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Posted: 6/16/2008 5:41:57 AM | You know what they say "I you love something let it go and of it comes back it was meant to be"
Sorry to hear. Keep a smile on that dial, even if inside you are hurting. | |
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Posted: 6/16/2008 6:07:47 AM | My mum met her husband when he was 25 and she was 37. They are still married. He is 51 and mum is 63. They even seem to like each other still.
Age means nothing. Kids or no kids. Deb my mum always told me to ask, the worse they can say is no. But if you don't ask you'll never know. | |
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Deb 64
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Joined: 2/3/2008
Msg: 128 | |
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Posted: 6/16/2008 5:55:31 PM | There is more to this story than u all know.....the timeing was just not right.....
Thanks guys....I will keep chin up and keep smileing | |
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Posted: 6/16/2008 10:26:24 PM | we are all there for you Deb64,
If it's meant to be, it will happen no matter what, so chin up and keep positive, I don't know about the moving on bit!! | |
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Posted: 6/18/2008 2:50:21 AM | Having just read all this I feel compelled to say , I love my partner for who she is and those of you who know us will know what I am refering to.
As for the matter of kids or no kids , I have to agree with Adrian , I am more for finding , building and maintaining a stable loving relationship rather than nesting for any chance of children. My case is a little different as I found out (during my first serious relationship at age 21) that I had very little chance of having my own child. Not impossible , just harder than most. I have talked this thru with all of my serious partners and come to the same conclusion. If it happens then it will be. The love for my partner will always be stronger than my desire to have kids. Then if all goes so well and the desire is there on both parties , their is always adoption. Giving a needy child the love support , education and comfort is , to me , of far more value than the selfishness of bringing a child into this world for the sake of having said , yes , I have kids. Dont get me wrong , I would cherish a child of my own genes , but the way the world is ATM , I would rather help a needy child than have one of my own.
I digress..............
My point is this , I agree with what was said above "If you love someone , let them go. If they come back to you then they are yours , If not , then they never were."
Deb , I know a little from both sides , true if the timing is wrong then there is nothing you can do to force the issue , but there is no reason to deny any chance of it happening in the future. If there is one thing I have learnt , is that so long as you communicate and have a good understanding of the circumstances and how you feel , dont hide anything , then the future is very rich indeed. Remember , the basis of a good sound relationship is a wonderful FRIENDSHIP.
Start there , there is no harm in that. Dont deny yourself or him any chance.
My sincere thoughts
Cheers
Pete | |
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Posted: 6/18/2008 5:05:36 AM | Thats a bit d and m from you pete ...... or is someone using your account again.
Just kidding, i think you summed it up very well. Here, Here............ | |
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Deb 64
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Joined: 2/3/2008
Msg: 132 | |
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Posted: 6/18/2008 1:51:37 PM | Well peoples it's comfirmed.....it's a no go.....moving on and so is he.
I should have seen what was in front of me but I didn't and things happen for a reason, so be it.
Need time out to get passes this so see you all when I see you...will be keeping quite for a little while..
Thanks for the advise but I have set him free.....not that I had him in the first place.
See ya all | |
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