| Guys who say no?
Posted: 10/4/2006 11:16:10 AM | | if the woman was fat and ugly yea he would say no most men would except for the chubby chasers of course. | |
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| Guys who say no?
Posted: 10/4/2006 11:24:22 AM | Wow..that would be embarrasing.
And all these people saying "what men say no??"
Some men do have standards and morals! | |
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| Guys who say no?
Posted: 10/4/2006 11:24:50 AM |
Does this happen? Seriously?
Yes, and I've done it quite a few times. If she'll just hop in the sack with me on the first date, she'll hop in the sack with anyone. At least that is my rational.... | |
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| Guys who say no?
Posted: 10/5/2006 10:45:28 AM | I say no, in one way or another, all the time. There are women who just want to have sex 'no strings attached' (and I have met one or two that I believe). But most of the time, women are looking for more than that. If I think that is the case, there is no way I am going to have sex with her unless I think I can be 'more than that' for her. I don't need to be another reason for her to bash the male gender. | |
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Posted: 10/5/2006 11:22:58 AM | Thought my Xmases had all come at once until I noticed on your profile...no smoking....how bout a peace smog? | |
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| Guys who say no?
Posted: 10/5/2006 12:51:22 PM | | I wouldn't try to force anything, but I think I would really be worried about how into me he was... not that a guy saying no is a bad thing. It's just been drilled in my brain so much from past experiences that a guys want to sleep with you whether they actually like you or not. So if a girl gets the feeling that the guy really likes them and is ready to sleep with them... we arn't really prepared for rejection after that... even if you have an excuse. So dont be surprised itf a girl is thrown off by it, but definatly dont leave a girl hanging, let her know why you want to wait. And be TRUTHFUL! | |
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| Guys who say no?
Posted: 10/5/2006 1:29:42 PM | | Honesty is ALWAYS the best policy. You just have to watch how 'honest' you are if the question is something silly like 'how does my hair look?' or 'does this outfit make me look fat?' | |
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Posted: 10/5/2006 3:43:59 PM | Honesty is mostly good when required, other than that if it makes you look bad
sometimes it's good to keep it to yourself...
This one girl took it really well when I told her that I was a virgin and as for Nipple
Nibbler... I shouldn't of even let her give me the first kiss but since I did it would of
been required for me to let her know where we stood when we got in bed... I was
interested in the fact that she was interested in me and would of enjoyed to try for
a relationship but she wanted to move to fast and didn't seem to be interested in
getting emotionaly involved at all.
To think that all's guys want is sex is going with a stereotype because nowadays
there gets to be lesser and lesser differences between men and women when it comes
to sex. It seems to me that we are geering ourselves towards a wide array of aspirations
and expectations in both sex instead of men wanting it all the time and women only giving
it up for love... It still seems very difficult for a man to accept the idea that he is not interested in having sex for sex... Brought me to the nut house more than once... | |
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| Guys who say no?
Posted: 10/5/2006 4:55:14 PM | | almostdreaming...not sure...were you talking to me? | |
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Posted: 10/18/2006 8:29:13 PM | | I would feel hurt and unwanted. I would maybe say something about that hurting my feelings. If he would comfort me and make me feel better about it I would stay. If he didn't redeem himself I would leave. I would think that either he doesn't like me, for whatever reason, or else perhaps he is gay. Was wondering why you are asking? | |
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Posted: 11/27/2006 11:28:39 AM | | if she knew it was only sex then i would go for it if she wanted a relationship then no i would put her off because most guys do not like drama later on from some crazy lady | |
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Posted: 11/27/2006 11:54:42 AM | | guys that say no, well if a guy says no ,,,well then hes gay or theres something verry wrong with you but 99% of the time yah hes gay.... | |
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Posted: 11/27/2006 1:05:46 PM | I, truly, fail to understand why some people seem to think that all because a guy says no that therefore means he maybe gay. Using the same logic if a woman says no, does that make her a lesbian? There is no direct link between the two.
I have in the past said No on two occassions. On one occassion, I just felt she was moving to fast and I had to ask her to slow down. She took this as a personal rebuttal and instantly assumed I was not into her. I was able to reassure that was not the case but the timing just wasn't right. | |
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Posted: 11/27/2006 1:09:23 PM | | I would be ok with it. Obviously if you've gotten a few dates he is interested...maybe he just wants to wait till the timing is better...when you know each other better? I would ask why. | |
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Posted: 11/27/2006 1:17:23 PM | I guess the guy has the right to say no to.
If whoever initiates things, they shouldnt start things if they are just going to tease you and then turn cold. | |
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Posted: 11/28/2006 7:11:13 PM | | LOL.When has that ever happened? But if it happened to me i'd get upset and be kinda hurt and i'd just get up and go home. What guy says no to sex with a girl?He obviously has issues.lol. | |
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Posted: 11/28/2006 7:12:50 PM | | ok buddy...fat and ugly?you're not Brad Pitt or anything yourself judging by your picture so don't judge women. Why do mediocre men think they can get hot women?It bugs the crap outta me! | |
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Posted: 11/28/2006 7:19:58 PM | I would just say "ok", and later on would make a booty call, for which I'd be thankful I didn't get rid of.  | |
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Posted: 11/28/2006 7:20:32 PM |
If she'll just hop in the sack with me on the first date, she'll hop in the sack with anyone. At least that is my rational....
Fair enough, and maybe. But not necessarily. I'm a woman who hopped in the sack with a first date, and spent the next 25 years with him. I'd do it again, if I felt like it. Still doesn't mean I'd do it with everyone. Perceptions, perceptions ... are sometimes wrong. Just thought I'd mention. | |
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Posted: 11/28/2006 7:35:09 PM | To all skeptics, specially women that think every man has a loose waist band:
Yes that happens, quite often. I have said no to girls before cause I didn't like them , cause they were with more than one man, cause I was concerned they'd get hurt by getting attached too soon; etc.etc.etc. Is that enough explanation or you want " man says no 101 tutoring"??? | |
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Posted: 12/1/2006 11:10:56 PM | Yeah I've said no to girls before because I didnt like them or I thought they were too slutty for my tastes (i'm not really interested in one nighters) however if a guy is dating a girl and things get steamy and he says no well.. it could be that things are moving too fast for him. or he's one of those types that wanna wait until marriage or he's just not attracted to her (which is dumb because why would he date her in the first place) or he's just totally nuts I'd love for a woman to make the first move!!! It would be really weird for the girl because girls don't get rejected nearly as much as guys do..
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| Guys who say no?
Posted: 12/2/2006 12:31:24 AM | Kudos to the guy for saying no, hey if we women can do it, men can too. I'm only going to do it if it feels right to me, comfort levels have to be there.
On a side note I had a guy say no once, it drove me insane(damn I know what guys go thru with the tease) but he said he wanted to wait till it was right, we did at his caution and boy!!! was I glad, it was rockin and meant so much more than had we done it when we were hot n' heavy in the mood 1st time.
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| Guys who say no?
Posted: 12/2/2006 11:58:05 PM |
What guy says no to sex with a girl?He obviously has issues.lol.
Actually, I had the most interesting chat w/ a friend of mine on here about that a while back. Her opinion is that most women are raised with the idea that "guys are walking hardon's and will stick it in any wet hole, anytime, anywhere", and that if a guy says no most women will take it very personally. Kinda funny, since from the male perspective most of us are raised with the joke about "not tonight, I have a headache", and that no means "not tonight" or "I'm not ready for that yet", not that its a major slight against us.
Funny how we can hear "if a woman says no, its fine, she's not ready.... if a guy says no, there's something wrong with him". Just another stereotype, right up there with "if the woman says yes on the first date, she's a sl*t". | |
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Posted: 12/3/2006 9:17:36 AM | Well, I've said no (politely). Why are all (and I do mean almost all) you women so thunderstruck by this idea? Sex (and intimacy) comes with a price, for us guys too, and sometimes the price has just been too high, for various reasons. I'm way more surprised by you women's reactions than the guys, don't you all realize that there's a heart attached to that pecker down there? Some quotes from page 1 of this thread:
Does this happen? Seriously?
Guys don't say no, they don't know how, and mean it.
IF something like that happened my reaction would be taht I owuld be a little hurt and want to know why and if he was honest about reasons then i'd understand. how "owuld" you react if he asked for an explanation if you said no. "Honest about reasons"??? If "no means no", for women, then no means no. Period.
Guys say no???? Where? When? I didn't know that could happen
I would ask why and wonder if he was gay or had a fear of intimacy
I don't understand the question. A guy who says no to sex? I still don't get the question.
are you kidding? never met a guy who said no. does such exist? That's just one page. I'm a little too disgusted with the female half of the species after reading this to read the other pages in this thread, but I'd bet they go on in that vein. Women: read the posts here, especially from the younger guys and *listen*. If you don't want to be treated like meat, if you want to have your feelings respected, then respect theirs. Yeesh! We're all just people here. | |
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Posted: 12/3/2006 3:07:45 PM | | My friend and I think it means ummm well that he has somebody else, possibly may have some issues down south, such as E.D., an STD, a small peepee, he may be gay, lol, or he might not be clean or maybe the girl smells funny. Could be a number of things, but I wouldn't bother trying again if I were in that situation. | |
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