| Why can't ment show respect for a women
Posted: 11/4/2006 9:12:49 AM | | My appoligizes for the jerk men you've met but trust me darling, rudeness isn't restricted to just one gender!!!! On your side, way too many ladies have told me similar stories and about men that have cheated, beat them, physical abuse you name it I've heard it. But women can do the same and often worse. Not so much the physical abuse, that seems to be a man thing sadly. But just this last weekend, I spent 2 days cleaning my house up, my yard up. Making sure everything was just right for our first meeting. Did she show up, did she call, have I heard from her, No. After calling and leaving messages for 5 hours, when I called and said I hadn't eaten all day, in less than a minute she calls and says she can't talk but she's not coming. Not a word since. So Hon, sadly it goes both ways and I guess as long as we are in this dating world, we just need to expect it. But then for us good ones, we pay the price. | |
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| Why can't ment show respect for a women
Posted: 11/19/2006 4:58:37 AM | OP.....
That's an easy one ......it's because "ment" or more commonly men are all bad and women(t) are all good ........ period...ok next man bad thread please.... | |
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| Why can't ment show respect for a women
Posted: 11/21/2006 11:44:54 AM | | Some men cannot respect a woman because they either have no respect for themselves or they think they have insecurities not all men i said some | |
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| Why can't ment show respect for a women
Posted: 12/1/2006 1:02:42 PM | How to treat him when you’ve got him, ive in.
Take a minite to really think about the preconceived attitudes about relationships. Preconceived attitudes that will destroy everyone’s chances of getting even the most casual of relationships started.
And the preconceptions involved in how to treat men is one of the best demonstrations of the many, many, blind spots so common to relationships.
All right! Despite the men dying off earlier. Despite your losing weight round the bust line and putting it on round the thighs. Despite the male loss of interest in sex after age fifty. (By the way none of these preconceptions are actually true.)
Despite all of this you’ve managed to get a man into some sort of committed relationship.
Well! How do you actually treat your man within that relationship?
TV hostess Catronia Rowntree , was asked this question on the program Sex Life a few years ago by a viewer, who had written in with that question. Good question!
The answer was
“Treat your man like you treat your dog”.
That answer, the reason for it, and the reaction to it, summed up all of the major reasons that modern women are having so much trouble with relationships.
The fact is, that the answer seems quite reasonable, to quite a few people, at first, until you step back and take a really good hard look at it. Very few people did step back and really look which is why she got away with it. So right now, try saying out loud.
“Treat ni66ers like you treat dogs.”
Then try saying both, “treat men like you treat dogs” and “treat ni66ers like you treat dogs, as part of normal conversation with a few friends sometime. See how they react.
Treating men like dogs sounds so reasonable, and treating blacks badly sounds so unreasonable that most women, and a surprising number of men, think that the two comments are somehow different. In fact they are so identical that it seems incredible that anybody even made that comment on national T.V. let alone got away with it. This too requires serious consideration.
The first thing to consider is why she gave such advice in the first place. A solitary, individual man hating **** perhaps? Not so!
I’ve confronted many women about that answer and they have tried to brush the whole thing off as a joke and growled at me for “being petty”. The fact is that Rowntree was not joking. Although she made the comment with not a hint of spite or malice in her voice she was nonetheless dead serious. To the extent of jabbering on for a good ten minites about, how the modern woman should actually go about treating her man like dirt.
She said what she said, because she genuinely believed it was a perfectly normal thing to say. That it was completely normal to treat your partner in this abusive manner, while expecting total love, commitment, and respect from him.
If she were just some solitary stupid, man hating bimbo then, of course, her answer could merely be dismissed as such. But the trouble is she wasn’t. She said what she said because she is one more victim and perpetrator of a poisoned environment which, worldwide, has destroyed hundreds of millions of relationships which should have succeeded.
The reaction to her comments demonstrates this poisoned environment even more glaringly than the comment itself. The reaction was a deafening silence. No complaints from anyone. The poisoned environment runs so deeply that the comment was considered completely socially acceptable by the studio, by the censors office, by the general public, (including most of the men) by the lot.
This whole poisoned environment, is actually far more important than any original comment
This second example, illustrates this even more glaringly.
Some thirty years ago, on one of David Frost’s talkback programs, Australian Nazi, Cass Young, caused a nationwide uproar when he described Australia’s Aborigines as “sub human”. Blacks and whites alike jammed the studio switchboard with complaints and only Australia’s freedom of speech laws stopped Young’s prosecution.
More recently, on the Big Brother program, some tasteless aboriginal joke (As in joke! As in, not meant to be taken seriously, totally unlike Rowntrees comment) caused a similar uproar.
But take a look at the number of women’s mags who routinely describe men as “sub human”. In absolute seriousness! Without complaint! If a whites complain about blacks being described as sub human in the media, then women should certainly be complaining about men being described as sub human in the women s mags.
This is what , relationship cultivation, is really, about. You can’t go expecting respect if you, personally, have the poisoned attitude and, even if you don’t, you still can’t go expecting it unless you are sufficiently aware of the poisioned society to work around it .
Most women still do have the poisioned attitude. Even if they vigorously deny it and are not aware of it.
Listen to any girlfriend griping about a dud ex and her gripes wont be about him. They will be about men . He won’t be listed as a dud because he was a dud. Only because he was a man. That’s the poisioned attitude.
The female ego won’t allow her to face up to her own stupidity in picking a dud when there were so many good men around. Easier on the female ego to blame the entire male gender.
The more you look into this matter the more awareness you develop, the more the poisoned attitude shows itself. Listen to any lecture about the racist way blacks were treated in South Africa, or the USA deep south, fifty, or a hundred and fifty years ago and then try comparing it with the way men, and only men, are treated now.
The similarities are downright scary if you listen with open ears and an open mind. A century ago any black, who looked at a white woman, was promptly charged with “rape by intent”. Women’s groups are attempting to re introduce these same laws under different guises, but this time applying to black and white men alike. With reasonable success too.
In hospitals, in stores, in offices, on public transport, at the dole office, in any number of places, the women are welcomes, the men are tolerated. Just! Fifty years ago, in the same circumstances, it was the whites where were welcomed, and the blacks who were tolerated. Once again , only just.
===Any successful relationship, one way or another, is based on the twin cornerstones of love and respect. And respect is a two way street. Treating your man like you treat your dog is not respect. ===
A final note here! Many women consider red blooded male randiness as disrespect.
An attitude, once again, cultivated by the poisoned environment.
Noting could be further from the truth. The opposite of respect is contempt, or disrespect. Randiness is a red herring, nothing to do with either respect, or contempt. | |
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| Why can't ment show respect for a women
Posted: 12/1/2006 2:50:03 PM | First you have to respect yourself.
You and You alone are responsible for your own feelings and happiness
This is not the fault of any man this is your fault you feel this way. | |
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| Why can't ment show respect for a women
Posted: 12/6/2006 10:01:32 AM | Don't be offended by what Sanschele stated in here message #12! I don't think she was trying to be abusive. The word" ignorant " , when used to describe someone. Does not mean the person is stupid! It simple means that you do not have a total understanding of a certain subject!  | |
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| Why can't ment show respect for a women
Posted: 12/6/2006 10:31:27 AM | I agree with you Red, it's a two way Street and some of us have the need to go after the bad boys,
I have met both kinds on POF so it's a 50/50 chance, they can't all be perfect. some times we get what we ask for, and vise versa, | |
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| Why can't ment show respect for a women
Posted: 12/6/2006 1:54:28 PM |
Just No Respect At All.....................................!!!!!! When I couldn't afford to go Dutch on a date, my companion suggested I dip into my Daylight Savings!
Just No Respect At All.....................................!!!!!! | |
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| Why can't ment show respect for a women
Posted: 12/6/2006 2:17:39 PM | | one will not respect another...because they dont respect themselves...same goes for other traits like...trust..honesty...an etc | |
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| Why can't ment show respect for a women
Posted: 12/6/2006 2:36:54 PM | | If the lady acts like a lady she'll get respect.If she's a mouthy gender confused feminist that bashes men is it any surprise men could care less what she thinks? I think some women want a free ride when it comes to respect they just expect it without earning it.Alot of women today especially ones under 24 don't respect men then wonder why men cum and go pardon the pun.I think there are alot of people today that were the daycare generation of years ago were brought up without morals,values and good old fashioned ways.Many women are mouthy and disrespectful to men,many men knock up women and bail or smack women around and this is progress right? ask a good man around 40 about life,relationships and women then ask a 20 year old boy the same and see the difference.When a woman is respectful,polite and nice to me I treat her the same,when she's not I say c ya.I wonder how many men she'd go through before she starts to see the pattern? | |
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| Why can't ment show respect for a women
Posted: 12/6/2006 3:51:23 PM | | im a guy but i was raised by my parents to respect women and i think a woman should be treated equally to a man. like if i had a woman if she wanted to work that is fine with me if she wanted to stay home with the kids i don't have a problem with that. I would have 100% trust so she could go whereever she wanted to when she wanted. | |
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| Why can't ment show respect for a women
Posted: 12/6/2006 6:51:26 PM | First of all not all men are like this,some yes but not all,I have the highest respect for men if they have respect for me,respect yourself and others shall respect you,Learn to choose the man a bit better i guess,what goes around will come back ten fold and i honestly believe this to be true, | |
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| Why can't ment show respect for a women
Posted: 12/6/2006 8:32:45 PM |
I would have 100% trust so she could go wherever she wanted to when she wanted.
Fine attitude Bryan, you deserve a lady.
That is the main thing.Trust and Appreciation shown. Show the one you love that you appreciate every thing they do. If you don't have trust in a relationship, you have nothing.
Be a lady, date a man who acts like a man and receive respect. Date a looser and you never receive much of anything. It is all about her/him! There are good and bad in both sexes. I would advise a woman to date an older man. Men an older women. Someone within 5-10 years of their age. Never think about marriage until at least 25. A lot of women now days do not know how to take care of a man. Very few cook, don't know how, and a lot want to eat out. A lot of men don't know how to treat a good woman. The main thing is treat her/him as you want to be treated, trust and be true to each other. Men are no worse than women when it comes to respect. I firmly believe that if a lady shows a man that she cares about him he will treat her with respect. I said a man, not a loser. | |
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| Why can't ment show respect for a women
Posted: 1/3/2007 10:24:39 PM |
Sassy
I would advise you to have a really good read on the posts regardng statutory rape
And why do you think I should do that? I think not. I said nothing about dating an under-age person. I think I am old enough to know about statutary rape.
I'd like to hear his side too!
You know, if women would start showing respect for themselves by thier actions maybe more men would respect them. | |
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| Why can't ment show respect for a women
Posted: 1/6/2007 2:53:15 AM | | Please I know there are some a***s out there but please do not put the good men that are out there in the same vote. I am always being heart broken by a lady. So there are some men that want to give a lady everything. | |
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| Why can't ment show respect for a women
Posted: 1/6/2007 3:05:48 AM | most men don't respect themselves how can anyone expect them to respect someone else...... especially a woman. not to mention a majority of men are severely afraid of women. :)
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| Why can't ment show respect for a women
Posted: 3/31/2007 2:00:25 AM | Women are just far more emotional creatures. They define men's actions or intent from this perspective. I wasn't suggesting they were better than men or somehow devine. From her perspective men seem less respectful.
Men are more logic based. From our perspective women seem insane. | |
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| Why can't ment show respect for a women
Posted: 3/31/2007 2:43:46 AM | | All men are different perhaps in life in general people often look for a parner for the wrong reason instead of substance. its best you know your partner rather than getting a parner to fill your needs . a parner should be understanding and be a good friend rather than someone who pleases you. when looking for a partner it should be non judgemental and fair. | |
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| Why can't ment show respect for a women
Posted: 9/28/2008 2:06:54 PM | Complicated question.
In my humbled opinion, I think it is a direct reflection of a spoiled society that thrives off the rat race and loss of morals. The norms of society are changing with what is released on TV and all Media sources. As time and technology advance, information is more readily accessible and with less filter. Its a hurry up and live, succeed life style. What ever happened to Honor your Mother and Father, Cherish your Heritage? It goes down the the simplest lessons from our youth. An example of why we are loosing track? We are 20% of the world population and consume 75% of the world oil. 18% of our population has passports and 13% use them. So most think, America, Me, America, Me.................They know no other.
The world has much to teach and lessons to give. If we can open ourself to learning and lowering our noses to others around the world, we can learn to do it in our own country. Take the time to notice others, slow down your "Busy" lives, go out of your way to maintain others smiles, and listen to your lesons from your youth. Many will see, for the first time in their lives, they will be living their lives and the emptiness will be filled with love and others that pull you in :)
Thanks, Greg | |
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