| Honesty between couples
Posted: 5/10/2009 12:34:09 AM |
a_chris79 ;Because they're women. Duh!
And some men dont lie?
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| Honesty between couples
Posted: 5/10/2009 12:35:43 AM | Hehehe, Hi Beth.
Men are stupid at lying...women are sneaky.
At the risk of speaking bad about my sex, women are "smarter" when lying. | |
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| Re: Honesty between couples
Posted: 5/10/2009 1:10:43 AM | Aquamom:
Maybe we lie to placate men... sometimes men force us to choose between a little white lie and a mans negative reaction to the truth. Not saying it's right, but just trying to shed a little light...
No forces anyone to lie. It is choice that well all make independantly and on our own. You cant blame somone else for "making you lie". A truely rediculous notion.
To the OP:
Sounds like you should try to figure out what "type" of woman you are dating and change make/models so to speak. You have recognized a self destructing tren in your choice of woman. Find out what that is and change it, only you know what you are doing wrong. | |
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| Honesty between couples
Posted: 5/10/2009 1:39:06 AM | [ Because they're women ,Duh! ]
If a man will say that 90 % rate of women that he has relationship lied to him, that is questionable , on what ground are they lying ? I am not buying this at all.........
If you are a person who wants an honest deal, and that is what you get.. | |
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| Honesty between couples
Posted: 5/10/2009 4:37:30 AM | | maybe the real question is: why is that 90% of the time you are attracted to people with zero integrity? when you are honest enough with yourself to find the answer to that question, you'll be able to have a relationship with somebody who has all the qualities of a politician. | |
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| Re: Honesty between couples
Posted: 5/13/2009 7:20:00 AM |
Maybe we lie to placate men
Of course it is never the female's fault when she is a lying %R(&*$#. It is always the man's fault. Typical female.
Female's lie because they are too big of cowards to tell the truth or because they are so self centered that they believe they should always get what they want. | |
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| Re: Honesty between couples
Posted: 5/13/2009 7:32:23 AM | WHY in the name of all things green and edible..........did a post from 2004 come back to life? This BUGS me!!
Lying is not a gender thing..........if you're afraid of who you are? You lie! Pretty darn simple. | |
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| Honesty between couples
Posted: 5/13/2009 8:05:09 AM | Hmmm... Obviously you never met my ex. That man could look you straight in the eye and lie like a dog. I, OTOH, have only lied to a man about lil' stuff... like his package.   | |
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| Honesty between couples
Posted: 5/25/2009 6:18:34 AM | | lying is not a gender thing, but once it occurs in a relationship, it's awfully tough for the relationship to recover from. this is possibly one of the most important topics of POF | |
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| Honesty between couples
Posted: 5/25/2009 8:08:32 AM | | interesting, i've never really gotten a good answer about the why. seems they also have trouble with being honest with themselves | |
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| Honesty between couples
Posted: 5/25/2009 8:30:06 AM | Only the most courageous live their lives by the truth. I am not petty enough or mediocre enough to lie to someone I love.
Hell, I won't even lie to my own kids about Santa Claus not existing because I worship the truth like it's the last breath.
I see no point in lying to anyone unless it's to save a life. As far as saving face, I don't care about my pride. I'll willingly look like an idiot if that's what it takes.
I have been in three substantial relationships and each time they have lied to me repeatedly and wonder of wonders, they are NOT women...they were men.
So stop making this a gender issue. It's a people issue. I've caught a few men in lies. It doesn't take an idiot to figure out when someone is pulling it over on ya, or at least trying rather pathetically.
Lying is for cowards. I won't say I've never lied because that would be a lie. But I do my utmost to practice rigorous honesty at every chance I get. And trust me, telling the truth does NOT make you popular in this stupid society. | |
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| Honesty between couples
Posted: 5/25/2009 8:40:10 AM | | fortunately, one of the wonderful things about getting older. is that you learn to trust your gut instead of your ears, and you usually spot the lies fairly quickly. I always end the relationship once somebody has lied, and for some strange reason, the liar tries to tell more lies to save it | |
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| Re: Honesty between couples
Posted: 5/25/2009 10:37:46 AM | I agree, start off a friendship with HONESTY! If a guy can't handle HONESTY then he's not ready for a relationship, much less a friendship | |
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