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| California women: fact or myth?
Posted: 10/29/2006 2:17:14 PM | Well Greggie could be right, I Vote that all the real men like Greggie just vacate California and go back to the Coke Nose Women of Colorado, as we all know California is going to sink into The Brown Pacific, So what ever California Women are,THEY BEST INVEST IN WATER WING's...  | |
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| California women: fact or myth?
Posted: 10/29/2006 5:06:06 PM | While Iam on a soap box here with this subject,,All the men on this site are in 4 no fun, no dating on here,,,,reason why,,,,all the match.com an yahoo prudes are showing up here on this site,,,to take advantage of the freebies here. Ucan tell the ones with glamour shots an model agency pics,,,an where they say they live,an there mouthy attitude,,u must jump thru hoops to date me,,,looks like the party is over here . These type of babes,have absolutely no intention of dating NOONE on this site,,,I would NEVER consider mailing these bikini air heads,,Whom are NOT for real,,,,and believe me ,,theyARE hooked up already,,This still stands as the best dating site on the web though,,to bad we cant throw away,,BADFISH,,real men need real women,,,not phoney prudes,,,,an I would love to see big fish,put in live chat rooms for the members,,even if he has to charge a fee for chat rooms,,,make it optional here,this would be a big helpful step in bringing fish together,,dont u agree??? thanks greg  | |
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| California women: fact or myth?
Posted: 10/29/2006 6:15:24 PM | | Hey all the real babes in so cal step forward please,,an push the fake ones out of the room. I know there is some fantastic women out here,,but where are u hiding? | |
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| California women: fact or myth?
Posted: 10/29/2006 7:02:54 PM | | I'd have to say both.....I am by far the *gold digger* ....I don't really have a *TYPE* of man I date but I do want a man to show respect,loyalty,compassion,and understanding....If that is me being a *gold digger* then so be it...I'm not looking into a man's wallet or bank account for relations...I've grown up in San Diego most of my life and I know what it's like to go from Mommy and Daddy's house to being a single Mother on my own with very little and have guys want to *take care of me*....Well I am not looking to be bought cuz I am not for sale....There are however A LOT of women who's mission in life is to find a *sucker* to take them in and get them lavish gifts and take them to exotic places and such...Well when you come from where I do and you have family values intilled in you then you have your own confidence to take care of yourself.....See I currently live in Poway a *YUPPY* part of San Diego (due to my job) and my 15 year old son hates it!!! Yes there are a lot of *hot chics* up here but he thinks their attitude makes them ugly cuz they are only interested in a man's wallet...I think it's a great thing that my son can see right thru a chic that sees thru the dollar signs she has for eyes...... | |
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| California women: fact or myth?
Posted: 10/29/2006 8:01:51 PM | | I am from a very wealthy area in the NEast and this is definately/unfortunately true. I have lived in Pa,Va,Tn,Co,NY,NJ,Ca and traveled extensively through the US and Mexico. I have seen everything to the poorest of the poor all the way up to having a neighbor run for President(yes of the US). I am well educated and was raised with strong values, good character,and a broad perspective. I refuse to give up, but in general, the women in SoCal are horrible human beings. To me in spite of being a Personal Trainer, looks no longer matter. I am looking for character. If there are any, and I believe there are, no offense to the exceptions. | |
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| California women: fact or myth?
Posted: 10/29/2006 10:39:54 PM | In this thread I have read about how S. California women are not gold diggers. If they are not, then why do I hear the term J.A.P. so much in my daily travels throughout S. California?
Think about it.
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| California women: fact or myth?
Posted: 10/30/2006 1:23:16 AM | I LOVE TOFU..(But, that's only because I'm Asian "yeah another stereotype")
Ever been to NY or Miami? It's worse. LA is not bad at all, I've meet and encounter many friendly, outgoing, nice girls here in LA then I did when I visited NY. Miami, friendly wise is great, but they're far more body conscious and superficial then we are.
So, to answer you topic question, my answer would have to be.....MYTH
I believe things are how we set, or meet them to be. We surround our self by the type of people we want to, and when we encounter those a little different we seek out a flaw in them before giving them a chance to prove other wise, thus is how you and others came to conclude it as "facts". Unfriendly, rude, obnoxious, money hungry people are every where. Not just in California. We do not have more in percentage then any other State. For those we think so, look at it logically. California is a much bigger state with its population doublings even tripling other States. So if we break it down by percentage, we are all equally populated by snobs, superficial, and jerks as any one else. | |
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| California women: fact or myth?
Posted: 10/30/2006 9:22:58 AM |
California women are regarded as being gold-digging, tofu eating, self centered, and shallow than other women in the country
This is a ridiculous statement! I don't eat tofu, I am vegetarian though, I'm not self centered, I'm not shallow and I'm certainly not gold digging. The men in this great state, (I can't say anything about the men in other states because I've lived here my entire life) want a trophy wife (girlfriend). The bigger her boobs, blonder her hair and smaller her waist the better. They are typically looking for women that are 10-15 years younger than themselves. Because they are still cute and perky. What do you expect from 20 somethings. They haven't lived and struggled through life. They can't support themselves so they need someone else to (thus the gold digging). If men that were in their 30's and 40's were actually looking for someone in that age range they might be surprised what they find.
Most of my friends that are single in that age range aren't looking for someone with tons of money, they are looking for someone they don't have to support. They are looking for someone to spend time with that will love them for who they are not for how young they are or how perky their boobs are. I don't care how much money you make. Are you paying your child support on time and spending time with kids on a regular basis? Are you willing to hold the door open for me when we go in a door? Are you NOT getting whiplast looking at the woman in the car next to us?
Our culture has brain-washed men and women into thinking the better looking and thinner you are the better person you are. If all you are finding are women who are gold-digging, shallow and self centered then you are looking in the wrong place. There are lots of us out there who aren't those things. | |
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| California women: fact or myth?
Posted: 10/30/2006 12:40:16 PM | Well I kind of agree with you yet disagree on one general point, yes, there are decent women like you out there, but unfortunately you are a part of a very small minority in society today that has values left in them, most women want that "security coverage" and unfortunately that is all about money.
Yes, you are right too, most men today are attracted to women who are "sexually wild" and don't pay attention to the real values in a woman....so goes society down the drain. | |
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Joined: 9/27/2006
Msg: 88 | |
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| California women: fact or myth?
Posted: 10/30/2006 4:28:45 PM | | California men expect California women to look and act a certain way and it takes money and credit cards to get that California look. So if you men want that California look you shouldn't complain if you have to spend some money to get what you want. So if you don't want to spend the money expect the t-shirt and jeans and the sweat suits from K-Mart. It's your decision to spend or not to spend. | |
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| California women: fact or myth?
Posted: 10/30/2006 5:12:16 PM | | Hell ,I would absolutely love to find a babe in tee shirts an jeans,,whom goes to kmart for everything. Where is she at,,,can i do anthing to he lp find one ,,what a breath of freshair that would be.God this so cal is a horror show,, 4 trying to find a real girlfrnd,, What makes these women think they deserve a bigger pot to piss in,,,than women from other parts of the countryWhat a bunch of pathetic sorry snobs here,,,,looks like tom likkus was right. | |
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| California women: fact or myth?
Posted: 10/30/2006 10:31:31 PM | Okay no no no no! Trust me you can find those girls anywhere. If you keep running into these types of girls then you need to ask yourself why and are you just scratching the surface of these girls and then labeling them unfairly. I can be shy around a large group of people I dont know and people use to tell me they thought I was a snob until I opened up and started talking. How much of a chance have you been giveing these girls? People have more than a few layers you have to get past before they let you underneath.
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| California women: fact or myth?
Posted: 10/31/2006 7:30:30 PM |
Okay no no no no! Trust me you can find those girls anywhere. If you keep running into these types of girls then you need to ask yourself why and are you just scratching the surface of these girls and then labeling them unfairly.
If something happens to you once, it may be a fluke. If it happens twice, sure it could be coincidence, but it's getting less likely... Three times, honey, it's YOU. Something is drastically wrong with YOUR choosing and screening mechanism. | |
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| California women: fact or myth?
Posted: 10/31/2006 7:36:41 PM | | Well speaking from my own experiance California women are some of the best women i have ever been around. They are fun to be around and love to do almost anything so to all the California women out there thanks for showing me a great time! | |
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| California women: fact or myth?
Posted: 10/31/2006 8:20:01 PM | There are horrible, undatable, unapproachable women in every state and every country. There's probably a few more here in LA for the same reason touring musicians will tell you it's such a hard town to play- everyone thinks they are or will be a star and doesn't want to "lower themselves" to the level of "fan," or in the case of women (and men), be "attainable."
These people end up making themselves lonely and if you concentrate on them (and how they make you feel), you'll make yourself lonely as well. Meeting cool, down to earth, "real" girls is not impossible here, it's just harder.
Like the saying goes, "Be the change you want to see in the world." Walk around with a smile, say hi, be open, hang up your cell phone, take your iPod earphones out for a few minutes (the one I'm most guilty of) and you might be surprised at who you can meet. | |
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| California women: fact or myth?
Posted: 11/2/2006 12:25:08 PM | | I go to k-mart and Wal-Mart, Target. I don't have no one taking care of me and mine and even if I did I'm to much of a penny pincher to throw my money away on stupid stuff. | |
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| California women: fact or myth?
Posted: 11/3/2006 1:13:43 PM | | yeah, what ever. I've wanted to do that. seriously. "nice women" like you end up picking crappy guys. why else are you here? if you were ugly then you could advise me on the lower expectations that they are willing to take. you have a choice where other women dont. enjoy it. beauty doesnt last forever. | |
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| California women: fact or myth?
Posted: 11/3/2006 3:52:09 PM | | Women that smoke are a lot like guys and are disgusting. Why would someone want to date a woman that smokes> It's like dating an ashtray., | |
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| California women: fact or myth?
Posted: 11/3/2006 4:35:23 PM | I totally agree with you. I am a middle class women that has had an oppertunity to be with several wealthy men in the past. Once when I was struggling. My parents were upset with me for not staying with them. They treated me with great respect but the chemistry for me was not there and I could never take advantage of a man for his money...... and could never break their heart Intentionally. I believe money does make a difference in life but for the long haul it's true love that is the glue.
Cheryl | |
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| California women: fact or myth?
Posted: 11/3/2006 7:10:49 PM | | Why do people put down women who know what they want? They are simply seeking what they want in their life. What's so wrong about that? These women are obviously snobby because of the constant attention, whether deserving or not, men give them. You train these women to be what they are- snobby! A penis can't see a skinny woman walk by because she's automatically treated like she's a goddess. Then ya'll wonder "why" these women are gold diggers who have no consideration for anyone but themselves. These women have grown accustomed to getting what they want because MEN give it to them. I can see why they think they can marry a Trump and live richly ever after:) Everyone should be kept off of cloud nine and down on a more realistic platform. Peope would be attracted to one another for the right reasons. Hollywood whips the actress and model wanna be's in the wrong way. They have to adopt a mentality that seems as if though no one can compete with them because that is when others would know they didn't have the upper hand they seem to portray themselves as having. Even in Hollyweird there is ALWAYS going to be someone more beautiful, hotter, and skinnier than the next one so why get so caught up in what one looks like. I know they are trying to make it in the biz but seriously...it's usually at their own expense. They have to convince others that they are the shit because in reality they don't truly believe it themselves. A woman can rightfully acknowledge she is easy on the eyes but the secret is to truly believe it and keep it to yourself. It's the manner in which those women relate to and treat others they don't consider to be up to their standard as beautiuful as what sets them apart as JUST being nice to look at and being beautiful both on the inside as much as the outside. Either way, I say let these women continue in their modern day California Gold Rush because they have nothing to lose and everything to gain. Whether they find it much less keep it is in their own hands. If anything, men should think twice about those cat calls they MUST holler out to women...not realizing the monster they are actually creating. We all have our own strengths and weaknesses. Men tend to feed the wrong compliments to the weaker personalites that think what they look like is all that matters. This notion once again comes from men. Appreciate a woman for who she is and what she is to others and maybe these snobby women wouldn't walk the earth thinking that the world owe's them something:) | |
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| California women: fact or myth?
Posted: 11/3/2006 8:52:43 PM | I'm none of the above....I prefer silver to gold, and I buy my own.....I hate tofu or anything similiar.....I care about others....and no one would dare call me 'shallow'..but then, my roots are in Ohio. I've lived in the San Diego area since 1974, but it has changed a lot and is nothing like it used to be....so sad.
~DC~ | |
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