| Cheating and Private Investigators Posted: 10/11/2006 4:06:45 PM | Well I can tell any one that if your someone who never goes any where with out your cell phone then something is up . And I mean if they can't go any where including in the house with out taking the cell phone with them then yeah time to move on and don't worry to look back. Cause if you must have the cell with you 24/7 even if your in the house then your not honest enough to warrant being in my love live period!! So if their cell phone is always on and they never turn it off then yeah do not take this person who says they love you to be speaking the truth.And if every time it rings they leave the room to answer it then don't be stupid just get up and head out the door . And if I suspected I was being cheated on I would confront her asap and not bother hiring an investigator !! Its easy to spot someone is cheating on you as they will have their cell phone always inches away from them and will never let anyone else use it or answer it. And most cheaters will give them selves away sooner or later if you are smart enough to watch for the signs .
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| Cheating and Private Investigators Posted: 10/11/2006 4:33:47 PM | I would never have any reason to get a PI. I know truly with all my hear that my husband wont cheat on me. He's been with a total b**** who cheated on him and just screwed him around with mind games but still he stayed faithful. I feel sorry for the woman who find out that they have been cheated on. But whatever happens I want the people who have been cheated on (men or woman) it's not your fault. If you partner can't stay faithful they are the ones with issues.
Men and woman who cheat are just trying to make up for their own insecurities but anyone who cheats is never worth the second chance in my eyes!!
There are many other 'fish in the sea' haaaaaa
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| Cheating and Private Investigators Posted: 10/11/2006 4:35:42 PM | If your gut tells you that you need to hire an investigator,call it off. You'll never stop looking for evidence until you find some. It therefore becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy. I feel that I don't want to make it work, I want to make it Great! And If I have suspicions, It ain't workin at all! | |
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| Cheating and Private Investigators Posted: 10/17/2006 7:09:29 AM | | I was a P.I. for awhile and it was interesting to say the least but if your in a realationship where you think you need to get a P.I. then its time to end that realationship and move onto a person you can trust or take a break from being with anyone at all. | |
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| Cheating and Private Investigators Posted: 10/17/2006 7:31:01 AM | | exactly, go with your gut.................if ya think it's happening...it probably is, anthow, who would want to live with doubt. | |
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| Cheating and Private Investigators Posted: 10/17/2006 7:38:44 AM | I wouldn't hire a P.I. to verify what I already had thoughts about..... just having the doubts would be enough to spoil anything good anyway.
However, I DO need a P.I. to find an ex that refuses to give me details about where he lives or what he does...... anyone of you guys interested??????? (Mail me) | |
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| Cheating and Private Investigators Posted: 10/17/2006 11:10:45 AM | I agree with scotishthistle1967! I do love that show though, cheaters right? Man, I hate cheaters! Why be with someone, if you don't really care for them. It wastes both parties time! And usually breaks someones heart. | |
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| Cheating and Private Investigators Posted: 10/17/2006 11:50:31 AM | | Sometimes when I was a P.I. the person who was suspicious of the cheating was cheating as well which would make hiring us useless but it was done anyways. | |
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| Cheating and Private Investigators Posted: 10/17/2006 3:21:04 PM | I agree with scotishthistle1967! I do love that show though, cheaters right? Man, I hate cheaters! Why be with someone, if you don't really care for them. It wastes both parties time! And usually breaks someones heart. Well this post I find very interesting!!! for someone that stated the above comment weren't you the same girl that posted in another thread about having "Dirty thoughts about an already taken man?" isn't this the same girl... that states in her profile that she likes to hit on other peoples men? ... hmmm trying to get in between people's relationships for whatever your motives are... girly you barked up the wrong tree....  | |
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| Cheating and Private Investigators Posted: 10/17/2006 4:10:09 PM | Well this post I find very interesting!!! for someone that stated the above comment weren't you the same girl that posted in another thread about having "Dirty thoughts about an already taken man?" isn't this the same girl... that states in her profile that she likes to hit on other peoples men? ... hmmm trying to get in between people's relationships for whatever your motives are... girly you barked up the wrong tree....
Whats your problem? In the thread that you mentioned I was talking about my brother inlaw! And my profile comment is a joke! Yes I was talkin to your man, but that was before I knew you were serious! You obviously have some insecurities! Go B itch to someone else! | |
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| Cheating and Private Investigators Posted: 10/17/2006 4:42:12 PM |
Well this post I find very interesting!!! for someone that stated the above comment weren't you the same girl that posted in another thread about having "Dirty thoughts about an already taken man?" isn't this the same girl... that states in her profile that she likes to hit on other peoples men? ... hmmm trying to get in between people's relationships for whatever your motives are... girly you barked up the wrong tree....
Whats your problem? In the thread that you mentioned I was talking about my brother inlaw! And my profile comment is a joke! Yes I was talkin to your man, but that was before I knew you were serious! You obviously have some insecurities! Go B itch to someone else! Nothing like keeping it in the FAMILY! ... I don't have insecurities sweetheart...my man talks to alot of women... I know what I got and what I can trust... how you had and I point out "HAD" in your profile "if you are in a relationship, I am not interested" but that disappeared as soon as you left him that comment on his msn space right above my comment that was posted... hmmm mins before.. I am not one to take personal shit to the fourms but I figured it was time I called you out on your bullshit... funny how ya added our couples profile to your favorites... and I deleted your ass. | |
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| Cheating and Private Investigators Posted: 10/17/2006 4:46:31 PM | Just chat with me and everything will be fine! I am single!!
Mind you I did hire a PI to follow me around.....had to see if I could ditch him!!  | |
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| Cheating and Private Investigators Posted: 10/17/2006 5:51:16 PM | lmao@BannedLovers You added me to your favorites first you freak! here are my messages from your man!
I wrote,,,,,,so whats up sexy? are you back with that same girl? why?
He wrote,,,,,,,,,ya... so again its not something written in stone...when are you coming down this way...maybe we can get a timmies =]
ya the my space comment caused a bit of a stir , i have np meeting anyone as friends tho i guess the logical thinking no adays is if a women meets a man they slept together or some sh*tlike that... I have many female friends that I havent slept with and to me its no big deal...alot of guys dont like me cause I crash there big stories with simple questions =] anyways talk to ya later...and why are you coming down this way... seems odd that your be in whitby when ya live so far away
so who should you be freakin at! I don't want yours or any other Ladies Men! I like to joke, so do most people. RELAX! I feel sorry that you are this worked up over me! Go b itch to someone who deserves it! I DON"T want your man! | |
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| Cheating and Private Investigators Posted: 10/17/2006 6:02:48 PM | | HAHA! what you think I don't know about the message's? first off that message was sent to you because of what you had posted on his msn space and the fact that you could clearly see that we were together... trying to see what shit you were up too... | |
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| Cheating and Private Investigators Posted: 10/17/2006 6:24:14 PM | CAN YOU HEAR ME I DO NOT WANT RON! AS SOON AS I SAW THE TWO OF YOU HAD YOUR PROFILE I NEVER MESSAGED HIM AGAIN! Stop trying to make me out to look bad! Relax and enjoy your Man. I already have someone I am talkin to from here. And the DIRTY thoughts were about my Brother inlaw because he had just started that day working as a garbage man! If your gonna post shit get the FACTS! I have never been a cheater, actually I should have to defend myself to you just because you are inscure. And may I repeat, I DON"T WANT POOR RON! lmao! | |
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| Cheating and Private Investigators Posted: 10/17/2006 6:44:26 PM | Don't you two think you could find a better place to crap all over each other??????
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| Cheating and Private Investigators Posted: 10/17/2006 7:00:39 PM | Tabs darlin? This was my post originally hunny! And I wanna know?? Dammit girl? You bin cheating on me?? cuz ya just know big Momma don't like that! And wtf? If I ain't the one arguing, it has to be in one o my threads???? | |
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| Cheating and Private Investigators Posted: 10/17/2006 7:01:58 PM | Cheating and private investigators.
Bannedlovers we love you guys. You both have been our friends for awhile now. I hope you guys can discuss this and get to the bottom of things for the both of your sake , but i think you shouldn't be doing this online for everyone to see. It's obviously been bothering you and I just hope you guys can discuss this in a mature manner. If you need to talk we'll be here for the both of you.  | |
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| Cheating and Private Investigators Posted: 10/17/2006 7:04:46 PM | | Sorry to butt in but Mrs BannedLovers has been a good friend of mine for a long time and I know Mr Banned as well and maybe Yknowyouneedme you should just step back take a deep breath and move on,Leave these two alone, I as well have put up with people trying to cause crap to me when I have been with my partners, People need to concentrate on single people not stir up crap with couples!! | |
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| Cheating and Private Investigators Posted: 10/17/2006 7:04:59 PM | I've done my own investigating before but that wasn't for a man.. I actually found my ex's birth family.
It was hard work but very rewarding. | |
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