| What triggers you to run...
Posted: 1/30/2007 4:29:33 AM | | Electrical impulses to my brain. Rather quickly when I hear the words. HEY YOU. Stop right there. :P | |
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| What triggers you to run...
Posted: 1/30/2007 4:58:03 AM | | extreme anger, jealousy or a narcissistic / self centered personality. Oh, someone that can't admit they are wrong. | |
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| What triggers you to run...
Posted: 1/30/2007 8:25:52 AM |
The trick is moving on when you have let them become and important and welcome part of your life. How do you stop missing them so damned much?
If you can find out the answer to that one let me know. Then send me the details!!!
Not only have they become a part of your life but also your heart. It's definitely hard and takes time. Just try staying busy, hanging out with friends, getting out of the house and doing things. Allow yourself to cry when you feel the need, it's a good release. If your feeling sad, put on some sad music and feel it inside you, it's natural to grieve when you suffer a loss. Just don't allow it to overwhelm or consume you.
What's really hard is remembering all the good times, the laughter, the fun, the talks, special moments, yep those are the ones that haunt you, especially at night. Think I've drank more warm milk lately than I have in my entire life...and FYI no it doesn't help you sleep!!! | |
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| What triggers you to run...
Posted: 1/30/2007 8:38:43 AM | | I think it is important to learn from your past experiences but not let them guide you in the wrong direction. My best friend and I regularly hash over previous relationships. I have my favorites and least favorites for her and she has hers for me. Interestingly my favorite and least favorite relationship have probably both happened in the past year. lol I recently just ended a relationship with someone I worked with (ack!) and my best friend hated him. She is an important resource for me. She offers sound advice when I'm looking through a cloud of muscley attractive smoke. hahaha But I can say now that she was right, as she knows me better than I know myself sometimes.. the point is, we have all been hurt. All we can do from previous relationships is learn from them. When you let the broken heart go you are able to still see the good in people and look for someone who is right for you. You might even still see the good in the last person to break your heart. After all, you DID date them, so there must have been something good there..lol But don't ever give up the girls, ladies! Chix stick. Happy fishing! | |
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| What triggers you to run...
Posted: 1/30/2007 3:05:25 PM | | What would trigger myself to run would be any hint of violence, laziness, and lack of self confidence. | |
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| What triggers you to run...
Posted: 1/30/2007 3:19:12 PM | I haven't run yet....but then again I have endured some Jerry Springer like scenarios as a result. I figure at this point if I have to run it's because I myself still wouldn't have a clue how to pick em. Some people never do take the time to figure out who they are entering into a relationship with and consequently.....this thread.
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| What triggers you to run...
Posted: 1/30/2007 3:44:36 PM | That gun they fire after somebody shouts "Ready....Set...GO!"
Get's me every time - I'm off like a jack-rabbit! Watch me run.
Semi-seriously; if they have serious unresolved trust issues like you're talking about here and begin to confuse me with someone who 'done 'em wrong' in the past. In one's (humble) opinion, you've gotta stow (i.e. deal with) such baggage before boarding the dating plane. | |
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| What triggers you to run...
Posted: 1/30/2007 5:41:02 PM | I think the cardiovascular benefits are the main reason. I work out with weights in the gym, but I can't stand the stationary bikes, stair-climbers, etc... Too boring. A good run, on the other hand, feels great, and provides an opportunity to get outside and enjoy the weather.
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| What triggers you to run...
Posted: 1/30/2007 6:12:11 PM | | Excessive game-playing. I believe there is always a bit of a game in the seduction thing that goes on between men and women, but when it seems that you can't get past this certain personnae of something, and you're stuck going nowhere, in the same spot, with the same jokes. That makes me back rather quietly out. | |
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| What triggers you to run...
Posted: 1/30/2007 7:30:17 PM | | Extreme nagging, lying, overly possessive and wanting you to give up your friends....to start!! | |
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| What triggers you to run...
Posted: 1/30/2007 7:52:27 PM | | when they still live with mommy... that is when i am running.. had an ex husband and ex boyfriend, who could not cut the apron strings.. it broke my marriage up twice | |
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| What triggers you to run...
Posted: 1/30/2007 10:45:36 PM | | It's rare I run. No lung capacity. I get drunk and that makes me not give a shit. | |
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| What triggers you to run...
Posted: 1/31/2007 1:12:51 AM | marriage,,,,,,,,,11 phone calls a day,,,,,,,,,,clingyness,,,,,,,,,,,,,wanting to meet my mum!!! | |
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| What triggers you to run...
Posted: 1/31/2007 7:24:52 AM | Narcissism!!! If you've ever been " Gaslighted " ( reference the movie Gaslight ) you'll never forget it.
If someone insists on telling you why you really do, or feel what you do, after you've just finished explaining your reasons to them. It'll go something like this..." No, you do this because blah blah blah...or you feel this because blah blah blah...
Subtle and not so subtle signs of personal or professional disrespect. If you know more than me about whatever topic, I'm here to listen and learn. If you know less, it's your turn to listen and learn. If neither of us seems to have the answers let's research it together and learn.
Anyone who doesn't seem to grasp the idea of the Golden Rule!
A deficit spender..." How much debt can we get with what we earn. " No ryhme or reason to it, just not thinking ahead. Debt is ok for some things; a mortgage for a house, and equipment that will pay it's own way and things that you really truly need but, just don't have the cash for at the moment. Otherwise...you wind up where your "stuff " owns you!
Nuts to that! | |
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| What triggers you to run...
Posted: 1/31/2007 8:30:14 PM | I'm definitely gone if he's made a decision for us both, and only informed me about it later. (and no, I don't mean a romantic surprise ;)
In response to kats
Oh you mean like i bought prime real estate with good view of the sea. If lucky, you can see fireworks every night translates into i bought land in Israel close to the Lebanon border within reach of rockets. Either look on it as thats a realtor i want to sell my house or a twist on what we use to disguise reality. For the most part, i like to give people the benefit of the doubt. Offbeat and unique, scary to some, is a good quality in my books. Could be running from something interesting otherwise. | |
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| What triggers you to run...
Posted: 2/4/2007 9:11:46 AM | If I tell her .. "JUMP!!!"
and she doesn't immediately ask: "How High Master!?"
I am OUTTA there... | |
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| What triggers you to run...
Posted: 2/4/2007 6:43:51 PM | I will revisit this one....
Perhaps its when he attends my cubscout pinewood derby races with me and comments after its over how "effable" the moms there are....
Yeah, I think that did it. | |
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| What triggers you to run...
Posted: 2/4/2007 9:00:53 PM | When he tells you he loves you and you haven't even met yet....Reading a profile and chatting over the net and phone does not constitute LOVE....RUN FAST....RUN HARD....RUN | |
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| What triggers you to run...
Posted: 2/9/2007 2:27:54 PM | | Someone who has built his walls so high in his castle you can't get the mote down. There are tiimes when you need to get venerable, communicate, and have a difference of opinion. Work things out. People so stuck in their ways, so worried they will not get hurt will never really let anyone into their lives. If you two can't change and grow in a relationship, then there is not much going to happen but getting stuck in a rut. Fear paralysis a lot of people. | |
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