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| Why can't ment show respect for a women
Posted: 10/27/2006 7:29:23 AM | Good morning....Vietnam..
A disrespectful man...Does not earn my Respect!!
To the OP,these particular men do not show respect..
because they were never taught to respect women..
The sooner you delete disrespectful...men...you then
may find...the path to ..respectful ones...
now someone get me another coffee...
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| Why can't ment show respect for a women
Posted: 10/27/2006 7:39:23 AM | | Respect is earned not just given and i for one respect women and dislike any man who does not .It also works both ways too there are many women who show no respect for men and there is far to much generalization from both sides ,just becuase the ones some of us meet are not respectful etc.. does not mean that all the males and females are the same ,that statement is ludicrous.Maybe you just need to meet the right type of people male and female then you will see that there are people out there that do respect and care how others feel . | |
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| Why can't ment show respect for a women
Posted: 10/27/2006 7:54:16 AM | Message 131 I wrote message 127.. Totally agree with you.
I know I'm a women but sure get sick of men bashing.
Appears women and men set themselves up instead of live, learn and walk away.
Good Luck to you!  | |
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| Why can't ment show respect for a women
Posted: 10/27/2006 8:16:20 AM | who ever wrote this is meeting the wrong people, we dont have contol of the guys and how they act but we do have contol of how we want to be treated and our energy meaning some people there energy is all wrong and they dont changed it .
We have to look at ourselfs to see "why'
Also some birth signs are just wrong for each other.
I have had 6 meetings since starting inviting people into my life one guy didnt say he was blind in one eye and deaf in the other, do you wonder why?
another guy didnt put a close up of himself on the site ? he turn up and was old had a six bi pass and hip replacement but he sure thought he wanted sex and that was all he talked about, no wonder he is not getting anywhere.
The next one well we could have fallen into each others arms it was so great but he had a thing about his faith and mine. "that one was sad" but again his stuff
the next guy was a pop in for a beer play darts drink with the boys and couldnt even buy me a bottle of water or was too mean to do so. trying there luck
The next guy well great bible basher, end of that story.
we are all in search of the right person you have to find out what you dont want then you will know what you really want.
feel sad for the guys who are stupid and make the rest look bad. There out there we just have to keep our chin up and keep going and not be desperate when its right it will happen. | |
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| Why can't ment show respect for a women
Posted: 10/27/2006 8:23:54 AM | | You are so right 127 ,we all have to be smart enough to walk away from those that treat us badly and if we don't wee have no one to blame but ourselves .I believe you will be treated as you treat others and i myself prefer to treat others with kindness and respect until they show me they don't deserve it . | |
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| Why can't ment show respect for a women
Posted: 10/27/2006 8:42:42 AM | | I think its all down to how we women bring ourselfs, carry ourselfs. A confident women who knows what she wants, when and how, women who knows who she is, and making sure men knows all that, will be respected by men | |
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| Why can't ment show respect for a women
Posted: 10/27/2006 9:03:33 AM | | Im suprised this question is even being asked again. its common knowledge that if a man shows any compassion or good nature toward women, hes doomed. Yaroogiddy up yo uhit it on the nose... straight white males living today are guilty of things that happened over 200 years ago, I say we look good for out age. And if a good guy proves that nice guys arent door mats...and stands up for himself...suddenly he must not really be a good guy. In another post..a woman asks what to do abut her abusive BF, which isnt realluy hard to figure out. As it turns out, this is the same BF she supposedly broke up with before, because he was abusive. she turned down two other guys who wouldve treated her like gold. And when I brough this up, that this isnt the first time, who wants to bet i didnt get treated like crap for saying something? | |
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| Why can't ment show respect for a women
Posted: 10/27/2006 9:21:24 AM | | ^^ Well, the reality is armyguy, that just from that woman's comments, I would have had a hard time respecting her, because *she* obviously doesn't respect *herself*. Would you really want a woman who breaks up and goes back to an abusive relationship? That shows her own lack of self-esteem, and sorry, but I'm not a "solution" to your lack of self-esteem, and I don't even want to try. I'd rather find someone who has the respect for themselves to not put up with that kind of crap, *that* kind of person is someone I can respect. Its not *your* loss, its hers... but thats her choice. | |
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| Why can't ment show respect for a women
Posted: 10/27/2006 10:27:29 AM | Oh, my! I have this horrible urge to go bowling. That's neither here nor there. I want to know why various people feel it is entirely okay to paint everyone from either gender with the same brush?
I'm going to break this down for everyone:
Females:
1)Some men are genuinely interested in more than your vagina.
2)Each man has his own merits and should not pay for the "crimes" of another.
3)Every man is not a pig/player/alcoholic/abusive person/etc...
4)The males of the species are not conspiring against you.
5)You are responsible for your life.
Males:
1)Some women are genuinely interested in more than what you have in your pants (think money or penis).
2)Each woman has her own merits and should not pay for the "crimes" of another.
3)Every woman is not a slut/gold digger/alcoholic/abusive person/etc...
4)The females of the species are not conspiring against you.
5)You are responsible for your life.
Now's a good time for various people to pull up their respective huggies and move on in life. | |
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| Why can't ment show respect for a women
Posted: 10/27/2006 10:48:11 AM | Hey Reteach....
re: msg. #11
If you consider a woman not contacting you after a date as rude........ Hers some very good advice....TOUGHEN UP AND GROW A SET....... , you do have your gender listed as "male"? As the name of this site implies, there are way too many out there to let even one piss you off. The more dates you go on, the more you will learn how the "game" is played. Sorry, but that is a truth in life, you can bemoan that you want honesty, ets., ets., yada yada, but in the end, everybody plays one game or another....... So get in the GAME.......
PK
PS Most woman that are even worth dating, or even establishing some type of relationship will be courteous, and deferential, as you should be...... Just old fashioned stuff...... | |
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| Why can't ment show respect for a women
Posted: 10/27/2006 10:58:14 AM | Hey Yahh Roo
re: msg. #126
What you penned is a Masters Level collection of what really ails the world today. Like you, I am not taking this $hit any more. I am old school polite, but very concise when necessary. The problem is that "modern" political correctness has MEN shackled to the point where they are afraid to speak for fear of being called homophobes, woman haters, mysogynists, and any other number of descriptions that don't fit. Those tha do the calling simply don't have anything else in their a***nal except to fall back on name calling, and then hope that due to political correctness, nobody calls them on what they are doing. With your permission, I want to copy your post, print it out and frame it for the wall at my business..
Thank you
Paul K | |
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| Why can't ment show respect for a women
Posted: 10/27/2006 11:58:20 AM | just seemd like men do not think about how their actions effects their partner, wether it be intended or not.
Just some things to consider:
1. Both genders, by nature, tend to discount or minimize the effect their behaviors and actions have on others (and conversely, magnify the affect others have on them). That's because everyone lives in their own skin, and they don't feel the effect you feel. They have to develop empathy and realize seriously just how they affect people.
2. Also, you have to look at why others' actions may be affecting you so. Some people have unrealistic needs and wants. Some people only consider their needs/wants fulfilled if it happens in a certain way. If any of your perceived needs fall into those categories, it will always be frustrating.
3. It's important to communicate clearly what it is you want from your partner. Don't expect them to just automatically know what your needs are all the time. Set boundaries gently but firmly as to what you will not accept and what the consequences will be. Stick to that.
4. When you tell your partner what you're feeling, don't do it in such a way that it raises their defenses. That won't get you anywhere. For example, you'd say "I'd really like to do more things together, like maybe a bike ride this weekend?" instead of "All you ever do is lay on the couch watching TV all weekend!"
5. We may not be able to get all our needs met by our partners. Perhaps we crave more social activity than our partner does. We have to be able to take care of our own wants then.
6. You have to be with someone who's emotionally healthy and willing to work on these things with you. You can communicate all you want and go through all the above suggestions, but the bottom line is if your partner never improves and still neglects you, then you're with someone who's not anywhere near the same page you are and you have to do the hard task of asking yourself if this is satisfactory for you to continue or not. | |
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| Why can't ment show respect for a women
Posted: 10/27/2006 12:06:11 PM | Creativguy....................."Well Said"...............!!!!
But that does not make me feel any better, you see when I was a baby, I was so ugly........my mother used to feed me with a ..."Sling-Shot" !!!! Just No Respect At All !!!!
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| Why can't ment show respect for a women
Posted: 10/27/2006 1:18:57 PM | very well said waves...too bad Im not allowed to message you
but i do fir the follwowing categories::::
Age between 35 and 55
Must not have messaged users looking for intimate encounters or sex.
Must not be looking for Hang Out
Must not be looking for Short-Term
Must not be looking for Other Relationship
Must not be looking for Intimate Encounter
Must not be looking for Activity Partner
Must not do drugs
Must not be married | |
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| Why can't ment show respect for a women
Posted: 10/27/2006 2:31:43 PM | | Paul - thank you for your kind words -- you dont need permision to print my words at all - but the respect you show by asking is refreshing by all means, if you wish to do so - please go right ahead | |
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| Why can't ment show respect for a women
Posted: 10/27/2006 8:13:03 PM | army guy..
If you are any of the above mentioned criteria...then i doubt it you
have respect for women?
(that you copied and pasted from my profile...like what the hek
is that anyway).....
I do believe a new thread should be posted..when do 'some..'
men....reach maturity!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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| Why can't ment show respect for a women
Posted: 10/27/2006 8:32:36 PM | Why can't woMEN write properly? The first four words of your message do not make sense???
I'm sure it sounds good when you say, "effects their partner"... you can cover up the "a" with the "e", but what you want to write is, "affects their partner". I'll give you the typo for the "ment" in your subject line and "seemd" in your message, but I can't respect somebody who wants to refer to "a woMAN" with "a woMEN" when they are "a woMAN", I can only presume.
And "wether" is a castrated male sheep. Maybe you wanted to throw an "A" in there somewhere?
I could go on, but I refuse to.
Go to the local bookstore and please buy a book on "grammar", or at the very least, use a spell and grammar check.
By the way, this is merely my point of view. First impressions are very important. I would not waste my time writing to somebody if I read the above. You are now asking yourself, "Why did they write this?" Because it was so annoying to read, please help yourself, or should it be "yourselves"??? You decide. | |
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| Why can't ment show respect for a women
Posted: 10/27/2006 8:43:45 PM | | i had respect for women, but once your heart gets broken you tend to look at women for only one thing. sex is different when your in love and diff. when your not. i want to respect women. have the great relationship and all. but i just got blasted. i guess it needs time to heal before i can try again, if ever. i'm not sure true love exists. its like dr phil says you can never predict what a person will do. so when you get in a relationship you have to know that if it does go south you can deal with the emotional turmoil. i'm afraid to deal with it anymore. i hurt so bad. people we love usually hurt us the most. maybe i'll post my story sometime. | |
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| Why can't ment show respect for a women
Posted: 10/28/2006 12:20:15 AM | If your a single white hetrosexual male these days - your farked -
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There's an excelent test for that these days.
The race test.
Next time some feminazi goet on the soapbox record what she preaches about men. then repeat her speech (on the same soapbox if you acan) but change the wor man to ni66er, each time it's used. It's an interesting test. | |
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