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Posted: 10/1/2006 7:49:12 AM | | Boobs are boobs....men will love them no matter what. | |
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Posted: 10/1/2006 7:57:24 AM | people should only have surgery to make themselves feel better. or they should take a self esteem course. what did women do in the middle ages when there was no breast augmentation? they got over it. boobs are boobs. men like all kinds. you can't please everyone. if a man is not a fan of your boobs, thats his choice/loss. you could be equally not a fan of his small penis or his hairy ass.
most men (i would think) don't really care one way or the other. as long as there's something to grab on to, it should be ok. | |
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Joined: 10/16/2005
Msg: 53 | |
| ugly boobs
Posted: 10/1/2006 9:33:00 AM | I didn't read through this whole thread, but I have to say, PLEASE don't do something just because some man wants you to. If you go the plastic surgery route, do it for yourself.
I am a DDD, and my ex used to comment that he wanted them bigger(!) He would constantly make comments about the fact that they weren't sitting up under my chin, either. Well, at this size, they aren't going to be "perky"! (Not that they're at my knees either!) He was actually saving money up to get me a breast augmentation, I told him he could roll up the money and cram it. The funny part is, he ended up cheating on me with someone who is about a B cup, and then he had the nerve to phone and **** to me because hers were too small!!!!!! (I like 'em bright, apparently)
Anyway, good luck to you, and please just do whatever YOU feel right with. Remember that breast surgery does have it's dangers, too. Take care. | |
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Posted: 10/2/2006 5:39:07 AM |
I first heard about the pencil test on Oprah. Apparently, a woman is thought to have great perkiness if she could put a pencil in the space where the breast meets the chest (meaning, under the breast itself) and have it fall.
lol... you know I heard a different one growing up.
I heard that if you could put a pencil to the part where the breast meets the chest and if your breast can hold the pencil there and not fall, that means you're ready for your first real cup bra.
Sure there are more aesthetically pleasing looking breasts out there... but any man who you choose to show your entire body to will think he is looking at the most beautiful set of breasts anyways. Men are just excited to see and be with a beautiful naked woman. | |
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Posted: 10/2/2006 6:24:37 AM | | If you're always going to feel self concious about them, get them done. I grew up with a birthmark on my face; and no matter how many people tell you that 'it's what's inside that counts', what's on the outside matters too. I always had this sinking feeling that I was defective somehow, and in reality, it's a shallow world out there. My own confidence grew when I had it removed. By your post, it seems that you feel that your boobs are ugly. And yours is the only opinion that matters. Like all of us, you want to feel attractive. And you deserve to. So just do your research carefully to get the best surgeon. Check out their past work carefully. Don't scrimp! You'll have these breasts the rest of your life, and you'll love them if they're done right. If they're done wrong, you'll be kicking yourself the rest of your life. That's how important it is to get a good surgeon. If you know anyone who's had the procedure done, talk to them. There are quite a few different types of operations done, so second or even third opinions may be worth the time. Find out what your 'new' boobs will prospectively look like when they're finished; the surgeon should be able to tell you. A good surgeon can make them look like they are naturally shaped, with only a tiny faint white line as a scar where the incisions are made. Get the boobs you want. You only have one life. You shouldn't have to spend it being uncomfortable taking off your bra. Best of luck. Oh, and even though I'm a 'male' nurse, I've seen the results of quite a few breast 'jobs'. The bad ones are terrible, the good ones look and feel as natural as the real thing. All depends on the doctor doing the surgery. | |
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Posted: 10/2/2006 6:31:49 AM | I usually say naturally only, but if you are severly unhappy with your boobs, like some other people said ... its pretty cheap these days. Just dont fix things that aren't broken.
Bigger nipples = sexier to me anyhow. I can stand the lil tiny ones hehehehe
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Posted: 10/2/2006 6:43:51 AM | Whats the point? Your breasts not please you? Don't do anything to change you for a guy. When you are both 60 there will be a lot of things that don't look great.
If you don't like them then you have the option to change them, I would though ask your guy friend if you have one. If you are wondering if guys won't like you because of what your breasts look like, then maybe you are looking at the wrong guys.
I have been married twice, both had had children and both were the firmness of youth. I did not care what was under the clothes, I cared what they thought and their actions and words. Everything changes, face it everyone is growing older every day.
If you want to change for your own sake, do it. But don't base your future health on what a guy will think about your looks. My photo has me with long hair, none of my family liked me with long hair, I cut it back because I had issues with brushing my overly curly hair everyday and twice on sundays, but I did not cut it or grow it for anyone but me. | |
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Posted: 10/2/2006 8:00:46 AM | wear a bra all the time and do some simple chest exercises ....no matter what your boobs look like thy will get better...save your money for a vacation!! You earned those saggy tits!!
Ok the pencil test sucks...I have virtually no sag but 36FF boobs...the pencil fell but it took a while. | |
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Posted: 10/2/2006 8:59:11 AM |
Boobs are boobs....men will love them no matter what.
Ummm. Not necessarily true. When I was playing music professionally we were doing a show in Vegas. This girl kept flashing us but I didn't realize that she was at first.
Why?
Well, she was lifting her top barely above her belt line. It took me two takes to understand she was flashing us. Just to give you an idea, her boobs sagged down to her waistline and pointed straight at the ground.
Nobody in our band found it appealing. In fact, we asked the stage manager to tell her (politely) to stop flashing us. 
So no, not all men will love them no matter what.... | |
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Posted: 10/2/2006 9:42:05 AM | Big, small, perky, saggy, whatever.
Honestly the only boob trait that really turns me off is the gals with super hairy nipples.
If you can french braid your nipple hair ladies, shave it, wax it, or whatever the heck you need to do with it, but it grosses me out. | |
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Posted: 10/2/2006 10:44:37 AM | | i have never heard or seen of women with really hairy nips!! thats a new one to me! is this something that is quite common? crazy! | |
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Posted: 10/2/2006 1:35:39 PM | | I have seen all shapes and sizes. The personality that goes with them really does make the woman. I do like a sensitive nipple that gets hard and erect, and I have known some ladies that have little sensitivity. Big, small, little, large... I love them all. None are really ugly. BOOBS and UGLY....don't go together. | |
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Joined: 3/11/2006
Msg: 63 | |
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Posted: 10/2/2006 2:06:59 PM | | I was never concerned about how my boobs looked....until I had a lumpectomy 2 years ago. Then I was very self-conscious about the uneven-ness between the right and the left. 2 months ago, I had a breast reduction on the other side to 'even myself out'. I was worried guys would be freaked out by them (the scars), but so far I"ve been told it bothers me alot more than it bothers them. So, while I still get a little hesitant when it comes to being intimate with someone new, I've learned to accept my body as it is, and I have no regrets about having the surgery. Afteralll, I'm the one who has to live with my body everyday... | |
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Posted: 10/2/2006 2:09:36 PM |
No such thing as ugly boobs....well..unless you are some old pruney granny in her late 90s....and they touch the floor.
I disagree but then again, that's just MHO..... (see my story above). | |
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Posted: 10/4/2006 3:52:17 PM | | Dolce i am starting to understand your mental delema it is hard going through life and to be with someone going through time not being happy with the person your with or you know they are not the one life is cruel so are people. it is understandable what you are thinking thank god for opportinity dont mess this one up. Tall dark and handsome. | |
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Posted: 10/4/2006 4:23:52 PM | | It is the whole package they are evaluating not the particulars. | |
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Posted: 10/4/2006 5:05:39 PM | sweet teeth,
I am wondering how men feel about women with not to attractive breasts. Sagging after child birth, or larger nipples.
A guy honestly answering this question puts him in position to sound like a pig. Hence, some guys giving you good advice, but not answering it directly.
With that said, do you think men find women more attractive when they have distinctly more attractive breasts? Yeah -- it varies from guy to guy. Additionally, "unattractive" -- too relative of a term. A woman with breasts that are unattractive by most standards (because breasts by themselves, big or small are attractive by default), is less attractive, yes.
Would you prefer a woman who went to plastic surgery to have this fixed giving her a more plastic look or would you prefer natural breast that weren't too attractive?
Well, women can have it "fixed" without having a plastic look, although that costs more money. Again, depends on how bad her breasts look. If her breasts looked like wet tube-socks dangling with 50 nickels at the bottom, then yes - doing SOMETHING to keep them from looking ugly would be a good thing, in terms of attractiveness. There are pills that can actually help out "too saggy" of breasts, so if yours are just subpar, I don't think you'd necessarily need any surgery. | |
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Posted: 10/4/2006 5:15:07 PM | | I have never seen a breast that was not perfect. | |
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Posted: 10/7/2006 12:23:13 AM | So this octogenarian woman comes home one day after visiting the cardiologist, right?
Her husband, who's a little hard of hearing says...."So what did the doctor say?"
"He said I had acute angina."
"HUH??!! WHAT??!!"
"HE SAID I HAD ACUTE ANGINA!!"
"Ohhhhh...that's great honey....but your tits still look like chit!!" | |
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Posted: 10/7/2006 9:47:29 AM | there is no such thing as ugly boobs, they're all unique, just like each of us--some of us have large nipples, some have small, some have hair on them, some don't, they can be different sizes, some droop more, some are super perky, they change as we change--they're breasts, love them no matter what they look like!!! I love ''my girls''. Women jiggle, bounce, wiggle, etc--that's the way we're designed, and our breasts are part of that design. There is no such thing as ugly boobs, hell, for that matter, is there really such a thing as ugly???
And for the record, men I know and some gay women I know admit to hating the feel of breast implants. But those are just the people I've chatted with, i'm sure there are others I know who like them. | |
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Posted: 10/8/2006 5:06:32 AM | | you are difinitely wrong, you can exercise and exercise all you want and you will never ever get the boobs to perk up...take it from a gym rat like myself...it is impossible!!!! | |
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Posted: 10/8/2006 5:08:47 AM | | Where do people get that if you exercise your saggy boobs would not be saggy anymore...Bull, I wish...I know because I am a gym rat...I would encourage breast augmentation, that is the only way to get perky boobs. | |
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Posted: 10/8/2006 8:57:26 AM | Here's the deal,,, at some point age and gravity have an effect on all our parts,,, so sad,, but so true.
I'm 58 and wear a 46DDD bra,,, they sag some,,,, does it make them ugly? Well sugar, if you think so,,, put your clothes on and go home,,, don't let the door hit your azz on the way out.
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Posted: 10/8/2006 4:19:46 PM | Oh my goodness! Be happy with what the good Lord blessed you with. Myself, a woman who is beautiful in heart and soul is 100% more attractive to me than a woman with sagging boobs. I just hope you're just as happy with my less than impressive penis. Do you see where I'm going here?
I'm more interested in if you're a good mommy, than I am about how your boobs look.
I love a woman for what's in her heart, and not for how her boobs sag. If you can still get aroused when a man is suckling on them, then why change them.
What is it with people wanting the perfect body? The perfect body is useless, if you don't have a perfect brain to go with it.
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Posted: 10/8/2006 6:19:17 PM | | "I never met a boob I didn't like"....I think Will Rogers said that...or was it Larry Flint? | |
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