| What triggers you to run...
Posted: 9/29/2006 1:51:08 PM | What triggers me to run?
A man who WANTS marriage and kids! This is what would make me run a mile in 3 minutes. | |
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| What triggers you to run...
Posted: 9/29/2006 1:54:05 PM | ^^^I'm not your girlfriend and I'm not a emotional rollercoaster ride like most women.
For the record, Mrgordongecko makes the most sense in the entire thread. I agree with the example he provided. To not trust someone because of what you went through and eventually make that person feel responsible for what you went through is selfish. If you don't trust him yet, don't show him that you don't trust him. Act like you love him like no other and in the meanwhile drink the poison of the betrayal of your trust by your ex yourself. An innocent does not need to drink it for something he never did. Your ex did it to you, so either he or you need to drink it because it's between you two not the next guy who comes into your life.
Most of us here are over 18 and we all have a past life. That does not mean we have to dump everything out of the past to the next person that comes to our lives. Let it go and move on.
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Posted: 9/29/2006 2:17:40 PM | I have my things that I will not tolerate.....physical violence being the main thing. However, I am very trusting, and EVERYONE starts with a clean slate. I don't want to 'step on eggshells' due to what someone else's ex did to them...and I don't think someone ese should have to, either. Fair is fair....
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Posted: 9/29/2006 2:19:49 PM | DaHitman..I love how your little mind works Ugly. Yeah... ugly makes me run faster than Oprah to ice cream~!
Saracuda cool name...was that skunk's name Pepe'?
Browneyedleo your too funny!! That made my tummy hurt!
some really great posts thanks everybody for your thoughts...! I think Funnygirl answered best too bad it was on another thread...but that saucy lil gal got something through my pea brain thanks girly! | |
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| What triggers you to run...
Posted: 9/29/2006 3:37:35 PM | Anything that rings the awareness bell telling me she wouldn't meet my expectation or me not meeting hers.
And discomfort. | |
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Posted: 9/29/2006 3:55:50 PM | | My "sole" mate is 6 1/2 narrow also?? Barbiedoll I do Zodiac readings too...you will soon leave this world for your asteriod or one of those roids for SPAMMING! Happy journey! | |
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Posted: 9/29/2006 4:03:54 PM | This is my list:
1) A woman who HAS to get married (I don't want marriage)
2) Too many sexual partners
3) Substance abuse (Alcohol is included!)
4) Too much bars / clubbing
5) Poor finances | |
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Posted: 9/29/2006 4:11:45 PM | "but that saucy lil gal got something through my pea brain thanks girly!"
If you were referring to me, then you are quite welcome. But, you definitely do not have a pea brain. I think you are one of the very few unbiased woman who weighs both sides of the coin, here. Not many take criticisms well. I admire you for being such an unbiased and a fair person. I like your posts and this is a great thread. 
Learn to trust, Indigo. You sound like a wonderful human being. Someone worthy of your trust will come along, just don't let him go because of the past hurt you've been through.
Goodluck to you. | |
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Posted: 9/29/2006 4:20:10 PM | | Suicidal people or at least the ones that want you to feel guilty about it. Maybe I'm shallow or don't understand their problems. But it still scares me, when someone tells me they are going to slit their wrist if I do this or that, then sorry I ain't Dr. Phil and i'm gone. | |
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Posted: 9/29/2006 4:27:16 PM | Some pot heads that go just a bit too far with it , I mean "wake and bake" Come on already ?? You haven't even had breakfast yet .
Women who call you constantly get me a bit nuts,I had this one a while back that would call me even though she knew I had a gig that night. I was on stage and just put the phone in my front pocket on vibrate :)
I had one that wanted to move in after a few dates, Apparently she got kicked out by her boyfriend and had no place else to go.
I had one who kept asking me if we would ever get married and at the time I was just out of my marriage , I mean fresh out !!!
Drunks who can't handle their booze, you know the angry type ?
Anyone who likes country music :(
Another woman told me she has 5 kids by four different fathers... ewwww !!
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Posted: 9/29/2006 4:34:12 PM | I guess this is something we all have to deal with when in a new relationship. We tend to actually look for these signs without being aware that we are doing this.
Trust, jealousy, infidelity, control, manipulation, possessivness, and lack of respect are all things that I 'look' for. My previous long term relationship was enough to make me open my eyes to make sure history doesn't repeat itself. So I fly on......like a wounded bird....  | |
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Posted: 9/29/2006 6:04:13 PM | Just a few that come to mind:
Insecurity
People that have no goals in life
People that are lazy
Liars
Cheaters
Jealousy
Neediness
Takers
People that are "fake"
no job or income
People who are judgemental
bad attitudes
People who treat others poorly
People who BS to make themselves sound better than they are
People without values or morals
I could go on forever and ever.... I guess I have just been burned too many times, first sight of anything from past relationships, I book it out asap. | |
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Posted: 9/29/2006 6:52:29 PM | Dishonesty,
more prone to criticize me than to value me,
seems more interested in putting me in my place than putting a smile on my face
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Posted: 9/29/2006 11:01:06 PM | I saw a guy run one time...
an old woman was chasing him down the street
with a broom screaming at him in some forgein language.
I looked at the house the old lady came out of and there was this
really pretty young lady standing there in the doorway.
I was like..... OK........
I need to get out of this town. | |
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Posted: 9/29/2006 11:53:12 PM | As the years pass i dont have the patience to play the elaborate game of courtship anymore. So anything that mildly ticks me off makes me shake the dust off my feet.
I have tried to express the problems in previous threads but people seem oblivious to the problem....people are looking for perfection now and its not out there.
I gave up dating and relationships for good. I feel sorry for those of you who still hold false hopes. But maybe those false hopes keep ya going. If they do, more power to ya. | |
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Posted: 9/30/2006 12:13:09 AM | | The state of dating is pretty sad. I can accept small faults, like weight, height, hair or no hair. But there's alot of control freaks out there, men and women. I think we do get pickier with age, after having been through multiple episodes of BS, of every shape and kind. I think at my age (46) I would be happy to find someone to be more friends with, to hang with, and of course, sex, but not constantly. The last man I was with said he couldn't meet my expectations, meaning he only wanted to see me for ocassional sex. I don't want to get married, just have someone to do things with, short trips, movies. I've even taken turns with BF's when it came to paying. I grew up with older brothers, so I've seen some goldiggers in action and I've never done that. I have found that actions speak louder then words, so if you don't like the actions, run like hell. | |
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Posted: 9/30/2006 1:25:11 AM | | Faith is based on substance, not blind trust; if it walks like a duck, quaks like a duck, and looks like a duck; the damn thing's a duck... enough said. | |
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