| Why can't ment show respect for a women
Posted: 10/20/2006 10:46:08 PM | If they drive around cutting everyone off... race past old ladies so they can beat them to the chair... and knock kids out of the way so they can be first in line for ice cream... then don't expect them to treat you any better. They simply don't have it in them.
Say, I see you have met my dog Spaz, thats why I love him so much, he can do the things I can't. Or I'm not suppose to anyway. You know what they say about dogs and there owners, trouble is, I'm not sure who's rubbing off on who, lol | |
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| Why can't ment show respect for a women
Posted: 10/20/2006 10:46:11 PM | Benz?? Kindly show message# 21 to the door as you are so eloquentley equipped for. You are are a class act at its' best. And Ron? I have no problems getting dates..lol..I just choose to not lower my standards to someone as rude and ignorant as yourself....sorry B-dawg..uh oh...I see another suspension on the horizon...YIKES!!!!!!!
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mlake
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| Why can't ment show respect for a women
Posted: 10/20/2006 11:04:36 PM | Dear Sanschele,
I find nothing wrong with Ron's comments. I think maybe you and the original post need to call Dr. Phil. as you are the bitter one. | |
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| Why can't ment show respect for a women
Posted: 10/20/2006 11:07:38 PM | You know what they say about dogs and there owners, trouble is, I'm not sure who's rubbing off on who, lol
Ahhhhhhh... so this is why dogs are a man's best friend. They can train them to do the disrespectful things they'd like to do but can't. I see you're training Spaz to cut people off in traffic.
I'm not sure who's rubbing off on who either. hmmmmm... which one are you?
*I'm kidding*
edit: to mlake... I seen a few things wrong with Ron's comments but didn't mention it. Maybe he misunderstood Sans point? | |
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| Why can't ment show respect for a women
Posted: 10/20/2006 11:30:52 PM | | ok everyone...seems theres too much bashing going on....and as far as the OP...there are alot more men who respect women then there are that dont. Belive me, most men want to knock the crap out of a guy like that.It just seems that the worst in people (men AND women) is what gets attention. belive me, there are more men on this site that would opena door for a lady, than there are that wouldnt | |
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| Why can't ment show respect for a women
Posted: 10/21/2006 12:04:04 AM | | thank you sanchelle...its just like the nice guy/bad boy threads.if a guy is nice and gets nowhere by being nice....he finally complain after along time..and then all of a sudden women come out of the woodworks saying that his "whining" was the reason for the rejection which is a crock....and guys who ignore women unless they are sluts...and then they say "if you wrent such a slut" youd do alot better both are full of it | |
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| Why can't ment show respect for a women
Posted: 10/21/2006 12:32:07 AM | And Hallo army guy..Sprechen de Deutch,ya?? Bistu duerstig??? lol...and Guten nacht my friend..can ich vein glass haben bitta..I used to know what this meant..lol.
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| Why can't ment show respect for a women
Posted: 10/21/2006 1:04:44 AM | | I'm thinking that respect might not be the real issue here but more about what lifestyle you're familiar and comfortable with. With all the messages women are getting these days from Oprah to the View to the majority of TV programing that women should be adored for their sensibilities, classiness and fortitude. Seems to me its a set up for disaster. It's kinda like: that in order to be happy and mentally sound a guy who's perfectly happy not think'n 'bout much, with feelings ranging from 30 weight to 30-06 and view their women as just a tad less purty than their dog not only want and expect you to "go along", they need you to! Do you really want to be hang'n with some fluffy boy who's all about communication techniques from his library of self help books? Do you want to be expected to be the always clever and brilliant success oriented she-male? Life isn't meant to be real complicated for everyone. To be totally entertained by the stupidist sitcoms is beautiful. Just feel sorry for those corporate-head-banger-wanna-bes. Love your man, express your feelings and above all don't, for heaven's sake, try to be nice, he'll think your trying to make him look stupid. Of course if you've already gotten hooked on being the well bred women image you might as well look for guys that habituate group therapy. ...and oh there's so much out here. Good luck and good fish'n! | |
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| Why can't ment show respect for a women
Posted: 10/21/2006 5:35:16 AM | I'm sorry but I'm gonna have to go against my own gender on this one...
women get treated badly by men because women lallow it happen..it's sad but it's also true
But that goes for men also they let women treat them badly and stay with them too so it's not just women....a good relationship is based on mutual respect | |
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Posted: 10/21/2006 6:04:18 AM | 1. How about every woman who is too much of a chicken sh*&t to simply say, "I had a great time; however, I would rather not see you again..."?
2. How about every woman who is too much of a chicken sh*&t to simply write back and say, "Thank you for your e-mail, message, comment (if it was polite), but I will not respond since I am not interested." They say that if someone simply does not respond, that means they are not interested. I think it's plain rude and rather cowardly.
Blah, blah, blah, how many more countless examples can one site - from both sexes I am sure.
3. As much as some women have caused me distress and pain, I still stand by my saying that "If you want to see the definition of beauty, look at women." Women are a pain, an enigma, craziness and beauty all packed in to one extremely dangerous yet hopelessly attractive package to most men.
4. What is respect? I get so turned off when the person that I am dating puts herself down or when they don't stand up to me if I am pulling bull&(^t on them. Respect yourself. Yes - most of us are shallow creatures who want the pretty shiny stuff, but also hope for the substance behind all the sparkle. Good luck finding that. Most of us want to come off as the "shiny stuff" ourselves, but hope that people will take time to truly get to know you - the real you - buried behind the make up, false laughter, pretend happiness and all the other store-front crap we put up. Yet most of us don't care and respect ourselves enough to say "F()*&K the shiny stuff" and stand by what is truly our real selves.
SO - TAKE IF FROM A MAN - TREAT YOURSELF AS YOU WANT TO BE TREATED AND THE PEOPLE WHO CARE ABOUT YOU WILL DO THE SAME. ANYONE ELSE CAN GO F(&K THEMSELVES. It is that easy - just work on it a little. Sounds as if you allowed someone to hurt you again - so take the time - really TAKE THE TIME on this one. While being single sucks at times, it is so much better than jumping in to dating thinking a warm body will help to mend a broken heart or mind. It is even OK to feel as if you hate a certain group from the general population - as long as you don't end up hating yourself for having wasted all that time and energy you could have spent doing something you truly love to do - reading, hiking, smiling, talking to those who matter, etc... Try it - it can work wonders. | |
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| Why can't ment show respect for a women
Posted: 10/21/2006 6:56:10 AM | I for one respect women alot. I open doors, Slide chairs, light cigs for them. Hell tonight I am makeing dinner for a special friend of mine. She has told me no one has ever done that for her. I do all this cause it shows respect and is how I want to be treated. She has done the same for me. A real man knows how to respect and show the one he cares for how much he respects her.
You seem to be makeing the wrong choices in relationships. mabye you need to rethink what you are looking for.. | |
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| Why can't ment show respect for a women
Posted: 10/21/2006 7:03:07 AM | I think it has a lot to do with how you are raised
I also agree with mandrake48 respect is something you have to earn I treat everyone with respect until they give me a reason not too | |
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Posted: 10/21/2006 7:48:45 AM | | Maybe its because they've had too much experience with women who are all about themselves and they've given up. Relationships are about giving not getting. Even your handle suggests that you think it is about getting. Your likely to only find those who agree with you and are negotiating what they need. (i.e. looking for the one that is for them as opposed to looking for the one that they are right for). Most of the complaints on these forums are about not getting what they want. You can't drain a cup and expect it to be full if you don't put something back. If your focus is on giving, their cup will always be full. If their focus is on giving, your cup will be too. If you both focus on getting both cups are likely to be empty most of the time. | |
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| Why can't ment show respect for a women
Posted: 10/21/2006 2:34:18 PM | why do woman play with a mans heart in making the guy think they are interested in them and when the guy finally asks them out they tell them he isnt their type? Why if one looks at profiles of woman and not just this site one gets the impression so many are looking for a entertainment director and not someone to be there in sickness and health for better or worse till death do they part.... nope they want to travel go here or there eat this see that yada yada.... why do they say that children are very important to them yet say they dont want any baggage? where there is a child there is a ex and baggage..... no drama please which is what life is about.... its how one deals with what life throws at one as not many live in a perfect world where every thing is in its proper place and falls their way.......
A mans feelings are just important as a womans... a man deserves to be treated with respect and have their needs seen as being important just as the womans are important... they want to be treated like a lady... how bout folks wanting to be treated like a person.... that would be cool...... be nice if the person mattered and not what entertainment they can provide ...
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| Why can't ment show respect for a women
Posted: 10/21/2006 3:06:54 PM |
Sanschele,
I have just read your post again. Do you really attract many men with your judgemental attitude?
I really believe you are going to have a tough time finding anybody who will love you more than YOU love YOURSELF.
Rave on!
You see Ron, I don't think we are being "Judgemental" at all, we simply are stating our opinions on these issues. Now some may think we are a little "Critical" at times, but we are all grown-up adults here, and should be able to "Respect" how others stand on any particular issue !!!!
I would also like to mention....., now speaking for myself that is......., I really don't want someone, who will "Love" me more than they would love themselves. That's just asking to much from someone !!!! I would find it "Dishonest" to me, to be that way !!!! For you need to "LOVE YOURSELF", before you can find love in others !!!!
With All Due "R-E-S-P-E-C-T"........................................................Benz !!!!! | |
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| Why can't ment show respect for a women
Posted: 10/21/2006 3:18:23 PM | Finally back on topic 
It is hard to say why for any particular person. I think it is fair to say that women do not respect most men. Men are too ________. (fill it in yourself, you will be right.) The men who do get respect are very often the least deserving in the eyes of other men.
As for women... I see lots of things at work there. Somebody mentioned the badboy thing. It happens. Some women start pushing buttons. Some give none and get none in return. One woman, who I do not see anymore, kept getting more and more rude and insufferable, until I finally couldn't tolerate it any more. Then she did a 180. (too late) I know some dudes who do not even know what respect is. They see every woman as a serving wench. There are your "holier than thou" types who see one little mis-step and she is forever after on the ****list.
One thing is certain. Women get more respect than they admit and men get less than they deserve. Nobody pulls out my chair. Nobody stands when I enter the room. If another sales girl calls me "dear", I am going to walk right out no matter what I am trying to buy. Men, as a rule, give women a certain amount of respect even if it is perfunctory. It doesn't often go the other way. Men get treated badly even by other men. Women call it "Just being me." Is there really any mystery why some guys are copping that attitude too? | |
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| Why can't ment show respect for a women
Posted: 10/21/2006 5:03:18 PM | | I was gonna ask, why does the OP keep picking selfish self-centered men to date? There's lots of men out there (here) that aren't like that. I think she should look at her choices, and get her "picker" a tune up, and try some eye drops to clear the tint in her eyes that seems to be ignoring the red flags. | |
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Joined: 9/26/2006
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| Why can't ment show respect for a women
Posted: 10/21/2006 7:40:33 PM | | There are alot of us nice respectful men here. We are just not the type most women go for. There are alot of disrespectful women out there as well as men. It goes both ways. | |
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| Why can't ment show respect for a women
Posted: 10/21/2006 7:50:45 PM | It goes both ways.
No it doesn't. It's a one way street. Shut down the defelctor shields. Men are to blame, and that's that. We're all a bunch of scum bags.
If I were you, I would not argue with the wise sage who started this thread. I don't think you truly understand yourself as much as she does. I know I didn't really understand who I was, nor my role in society until I read her profound words. | |
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Joined: 9/26/2006
Msg: 50 | |
| Why can't ment show respect for a women
Posted: 10/21/2006 9:03:25 PM |
If I were you, I would not argue with the wise sage who started this thread. I don't think you truly understand yourself as much as she does. I know I didn't really understand who I was, nor my role in society until I read her profound words.
All I can say is LOL. | |
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