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Posted: 9/25/2006 1:04:02 AM | | nag...No! nag...No! nag...ignore! nag...put pillows over ears nag...oh what the !! nag...Oh my Gawd !!!whaaa !!! nag...Yes Dear :( | |
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Posted: 9/25/2006 1:31:14 AM | We would not Nag if men
1. Accept your responsibility in helping to create a nice environment that has triggered a nagging response in your woman.
2. Honestly evaluate your attitude about chores, picking up after yourself, annoying habits, and more.
3. Ask yourself if you have a pattern of avoidance when it comes to chores or other issues.
4. If you ignore your mate's requests or refuse to even acknowledge that you heard what your woman has said to you, stop this behavior. Really try to listen and to respond to your woman. It is okay to say no. At least your woman will know you heard what was said.
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Posted: 9/25/2006 2:26:28 AM | The s/o and I have a situation where we have had to learn how to effectively communicate for two reasons.
He has a slight hearing impairment and doesn't always hear me.
I was taught to always think before I speak to anything that is important. He wpuld ask a question and before I can think thru my answer, he assumed that I am not answering for whatever reason.
Once we figured out what the problem/problems were, we worked at correcting them. So I think that communication skills and the diffence in the way that people communicate can lead to alot of the nagging that goes on. | |
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Posted: 9/25/2006 2:47:59 AM | nagging isn't gender specific
My ex husband used to tell me everything at least 4 different ways....I was screaming inside...."I heard you the first time!" Instead I would retreat into my own little world.
Come to think of it, maybe that made it worse? ....LOL | |
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Posted: 9/25/2006 5:18:36 AM | Ya know,
I would rather have a nag or a biatch then a spouse who never speaks there mind for years and years.
Then suddenly you would have a incredible backlog of nagging or biatching then hit you and you would be like? WTF?
At least its communication. | |
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Posted: 9/25/2006 5:19:43 AM | Because nagging is all they can do. They have no life!
Squirrly is right, nagging is not gender specific. But, I find it embarassing to say that there are by far greater number of women who nag than there are men. Most women cannot mind their own business and keep their mouth shut.
Ignore these type and they'll back in line.
If you give her too much attention, she will never stop nagging you. | |
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Posted: 9/25/2006 5:23:37 AM | Why do men strach their bits on front of you and think you dont notice? dont they realise how destructive this can be?
So why still do it?  | |
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Posted: 9/25/2006 5:31:53 AM | | Nagging doesn't work. Men tune out nagging after a while. Also men like it when they are appreciated for what they do. If your man does something for you and you don't acknowledge it, chances are they won't do it again. Whats the point then? Saying "thank you" to a man goes a long way, makes them feel worthy. If you want your man to do something, ask him nicely...a few times if you have to. But nicely. You can catch more bees with honey than you can with vinegar! The most important thing is acknowledging it tho...they will remember that you noticed they did something for you, got rewarded for it, with either a thank you or a smooch, and will want that reward again. | |
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Posted: 9/25/2006 5:41:09 AM | | cause their biggest weakness is their mouths. they just cannot keep it shut. that simple. also it tells you what the future is going to be like. so LISTEN and RUN. gottit. | |
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Posted: 9/25/2006 5:44:06 AM | To quote another member her....."Did I just read that"
1- You need to seriously think before you speak, or post things here.
2- You have given all the women here a chance to vent.....maybe a good thing!
3- You need to listen to that nagging and honestly think "maybe it's me"
4- Find a woman who doesn't nag........good luck because what you think is nagging is them trying to communicate with you. | |
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Posted: 9/25/2006 5:53:39 AM | my grandmother had the right idea... her husband when they first
married made the comment at dinner... that the meat was kinda dry.
She took the plates and opened the back door and tossed them outside
for the dog to eat.
He never nagged or said anything bad about her cooking again.
:)
guys nag too you know....................... | |
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Posted: 9/25/2006 5:55:27 AM | Women nag (in my opinion) for several different reasons:
1) Her male partner hasn't done what he has promised.
2) Her male partner did do something right, but not to her liking.
3) Her male partner did not get permission first to do something wrong.
4) Her male partner doesn't listen to her.
5) Her male partner hasn't been doing his part of the chores.
6) Her male partner hasn't been keeping the children in check.
7) Her male partner was honest when asked if she looks fat in that dress.
And... the # 1 reason women nag (in my opinion of course)......
Her partner hasn't ensured there are fresh batteries in the house for her toy.
See.... it is our fault. | |
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Posted: 9/25/2006 6:01:42 AM |
I was watching The Amazing Race earlier tonight and there is a hillbilly couple on there that just get on my last nerve. The rotten-toothed wife never smiles about anything and just seems to nag the poor guy incessantly.
I've never been a nagger nor have I been subjected to nagging. It just crossed my mind while watching it how sad it must be to live like that and I wondered why he hasn't kicked her sour puss ass to the curb.
Msg 23 WOW---not sure how a persons physicality comes into this thread but it's kinda off point. Those who are perfect might be able to make these comments but do they really help?
The people in question ARE maybe annoying to those looking into their relationship don't know everything they do or go through with each other. A TV "reality" show is edited to show only bits and pieces of probably a few days activities so who's to know what went on the times we don't see? That's one point to be considered.
Some people are prone to nag or constantly complain because there is no other way they know. To them it's a form of communicating even though someone else might not agree it's an effective method. I'm sure at the root of this would be a few huge issues not being addressed which also might escape our understanding of why one thing warrants nagging while others don't.
As for the idea nagging is brought about by a man's unwillingness or inability to respect a woman when she's talking or "asking" for something is just plain silly. It's a far stretch to say it's ONLY a lack of this or that when it's all those things and more too. SOME women think when/if they say something it takes on life-threatening porportions if ignored which might not be exactly correct. Honestly women DO seem to have a talent where at the exact moment a man's attention is on something he enjoys NOW is the time something simply MUST be done. Garage painted, tires rotated, "his" clothes folded or put away---something that can NOT be left undone another second! In those situations is it nagging when it really could be done at another time? Is it only a woman's concerns that are "important" and need tended to immediately? Maybe not.................................
I KNOW some men are also prone to this very same behavior but I'm speaking from my own experiences and observations. The OP here wonders why women do this as well??? | |
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Posted: 9/25/2006 7:14:33 AM | | I lived with an ex for 1 year. Slowly he became a total slob. I would ask him constantly to clean up after himself. Clean your fingerprints on the bathroom mirror...etc... He NEVER kept up with it. I was always cleaning up after him. I found myself turning into a nag... and hated it. So, I asked him to leave. I felt like I was living with an overgrown 6 year old. I realized that if a guy doesn't hold his own... he actually can turn the woman into a nag.I never want to go through that again. | |
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Posted: 9/25/2006 7:34:47 AM | My experience with a nagging woman!!!!
After she spent all her money and then the money I gave her to get groceries, pay the rent, utilities, clothes for herself, whatever she needed for her child, etc, etc, etc on her secret nose candy and tearful TJSwan. It was Nag - Nag - Nag for more money!!!! 
Hit The Road Jane and don't ya come back no more no more no more no more,
Hit the road Jane and don't ya come back no more!!!!!!
AH!!!! I've been a happy man ever since!!!!!! 
It's all about control people nothing more!!!!! 
Accept and stay or Accept and leave!!! | |
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Posted: 9/25/2006 7:46:57 AM | | Nag? hmm.. I dated a guy and when I stated my opinion differently than his, he said I was starting an argument. And then when I commented on things that he said he would do but didnt, I was 'nagging'. Things that I counted on and kind of looked stupid to others because I thought they were done and he'd really just put them off. But hey, he needed to shift the focus from his lame-ass, lazy, mealy mouf ways and say I was nagging.... go figure... | |
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Posted: 9/25/2006 7:48:31 AM | (Pulll my finger)- good answer-
If I have to repeat my self 3 times in 3 days, you arn't gettin' any.
I always give my man 1 day complete a required task. The tasks I require are the things that may require safety aspects or heavy lifting. Otherwise I do everything myself without hesitation. So I am not a nagger. Some may say "harder dam it harder", "oh no you don't, you get back down there", "you have 5 min. and I expect you to be ready, again" nagg, nag, nag;But I havern't met any yet.
Boo Ya! | |
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Posted: 9/25/2006 8:02:40 AM | I know im a throwback to the Stone Age, yet consider this . Female brain/nag is primeal. She simply doesnt want her man to be a whiny ,loser > So she nags to reinforce and inspire him. After all----She doesnt want to be caveless ,hungry, dingy , unprotected, nor live in poverty.
If your a stand up male ,do your duty ,fullfill your task youl never be nagged.
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Posted: 9/25/2006 8:09:06 AM | nag nag nag nag nag nag nag....nag nag nag nag nag nag nag....
I miss naggin ...I'm goin to add it to my profile , someone who i can nag at  | |
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