| What do men really want???
Posted: 10/30/2006 4:37:35 PM | Msg 99, coutry girl66.
Thanks for agreeing with me  
Great minds think alike!!:) | |
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| What do men really want???
Posted: 11/3/2006 4:39:23 AM | | sportegirl, I think you're great. And unlike these other ,obviously, physically inept guys that have responded I would love to compete with you in any sport of your choosing. I think that , if there is an initial spark there, that competing against a member of the opposite sex can tell you alot about their character. I am a firm believer that women who have been or are members of a team sport are more likely to be batter dates, for me anyway. I can envision picking you up playing a game of one on one in any physical sport, working up a sweat, then going to have a beer and rerally get to know one another. After the game you would know how competitive I am and I would know how competitive you are, we would have seen how both react to losing a game or point or whatever, and we would have found out how each other reacts after winning or losing. All would give valuable insight into the character of the other person. Don't listen to these whiny guys that have probably never played a sport in their lives, and guys weight lifting,bowling, darts and fishing are not sports. UNtil you have actually strapped on the pads don't think for one minute that sportegirl or women like her wouldn't be great dates. Try it sometime , you might just pick up a skill. | |
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| What do men really want???
Posted: 11/6/2006 8:12:41 AM | In the words of Jeff Foxworthy:"I want a beer and i wanna see something naked!"
In the words of Simon B. Cotter:"If I can't get sex out of a situation,I'm hungry!" | |
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| What do men really want???
Posted: 11/26/2006 9:40:21 PM | I don't know what other guys want.I know I want to meet someone and become friends,thats it.But if I was looking for friends with benefits(which I am not) then I'd be looking for the same stuff as a g/f . someone who cares for my feelings, someone who listens to what my feelings are, and here's one for the so called strong women..that crap about all men are dogs, and we are not worthy..well I have had way too many women want a f**k buddy on here than I can shake a stick at.I don't want that crap,it's OLD .I 'd really like stimulating conversation,with a nice woman who knows what life is really about.and not just all about her.in a real relationship you'd have to consider both people right? or am I imagining that?LOL | |
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| What do men really want???
Posted: 11/28/2006 6:27:40 PM | | well,for a g/f I think she should talk, but keep insults to a minimum,and tell me her opinion,when asked not all the time. IF i wanted a +**** session,Id watch maury povich,or jerry springer.lol | |
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mmm43
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Joined: 11/13/2006
Msg: 108 | |
| What do men really want???
Posted: 11/28/2006 6:32:09 PM | Hmmm .. tough question...
The only answer I have found on that subject....
They want a woman that works ...so she can support him (been there twice)
They want a woman who has a home ... so they can move in with her (been there twice)
They want a woman with a Credit card ... so they can borrow on it (and NEVER pay it back... been there once )
AND... They want a woman who does not respect herself , with low self esteem so they can STOMP all over her and run the show (They tried.. they failedddddddddd !!! )
M 
PS: Now who is going to prove me wrong on this..? lol | |
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| What do men really want???
Posted: 11/28/2006 6:50:36 PM | I can't stand being supported,I have no control over my own cash.
I'd rather own my own home,with no damned pink in it. thank you very much.
I like my own credit card that way she can't over spned on it.
and there is nothing worse than a woman who does not respect herself, then she can't respect anyone else..
so there.nuff said. | |
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| What do men really want???
Posted: 11/28/2006 7:30:08 PM | I think it depends on the man. No two people are the same, they all have certain likes and dislikes so I can't see how anyone could possibly come up with an answer to that.
I mean hell...if they were all alike, life wouldn't be much fun for us ladies! 
If you could "create" your perfect man...he would probably be made up of at least half a dozen or so different people. At least, I know mine would! And in saying that, I'm sure men feel the same way about us...so both sexes expect the women/men they date to be as close to their "ideal image" as possible - hence the WHAT TO MEN (and women, if we want to be fair here) REALLY WANT factor! | |
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| What do men really want???
Posted: 11/28/2006 8:20:40 PM | If i could create my perfect man......... he would have millions, cant talk, gives me all the money, have a maid and a cook and well always on his knees
But really all men want is sex and food so if he dont have a hard on order him some food  | |
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| What do men really want???
Posted: 11/29/2006 7:36:10 AM | Soooo true...
I was talkign about this recently...I have 3 or 4 ex's that I would love to take pieces of and create a complete man :) One's sense of humour, one's intelligence, one's good looks, and one's ability to treat me so well :P | |
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mmm43
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Joined: 11/13/2006
Msg: 113 | |
| What do men really want???
Posted: 12/7/2006 5:38:08 PM | Honestly... and aside from all the joking and teasing in this post...
I have no idea what men want... they never say... we are supposed to be mind readers and figure it out with a few clues that include whining.. and grumping etc...
Ive not met alot of men that can actually articulate what they want in a relationship.. and those that can.. Ive not dated them.. they are usually friends...
Thats part of the problem... Men will tell thier best friends what the problems are in thier current relationship.. whether its a guy or a girl friend... but not tell thier partner..
And i hate to say it.. but alot of women are guilty of the same ...
I guess that means that we realy should become great friends with those we care about or love.. or else we will be hearing about our relationship problems from outsiders...
That would not be a good thing...
M | |
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| What do men really want???
Posted: 12/7/2006 7:00:17 PM |
Men will tell thier best friends what the problems are in thier current relationship.. whether its a guy or a girl friend... but not tell thier partner..
And i hate to say it.. but alot of women are guilty of the same ...
I think we can tell men whats wrong all we want but some guys/things will just never change. | |
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| What do men really want???
Posted: 1/14/2007 3:53:44 PM | | Easy....Men have 2 emotions...horny and hungry. If he doesn't have an erection, make him a sandwich. | |
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| What do men really want???
Posted: 1/14/2007 4:13:41 PM | Speakign as a man, what I want I have listed in my profile, it's pretty much the same things as I bet woman want. But instead stereotyping are the oppsite sex, men do it and woman do it as well. I'm not talking about anyone post just men/woman in general.. ooh that maybe stereotyping in of it self..LOL I say read soemone's profile adn read clearly what they have written and how they have written it. And Instead of pointing anyone out I'll use myself as an example.. I state what it is that I'm looking for. And I'll quote myself...
"A long term relationship should start as a friendship(to get to know one another), progress to dating(to test if both are complimenting to one another) and then well as time slips by while dating we both come to realise that it's for the long haul, a life spent with someone we actual care about." so what i get from thsi is I want to start off as friends, take it slow and get to know the person as a person and not go for "gold" right of the start. I for one has more then just two emotions(and I'm quoting the user abover me but I'm sure she meant some humor in what she posted as well so I'm not being rude to her), I feel Anger vs. Calmness, Love, Enmity, Fear, Confidence, Shame, Shamelessness, Kindness, Unkindness, Pity, Indignation, and Envy... Not everyone has the ability to write what they think/feel and put across to everyone so that everyone will understand, sometimes one has to read between the line. Some word things in a way that peopel aare not use to(I think I do that in my messages to people whose profiles I find I like). So basically I think I can say most men want what most women want, a stable relationship, a loving partner, some one that compliments/completes them, soemone attractive to them.
Tim
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| What do men really want???
Posted: 1/22/2007 7:37:02 AM | That's an easy question.
They want a gal who isn't too clingy. Someone who is sexy. Someone who isn't a prude in the bedroom. Someone who doesn't argue about every little thing. A gal who actually doesn't mind when you head out with your buddies. A woman with a good sense of humor. Someone to love you unconditionally. Why do you think we love our pets so damn much.lol
A woman who is kind and loving.
I suppose the same thing women look for. haha
And Oh Yeah NB****A woman who doesn't have a memory like an elephant and bring up all of your mistakes at that strategic moment. | |
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| What do men really want???
Posted: 1/22/2007 8:27:03 AM | Each man is different ,this thread is more stereotype then reality.
Other then that i want someone who can be a little freaky in bed but can turn a 360 outside the bedroom ,plus be loyal and not come on dating sites or go down that road while trying to keep a relationship with me.
Simple really . | |
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| What do men really want???
Posted: 1/23/2007 2:14:41 PM |
I'm at a lose here. If i was a guy, (which I'm not), I would think an attractive, educated, active and independent women would be just what the Doctor ordered. But it's been my experience that men like women who are weak and clingy. Non of which I am! Several times now I've seen guys I've dated in the past with these cheerleader type girls, fake from head to toe, with the IQ of a plastic flower. Now, I'm not saying that there is anything wrong with these girls, cause they deserve to be loved just as much as you and I, however, I see them with men I would have thought would be looking for more out of a life partner.
What the deal guys?
If you look at the guys profiles on here, they all pretty much say the same thing; seeking: attractive, educated, active, "not afraid to get their hands dirty", "down to earth". No where do i see; "I'm looking for a chick with fake everything and doesn't have to be able to walk and chew gum at the same time!" But I guess that would just be wrong now wouldn't it!
My theroy is that guys are confused!... lol ...No, for real... I think that most guys are intimidated by strong successful women!
can we all please get over the whole men don't know what they want thing. Some men do know what they want, they have it all planned out from the moment they fist start to build their profile here. These are the men that get blocked and labelled "stalkers".
Really everyone is different. There could be any number of explanations for the behaviour and choices of your ex's. While you are right that a tall, intelligent, confidant and fit woman is just what a guy would want (at least it is for me) there are always other factors. Maybe you made some bad selection choices to start with. Maybe you came off to them as a little overbearing and**** or maybe they just didn't want to have to "talk about your relationship" and what the plan was every 2nd day. This isn't meant to be a dis, I don't know you and don't mean to imply that you did any of these things. But it is important to remember that we (guys and girls) are all flawed in some way, and the only factor that is common in all of our failed relationships is our self. | |
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| What do men really want???
Posted: 1/23/2007 6:22:33 PM |
That's an easy question.
They want a gal who isn't too clingy. Someone who is sexy. Someone who isn't a prude in the bedroom. Someone who doesn't argue about every little thing. A gal who actually doesn't mind when you head out with your buddies. A woman with a good sense of humor. Someone to love you unconditionally. Why do you think we love our pets so damn much.lol
A woman who is kind and loving.
I suppose the same thing women look for. haha
And Oh Yeah NB****A woman who doesn't have a memory like an elephant and bring up all of your mistakes at that strategic moment.
Bull | |
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| What do men really want???
Posted: 1/24/2007 2:55:23 AM |
'What do men really want???'
A managomous sexual relationship with an attractive and fun woman.
Laffin...till they have it | |
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| What do men really want???
Posted: 1/24/2007 6:50:13 PM | I'm not in a relationship
We broke up 5 days ago
Not my choice
My profile doesnt say i am in a relationship
In fact it makes it clear i have a broken heart
Yes my status is: not single/not looking
That IMO is not single and/or not looking
not- not single and not looking | |
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J-nin
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Joined: 1/1/2007
Msg: 124 | |
| What do men really want???
Posted: 1/24/2007 11:41:27 PM | Stop raggin on men, women are just as bad thinking that everyone can read their minds or expect men to know what kind of tampons to buy for them.
Men are wonderful.
Men want love. | |
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| What do men really want???
Posted: 1/25/2007 3:21:58 AM | | Paige: Sorry to here that. I missed that part of your profile. I feel for you big time. As hard as it may seem at the moment try to stay hopeful. Not all of us run screaming from a good relationship. I'm usually the opposite and scare off women. lol. | |
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