| Have you seen your EX recently?
Posted: 2/16/2008 1:13:39 PM | | I haven't seen my ex in a very, very long time. I am thankful. But she is out of the country so that makes life AWESOME ! | |
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| Have you seen your EX recently?
Posted: 2/16/2008 7:30:23 PM | Interesting thread
One of my first xboyfriends came to my wedding and cried. We still remain friends havent seen him in years.LOL he was my childrens doctor for years. It was fun to take the kids to the doctors but weird.
X husband.......he now lives in exactly on the other side of the USA should have done that 10 years ago......lol we never see each other and the kids fly back and forth......no more fighting....I feel for the kids but it is best for them. As for him I couldn't care less if I ever saw the man again.......and his soon to be new X most likely feels the same way. tisk tisk oh what a man what a man......
My daughters father and I go to dinner with her . Last night he came to my Moms house for dinner. We get along for my daughter sake she is healthy and happy. Go trick or treating with him and my daughter anything for her good we do . If we did not have a daughter I would not care if I ever saw him ever again in my life. Think I am stuck with the guy for a long time. He tells me all about his g/f and life and I do the same we are just freinds.
Most recent break up it way to fresh to even figure out....still stings it's been a long week to say the least.
PS how do you get the bouncy people to stick on your post????????? thanks
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| Have you seen your EX recently?
Posted: 2/16/2008 8:49:10 PM | I haven't seen her in many months, though I have spoken to her. She called over Christmas, and we're on good terms now..., primarily because I'm finally, truly over her. I could not realistically say that ~1 year ago.
In fact, I was giving HER relationship advice for an issue she had with her latest BF which was upsetting her. I thought that was totally ironic, to be providing her advice, and knowing she's become co-dependent on her BF and has (she says) lost her confidence. Menopause does strange things to some women...and I really feel no glee about it, because now I just want us both to be happy with life, and she's still kind of...nutty.
...She always wanted to be friends, but I knew I'd never be able to heal if I did that initially. I put did distance there on purpose and it worked...albeit slowly.
Took me 3 years to lose any romantic feelings for her, but I made it. I will always love her, just not "that" way anymore. Ironically, that's what she said to me 3 years ago.
This year, I've learned the remunerative value of some notable items;
The price of finally paying off a car (once hers) loan taken over by me in the divorce, $12,000
The cost of 1.5 hours of over the limit Verizon minutes with the Ex, $6.87
The value of knowing someone no longer has a hold over your heart= priceless!
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| Have you seen your EX recently?
Posted: 2/16/2008 10:00:00 PM | been divorced twice and one long term relationship.
ex #1: He was kind of crazy. I was seeing a marriage counselor or 6 months, he would never go, despite their phone calls and letters to him. He left me, and I filed for divorce. Then he accused me of "not even trying". He still blames me for the divorce, is still nasty and sarcastic to me, blames me when he gets into trouble with his child support.
ex#2: The love of my life. Turned sour. cheated, lied. a jerk for a husband, but a really good dad. Just cant let him do anything for me. A true martyr. He checked my lawn mower one day, then later threw that up at me, How it was OK to ask him to do things for me etc, when I didnt ask, he volunteered. He wanted to take me to a concert of one of our favorite singers, and threw a fit, because I said "no, I dont want emily to get hurt". she was in that phase where she was dreaming of mommy and daddy getting back together again. And there was no way I would put her in the middle of that abuse.
ex#3. almost got married. Had the date set, planning the wedding, well, he was, I didnt have any sayso in the details. Lied, cheated, a thief, ex drug dealer, the list goes on and on. I havent seen him but once in the past year, sends things through the post office and emails me, changes his address and name to get through. But i see him now as he truly is. Just wish I could figure out how to make him stop contacting me. He thinks I have a gun and security cameras set up at my house. Otherwise , he would come over. I feel nothing but nausea, at the thought of him. The only person I ever wished ill of. | |
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| Have you seen your EX recently?
Posted: 2/16/2008 10:50:13 PM | | Why would you go back to an ex? The person is your ex for a reason. I guess if you're lonely or desperate you would go back. | |
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| Have you seen your EX recently?
Posted: 2/17/2008 11:30:36 AM | Been divorced twice, haven't seen the first ex in over 8 years, probably a good thing, I owe him a swift right-cross or two... As for the second ex? He's a great guy, I'd love to hear how his life and his new wife are working out for him... No hard feelings there, just two people with different ideas for a future...
I always think that if it didn't work out then, that there was a lesson to learn, and once the lesson is learned, it's time to move on. Even friendships that ended prematurely have the same reasoning.
I don't wish anything bad on the people in my past, but I have no intentions or desires to attempt to rekindle any old flames...
CowTrucker
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| Have you seen your EX recently?
Posted: 2/17/2008 2:12:04 PM | Last time I saw my ex she was screaming "No No Please No"! as I shut the lid on the trunk and dumped it overboard,lol!Like Luca Bratzi,she swime with the fishes,lol!  (I'm kidding,lol!) | |
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| Have you seen your EX recently?
Posted: 2/17/2008 3:14:18 PM | | yes at valentine dance shocked for pof .i'vbeen with him only aweek ago saying that for the hundred time to me ILOVE YOU NOONE CAN TAKE YOUR PLACE iwaited 4 days nothing my friend said how many times is this man going to do this to you she said when he dosen't get lucky he keeps coming back iguess he's been going to these parties a long time while i worked back shift which meant he'd give me a kiss in evening and say have agood shift at work than go take the van pick up people head to halifax and dance all night at pof dance and date behind my back i attended last dancefor val my first time this week my friend was right he played me very well for years iput so much trust in this renewal BANG. HURT AGIAN now i know why he did't want me on com well it sure opened my eyes since i got one a month ago and my new friends showed me this whole new world including his profile on pof what he said about himself blew me away now i'm on here move over honey there's always room for the devoted HEART THAT'S DESERVING OF IT. | |
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| Have you seen your EX recently?
Posted: 2/17/2008 4:53:44 PM | | Yes, bumped into him at my old haunt. I wouldn't say I felt nothing, but I just kept on dancing. He's in the past for a reason, and that's where he belongs. | |
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| Have you seen your EX recently?
Posted: 2/17/2008 5:01:55 PM | | This is so weird. I saw my EX just last night at this rock bar where we used to go together. I was worried about this but I liked the place too and the people there so I decided that I wouldn't let him run me out of my life. It was definitely awkward. Some feelings came back but later into the night, I got over them. I am glad I got it out of the way so I don't have to dread it anymore. Plus I lost over 100 lbs since we broke up so I got the revenge in that all by itself. | |
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| Have you seen your EX recently?
Posted: 9/21/2008 12:30:41 PM | | I saw my ex for the first time in 4 months the other day and even though she wants to be friends, I still feel a connection between us and I find that quite scary! I still don't know what to do for the best, but am rebuilding my life and moving forward in a positive way for myself.. | |
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| Have you seen your EX recently?
Posted: 9/21/2008 1:44:06 PM | I saw my ex last week for lunch.
I give him a good ass kicking for his "new" GF being a nut job and he always tells me "I told you so" over stupid things I do.
We are best friends and always will be. | |
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| Have you seen your EX recently?
Posted: 9/21/2008 2:11:28 PM | | My ex and I are still good friends. He rushed into a new relationship as soon as we separated. His new gf has found out she has cancer, the same type he lost his mother to. I feel very sorry for him and know what he's going through better than probably anyone else he knows. I don't think I should close the door on good people. | |
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| Have you seen your EX recently?
Posted: 9/21/2008 2:18:58 PM | yeah...i saw her but not recently. ran into her at the grocery store last december. first time in over 10 years since i last saw her. was weird...i laffed and wanted to throw up at the same time...  | |
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| Have you seen your EX recently?
Posted: 9/21/2008 2:27:09 PM | ^^^lol...
I see my ex-husband all the time because of our children. Occasionally, we still completely shit each other, but mostly we get on fine.
Ex-lovers..nope. | |
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| Have you seen your EX recently?
Posted: 9/21/2008 2:34:21 PM | Oh yes - 2 days ago in my kitchen!! he was picking up my daughter. I was preparing a ormantic night in for a new friend & I was all dressed up with the place rendolent with fragrances, candles etc. That was weird - I used to do that for him. Feelings ... ? MMmmm, he did a lot of really awful things over the past decade. But I thought he looked smug and fat and short. And he had let his beard crawl down his neck.
On the whole, he's the ex and, although it took 10 years, I am pleased with that. | |
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| Have you seen your EX recently?
Posted: 9/21/2008 2:41:08 PM | | No way,,,Not ever going back to him and when I saw him then I knew why I left him,,,{The Player of all players} | |
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