion) I liked being w/ him and all but he'd call all the time, and if he didn't call he pretty much -stock me-...I just got sick of him and instead of telling him , I just ignored/blocked his calls and stopped speaking to him...u see!!!
It might not be u, it might not be that she is cheating, *techinically ur not guilty of cheating unless u have evidence*...srry 2 say but u don't really have any evidence of her cheating, just suspicion...so just to make things easier on u, talk 2 her...ask her what is going on, but don't confront her w/ the first words, "Are you cheating on me"....saying that.. well, lets just say, "DON'T", lol...But yeah, just talk 2 her and confront her w/ ur feelings...if all else fails...ask a friend of urs that is a girl, I am sure they could help...
************************** GoOd LuCk ******************************** | |
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Posted: 10/5/2006 11:44:20 AM | | All ladies DO NOT cheat. Maybe she does not like the feeling of someone looking over her shoulder all the time, so turns off her cell phone. Possibly YOU are not going out with her, there for her either, so she is meeting those needs with friends. Possibly the more you are accusitory and angry the furthur she will pull away from you. Possibly you could like, umm what others have said, talk about it instead of broadcasting it on a dating site? | |
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Posted: 10/5/2006 8:07:54 PM | the question is... are you cheating on her?....what are you doing on a dating website anyway... trying to look like the poor guy who get cheated on... well guess what... if she does, well maybe it is just fair no?...what goes around come around.
YOu may say...I am not cheating,...I am just emailing...but when you are with someone, and you do something in their back, guess what...it is call cheating as well.
Before wondering what others do... you need to wonder what you are doing... don't do to others what you don't want others to do on you .. other wise, well just accept it because , anyway, you are eating a peace of the same cake. | |
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Posted: 10/8/2006 11:34:51 PM | | Doesn't matter. She's not your girlfriend. You just don't know it yet. | |
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| is she cheating
Posted: 10/9/2006 5:18:23 AM | Not necessarily cheating but she has lost interest and is obviously bored. Back off and see what happens.
What is the saying "If you love someone set them free, if they come back it was meant to be"
Can't remember the rest but you get my point...lol..
I can't believe that so many people need to ask these questions.
Just let it go.
Find someone that is interested in you.
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