| Have you seen your EX recently?
Posted: 9/27/2006 1:46:25 PM | I see my ex-husband regularly when he comes to pick up and drop off our son from access visits. I was heartbroken when he left me 2 years ago, but now I look at him and wonder what the heck I ever saw in him. I've changed a great deal in 2 years.
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| Have you seen your EX recently?
Posted: 9/27/2006 1:51:27 PM | | If you know he wants you and is hanging on then you should cut off ties completely!!! tell him it would be best, it may hurt him, but what is holding on with no hopes of being with you doing for him!!! Tell him to move on and forget you.....unless you want and enjoy him nipping at your toes like a little puppy dog! DO THE RIGHT THING! set him free!!!!! | |
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| Have you seen your EX recently?
Posted: 9/27/2006 1:58:32 PM | I see mine MUCH TOO OFTEN.......kids' games, kids academic functions, drop off of the boys.......
and the odd thing is ..........HE IS STILL SO FREAKIN ANGRY after 9 yrs.......like waaaaaaateva man....... | |
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| Have you seen your EX recently?
Posted: 9/27/2006 1:58:43 PM | I wouldn't say he's an Ex, we dated just a few months but it was hard to get over it so No, I don't think I'd want to Run into him. I think It would just re-open the wound , you know ...Dredge up old feelings, wonder whay he couldn't go the distance, what was wrong with ME for god sake you freaking geek...... oops , sorry 
Probably best to not see him.... maybe not for many years, Like when I'm married with a man who adores me and hopefully looking fabulous !  | |
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| Have you seen your EX recently?
Posted: 9/27/2006 2:11:31 PM | I see him nearly everyday ~ or at least talk to him everyday. He's hilarious. He came over to show me pics of his new g/f. Lovely lady. I'd miss him if he disappeared ~ we parted well over 6 years ago and the divorce gave us the option to like each other again. He's one of the few people that I know I can count on when things are rough and he feels exactly the same about me. I don't agree with some of the stuff he does ~ but it no longer directly effects me ... the upside to divorce!!! Overall, he's a good guy.  | |
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| Have you seen your EX recently?
Posted: 9/27/2006 2:39:45 PM | | Ex is called Ex for a reason. You sound confused. If you have no intentions of going back, you wouldn't say "Who knows?....I do believe in fate". If you are not seeing anyone right now, you'd probably take him back. If you have moved on, you wouldn't entertain him anymore. As simple as that. | |
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| Have you seen your EX recently?
Posted: 9/27/2006 3:14:57 PM | | Is within the past 5 years recent? Perhaps I should ask someone from the Lost Generation. Any of you guys still alive? Is that recent from your perspective? | |
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| Have you seen your EX recently?
Posted: 9/27/2006 3:18:55 PM |
When I make a decision to end something I have put a lot of time and thought into the decision making process and I knew in my heart, mind, and soul that there was nothing left between us besides our children of course.
Exactly. I've never gone back to an ex, regardless of how 'wonderful' the relationship was at its best, or how I felt about them when it ended. If it's over, it's over. Clouding the issue with all the maybes or if onlys isn't helping anyone.
I see my ex-husband every two weeks when I pick my kids up after his visitation. I see him occasionally at school functions that he attends. He consistently reminds me why I couldn't be with him anymore.
I haven't seen my ex-bf since a couple of months after the baby was born. I have no desire to see him, but if/when I do, I am extremely confident that I won't suddenly want him back either. | |
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| Have you seen your EX recently?
Posted: 9/27/2006 3:38:02 PM | | No, not for a long time, and I don't feel ANY nostalgia! I only wish I had then what I've got now. My life would have been a lot happier! | |
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| Have you seen your EX recently?
Posted: 9/27/2006 4:39:23 PM | Yes I see him most days, I have mixed feelings about this sometimes I miss what we had until he shows his angry and controlling side then I feel relieved not to be with him anymore.
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| Have you seen your EX recently?
Posted: 9/27/2006 4:56:56 PM | Sometimes seeing your ex again after a few weeks or months helps to solidify why you broke up with him in the first place......
...you know just in case you were thinking there were residual feelings....
I'm also with merriemoe who said:
/"Probably best to not see him.... maybe not for many years, Like when I'm married with a man who adores me and hopefully looking fabulous ! " | |
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| Have you seen your EX recently?
Posted: 9/27/2006 5:24:57 PM | I saw my ex today!!! He owns an auto glass business...I needed him to fix my car...we haven't seen each other in a while...after fixing my windows we just stared at each other..I know we are still in love with each other..it just wasn't working....and yes he kissed me and I melted....life takes such strange turns...who knows what this will bring....he's coming over tonight so we can talk....this should be interesting!! Who knows maybe we can finally work things out....
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| Have you seen your EX recently?
Posted: 9/27/2006 5:51:09 PM | I saw an ex recently....who i thought i would never lose the connection we had....
but im glad to say that intense connection has all but disappeared.......
NEXT>>> | |
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| Have you seen your EX recently?
Posted: 9/27/2006 7:19:18 PM | I saw him tonight, he needed a ride to go pick up his car from the garage. I went in and we talked for a while. It's been six months since he kicked me out of his bed and told me that he didn't want a relationship, he just wanted to be friends. It took me several months to get to the point where I could even talk to him, much less spend time with him, but now I'm trying to be his friend and we've done several totally platonic things together.
Before we left to get the car, he came over and put his arms around me and held me like he hasn't done in a long time. He smelled so good, and he felt so good, and then he kissed me like he hasn't done in six months. He gave me that look, and said that we could forget about the car, and I was so tempted. But I didn't do it, even though resisting him was one of the hardest things I've done lately.
And now I don't know if I can see him any more, because the next time I might not be able to say no and then I'll be right back where I was six months ago and that was not a good place. | |
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| Have you seen your EX recently?
Posted: 9/27/2006 7:28:21 PM | | Go with your instinct Toby...remember what he did to you tossing you out of his bed like that...if he did it once, he'll do it again, once he doesn't need you anymore... | |
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| Have you seen your EX recently?
Posted: 9/28/2006 2:24:51 PM | Well have I seen my ex recently? hmm
There is one Ex I'd really like to run into, he and I dated when I was younger (I was 18 he was 26) even though there wa a huge age gap we got along great. Now that Im older I'd really like to run into him and sghow him Im not the youngin' I used to be.
Ex of three years.... We tried being friends, I started seeing my current ex, and it well didn't work out. Jealousy and other things got in the way.
Current Ex, well I haven't seen him in three weeks. Were in the process of trying to be friends after a huge disturbance in our realtionship caused it to be blown apart....
Its been tough.....
Life would be less complicated without your exes, that after you dated them and they broke your heart or vise-versa that they would just fall off the planet, but sadly they don't...take the road less travelled....deal with them the best way you know how...or stick to my rule 'you don't date your exes, you broke up with them for a reason." | |
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| Have you seen your EX recently?
Posted: 9/28/2006 3:32:45 PM | First ex wife(95) I havent seen in 10 years. I send her 1 email a year. Happy Birthday. She send one in reply 'Thanks'
Second Ex wife. Daily due to our 5 yo daughter. Its not always pretty about 50/50 on it being ugly. Little one is no where around when this happens. Not sure if I want to ever be friends with her again. But I must learn to be civil.
Last Ex GF. Always wondered what happen to her. She just fell off the planet.
First Ex gf. Still friends with her. 24 years strong. Going to help her and her husband move this weekend. First time seeing her in about 9 years. Its gonna be weird.. | |
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| Have you seen your EX recently?
Posted: 9/28/2006 4:37:46 PM | | I saw my ex at my bank about a year or so ago and she gained about a thousand pounds :) I barely recognized her........I thought to myself damn " there you go ??" | |
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Sigi
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| Have you seen your EX recently?
Posted: 9/28/2006 5:10:06 PM | On a regular basis.
Meaning: passing him some times on the road by car, or he is some times outside his place (I pass his place daily, on my way to work, by car). I don't greet.
Flashback: "What on earth was I thinking....and a relieved sigh ...."
Smile, Sigi | |
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