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Posted: 5/28/2007 8:17:22 PM | I just got an email where the guy called me a con artist because I said he was attractive, funny, and smart, but lived too far away for us to date. Like my profile says, I'm not looking to meet anyone right now, plus he DID live too dar away, and the fact that I chose to say something nice about him at the same time as I was saying I wasn't interested, at least in the way I was raised, is called "being kind".
But suddenly I'm a con artist. Must be because I'm a California girl, right?
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| California women: fact or myth?
Posted: 5/28/2007 8:21:37 PM | 1. No good deed goes unpunished.
2. Yes, you are a definite con artist Cooky. Didn't you get the memo about Cal gals?
3. How far is too far away??? (I mean, I'm in San Diego after all...) | |
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Posted: 5/28/2007 8:23:19 PM | Maybe it's because HE is a con artist and just thinks everyone else operates like he does...
Don't stop being nice, Cooky. You've got all of the Calif. guys here on POF in love with you. (And I like you, too, but not in the same way they do) | |
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Posted: 5/28/2007 8:25:21 PM | 1. San Diego is 2 hours from you.
2. You didn't get that other memo either did you....you're a native SoCal...and that means, "No, you CAN"T win!". | |
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| California women: fact or myth?
Posted: 5/28/2007 8:49:22 PM | | Of course he thought you were a con artist because as the most genuine, honest, humorous, compassionate, giving loving and beautiful fish in the pond you must be a con. You gave me the same," you are are a nice guy but live too far" smack down and you saw how I thought you were a con biotch! NOT! To the dork that called Cooky a con, e-mail me anytime any where I'll meet you and defend her honor to death. So would most of the men in the pond. Mess with Cooky and you are messing with thousands! | |
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Posted: 5/28/2007 9:01:43 PM | I'm too old to fight, but I'll blow the whistle if they start hitting below the belt.
I'll hold cooksters hand, while she watches you blokes defend her honor ! | |
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| California women: fact or myth?
Posted: 5/28/2007 9:19:48 PM | | I TOLD you, Cooky! All of the guys are in love with you. I don't know what you've got, but I want some! | |
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| California women: fact or myth?
Posted: 5/28/2007 10:07:48 PM |
Ventura. Probably about an hour without traffic.
Hmmm....Isn't that where Bill moved to?
I TOLD you, Cooky! All of the guys are in love with you.
Hey! I don't know her well enough to be in love yet. (Though her new picture isn't too bad!)
I don't know what you've got, but I want some!
Maybe it's cookies! | |
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Posted: 5/29/2007 11:31:35 PM | Are we talking about the Beach Boys version or real life.  
Well east coast girls are hip
I really dig those styles they wear
And the southern girls with the way they talk
They knock me out when i'm down there
The mid-west farmer's daughters really make you feel alright
And the northern girls with the way they kiss
They keep their boyfriends warm at night
I wish they all could be california
I wish they all could be california
I wish they all could be california girls
The west coast has the sunshine
And the girls all get so tanned
I dig a french bikini on hawaii island
Dolls by a palm tree in the sand
I been all around this great big world
And i seen all kinds of girls
Yeah, but i couldn't wait to get back in the states
Back to the cutest girls in the world
I wish they all could be california
I wish they all could be california
I wish they all could be california girls
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Posted: 5/30/2007 12:24:09 AM | God blessed me the day he sent me an angel fish/friend like you Cookstar. Your words in the forums and in e-mail have given me food for thought as well as hope. I don't think there is a fish in the pond,(or sea) guy or gal, (except the one jerk) who does not think of you as a genuine California babe! Rock on my sister from another mister!
Ha ha ha ha Hap! Let's get ready to rumble! | |
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Posted: 5/30/2007 12:29:41 AM | God bless muktar, my secret crush.
and God bless the Mike Love and Brian Wilson, my secret crushes...
Ok, I've lost count. How many secret crushes do you have now? One has to wonder if crush means what I think it means or are you making wine. 
It's ALL Cooky's fault.....
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Posted: 5/30/2007 12:53:35 AM |
"I do not think it means what you think it means."
Inconceivable!
You only think I guessed wrong! That's what's so funny! I switched glasses when your back was turned! Ha ha! You fool! You fell victim to one of the classic blunders! The most famous is never get involved in a land war in Asia, but only slightly less well-known is this: never go in against a Sicilian when death is on the line! Ha ha ha ha ha ha ha! Ha ha ha ha ha ha ha! Ha ha ha...
(stops suddenly, and falls dead to the right) | |
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Posted: 5/30/2007 1:33:00 AM |
Ha ha ha ha Hap! Let's get ready to rumble!
I got my whistle Cap, where's your buddies Pete and Out4A ? Don't tell me you are ready to face this danger alone ! ~  | |
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Posted: 6/1/2007 10:02:33 AM | How cynical. How sad. No wonder I find California dating to be difficult. The men out there think I am a gold-digger (a pity) and I think they are unromantic and judge people as a whole rather than one at a time. I might have to move..but seeing as how my family lives near me and I like them and I like my job, I may be single forever...or as long as it takes to meet someone who doesn't judge others, communicates has same values and if he is sexy too. He is mine.
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Posted: 6/1/2007 4:31:55 PM | Yes it is true. I was born and raised in Southern Cali and it is all true, this place is crawling with shallow, gold digging women, but here is the catcher. There is still hope for sincere Men looking for sincere women here in Southern Cali. The Gold digging type of women are very easy to spot. They stick out like a sore thumb. Here are the tell tale signs to watch for so that you know how to stay clear of the Gold Digging Southern Cali girls.
Here are the signs...
1. Bleached Blonde Hair or Bleach Blonde Highlights (almost never a true natural blonde)
2. Name brand purse and sunglasses ie. Fendi, Prada, Louis Vatton, Gucci etc..
3. After giving her a gift she immediately asks you "How much was it?"
4. She never buys you a nice gift.
5. She constantly talks about the car that she wants and that car is almost always a Porsche, Ferrari, Mercedes, or Bentley, but never a Honda, Nissan, Toyota, Chevy, Ford, or truck.
6. She doesnt want to go with you to visit your Mom and family on Mother's day.
7. She refuses to hop on the back of your motorcycle cuz she says it will mess up her hair and makeup.
8. Ask her to go on a camping trip or fishing trip with you and if she would rather have her hand put in a meatgrinder then go with you then you know that she is a bonafied Gold Digger.
9. She has more then 30 ex boyfriends (and to add to this Gold diggers always have someone else on the side for sex while they are gold digging cuz the cant get sexually satisfied with someone that she is with only for their money, so look for cheating signs in addition to Gold Digging signs cuz the 2 come together as a package deal).
10 And lastly (hopefully you already figured out that she is a gold digger before you get to this point) if the relationship doesnt work out after you have already bought her a 3 Karrot Diamond engagement ring, and you ask her for the ring back and she doesnt want to give it back to you then you know without a shadow of a doubt that she is a Southern California Gold Digger.
I hope this info helps out my fellow SC dating brothers. | |
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| California women: fact or myth?
Posted: 6/2/2007 12:53:55 PM | I think this is a generalization. It may be true of some geographic areas. At least it appears that way. California is a large state. Sacramento has as much in common with Los Angeles as Miami does with Philadelphia. The same applies to people.
However, there are things I have run across that make me wonder. I have never received a reply from a woman in San Francisco. Maybe I'm too far away. Maybe they have the wrong impression of Sacramento. I have received numerous replies from women in locations farther away, however. I have noticed several profiles stating "do not message me if you earn less than $100,000." On another dating site I'm on you have the option of placing your income bracket in your profile. I received a reply back from one in which my income was her reason for rejecting me. I don't earn anywhere near $100,000 a year, but I'm certainly not doing bad considering anyone earning $43,000 a year is in the upper 40% of income earners in this country. No big deal really. Someone that concerned with money is going to be a PITA as far as a relationship goes.
I think part of the problem in California is keeping up with living expenses. I look for women that appear to have their act together. I think looking for a mate that has got their act together increases the odds of a succesfull long-term relationship. This doesn't mean someone has to earn huge sums of money. It means you can support yourself, play a part in supporting the relationship, not overspend on things you don't need, and generally being responsible.
As for the women locally in Sacramento, I couldn't tell you. I haven't had any luck locally, but I've met a few out of town. (Where the hell are all the single 30-something women in Sacramento?) | |
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