| For Men Unhappy with they're sex life
Posted: 10/6/2006 9:22:10 AM | princess seeker - I truly get your point, however you have misunderstood or misdirected what the point of my comment was.
I agree that yes, regardless of your asking questions, playing detective and being lied to would indeed be the people you would not want to, or have the desire to have sex with. Also I see that you feel life and physical problems get the upper hand on a satisfactory love life. However what I am saying is that a natural desire - a feeling - a sense that someone is your sexual compatible supersedes all of that. If you have a true deep and undeniable desire for another person 'nothing' will ever stop you from wanting to connect in a sensual, deep and involving way!!! A true compatible love partner is deeper than life itself - it is an emotional connection that comes from the soul and cannot be put asunder. | |
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| For Men Unhappy with they're sex life
Posted: 10/6/2006 11:09:40 AM | You can't go wrong with a prostitute!
Unless of course 'she' turns out to be a 'he'. Well, technically a 'shim'. I thought it was a thumb in my a$$. I don't wanna talk about it! Leave me alone!!! | |
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| For Men Unhappy with they're sex life
Posted: 10/6/2006 11:26:10 AM | I'm currently having sex with the greatest partner ever. Me!
If you can't enjoy sex alone, you'll never enjoy it with someone else. Or at least they won't enjoy you and for me that's half the fun of sex, watching your partner enjoy it as much as you.  | |
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| For Men Unhappy with they're sex life
Posted: 10/6/2006 12:29:03 PM | I really get irritated about these commercials and advertisements which are supposed to tell you how to spice up your sex life.
They are no help at all !
Not a single one of them help you in getting someone into bed to begin with.
%99 of the problem is just getting someone in the damn bed ! | |
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| For Men Unhappy with they're sex life
Posted: 10/6/2006 12:38:36 PM | | As for my sex life I am unhappy because I can not seem to find a partner that I am attracted to. I travel and when I return home I just do not find the women that I meet as someone I would want a relationship with. If I just wanted to pick up one for the night that is not a problem but one with style and class is as a stylish and classy lady would not do a one nighter. Men definatley have a harder time. Women control the situation. | |
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calaf
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Joined: 2/27/2006
Msg: 31 | |
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| For Men Unhappy with they're sex life
Posted: 10/6/2006 6:20:24 PM | >>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>If I just wanted to pick up one for the night that is not a problem but one with style and class is as a stylish and classy lady would not do a one nighter. Men definatley have a harder time. Women control the situation.<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<
You're quite obvioulsy not looking hard enough Rob, there are plenty of classy ladies around, however men who are happy with the one night stands, don't seem to look hard enough, because deep down, they're only looking for a one-night stand and nothing more! If some men had their own way, secretely they'd on only be looking for a one night stand, but also they'd be fantasizing about having sex with two women also! It doesn't surprise me why some males just can't find a decent and classy lady, it's because many seem contented with just having 'casual' sex and not a more committed relationship! | |
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Cyg
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Joined: 10/3/2006
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| For Men Unhappy with they're sex life
Posted: 10/6/2006 11:32:52 PM | I can answer this one.
Being a male. with a very active sex drive. and of a partner who knew of only one postion missionary. The quality was never like the movies or the porn. The reality was good but never on the same level. The quanity was about in middle the whole twenty years of marriage about once a week. Then after the kid was born dwindled down too about once a month.
Now its nothing.
Was I happy with the Sex? I was until I found out what everyone else was getting (and that was thur the net). Ignorance is bliss they say.
I do feel that men do have more limited options. I mean look how we have too fish just too find a gal too chat with.
I felt I had what I needed at the time.
Now I know I can do better.
Will that happen? time will tell.
Hope this answers your questions.
just too let you know I was also admin of many adult games that simulated sex in them. I knew alot of peolple and dealt with alot of online jealousey over virtual partners being part of that staff.
Don't get depressed, tho.
One thing I learned, there will always be someone more pretty, or more smart looking, or have a bigger member, or bigger rack, than the next guy or gal.
Just be content with what is in front of you.
If you want more sex with more partners, there out there. But you won't get the emotional side of a relationship from them. | |
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| For Men Unhappy with they're sex life
Posted: 10/6/2006 11:49:41 PM |
Most definitely. The absolute vast majority of women can find a willing sexual partner (whom they don't pay for) at any given moment.
This is because men are friendly and women are not.
"...Unhappy with they're sex life"
they're = they are
Unhappy with they are sex life ???
...unhappy with their sex life.
I am unhappy with you're spelling.  | |
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| For Men Unhappy with they're sex life
Posted: 10/7/2006 12:16:17 AM | in my opinion, most of us really do put way too much importance on sex. this country has repressed itself for so long, it's like we're now bursting at the seems. Sex is the impetus for seemingly every driving factor and decision in our lives. Sex has more power over us then do we over it - isn't that sad - and what? all for a very limited engagement, from the quickest "draw" to the most verile among us - sex can only last for so long - and then what? live for the moment where sex comes again?
if we chose not to let sex overpower us, to rule us, to guide so many of our idle moments - i wonder how much different our life may be, the different choices we'd make, the different things we'd do with ourselves, the different experiences we'd encounter.
not wanting to be a hypocrite, because i like the activity as much as the next person - but sometimes there is value to step back from it all and just take stock.
if we weren't asking questions about "unhappy sex life" what would we be asking questions about? what other parts of our lives could we enrich by withdrawing so much energy from sex and channeling it elsewhere.
again, not wanting to be a hypocrite, it's just a little something i try to bear in mind and at least keep a perspective on. | |
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| For Men Unhappy with they're sex life
Posted: 10/7/2006 1:29:40 AM | | I think over the past decade with easy access to online dating has made many men question themselves and whether the grass is greener on the other side. Women will always have the upper hand on online sites as there are are always more men looking for sex than women so they can pick and choose the ones that they feel they will click with, so it's not a case of scraping the bottom of the barrel, you have to wait to see who, if anyone, wants you. From past experience quantity seems to come along in famine or feast proportions, there is either so much you don't know who to choose or absolutely nothing for months on end. As for quality, sex is always what you make it, if you put nothing in, you'll get nothing out of it. | |
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Cyg
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Joined: 10/3/2006
Msg: 37 | |
| For Men Unhappy with they're sex life
Posted: 10/7/2006 6:55:28 AM |
This is because men are friendly and women are not.
"...Unhappy with they're sex life"
they're = they are
Unhappy with they are sex life ???
...unhappy with their sex life.
I am unhappy with you're spelling.
I have too wonder, why so much emphasis is put on proper English. Some forums have built in spell checkers. Obvious this one does not. But it does make one question why we forum users took on the duty of becoming proof readers.
The topic was unhappy sex life.
Sorry, I see alot of people bashing people for using bad grammer when sometimes they write with thier feelings and don't take the time too proof read thier inputs. I personally never find fault in someone responding too a thread with bad english, german, or whatever thier lanuage is.
Ok no more thread jacking back too the topic on hand. | |
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| For Men Unhappy with they're sex life
Posted: 10/7/2006 5:26:45 PM | Seriously as much as I like going with out I'm totally willing to wait for what I'm looking for. I mean it's easy to get girls but in the end you will not be satisfied just going for sexual chemistry alone. I'm 24 years old and I have dated all types...
In time you'll realise what you're looking for and it might take some dating to figure that out.
If you're wondering how to pick up girls it's largely on how comfortable they are with you. I've always found that making people laugh is a great way to break the ice and let a girl be comfortable with you. Humor defines quick thinking, intelligence, and abstract thinking. Since a lot of women are more defined by emotional attraction it's more important to work on that.
When dating don't crowd a girl into a movie where you can't talk at all. Go some where you can talk and have fun to build a connection. It doesn't have to cost money or anything. It's all about talking and getting to know each other. Chemistry decideds itself since you can't force attraction...there's, "Plenty of fish."
Good luck... if you have any more questions feel free to message me | |
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