| Why can't ment show respect for a women
Posted: 10/28/2006 12:57:45 AM | | Sounds like you're generalizing based on some less than ideal men you have known. You can only work on your part and that is to give and hope for reciprocation in return. By giving I mean respect, acceptance, appreciation and love. That's the winning formula. I feel all men and women are created equal. | |
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| Why can't ment show respect for a women
Posted: 10/28/2006 7:39:56 AM | Whew, it took a long time to get through all of this and I guess it all reminded me of a story or two kids.
First Kid- placed in a room with all kinds of wonderful toys. She sits there and does nothing... In fact she cries... the people outside the room who are watching are confused. They enter the room and ask why doesn't she play with the toys? She says that soon she will have to leave the room and can not have any of the toys...
Second Kid- placed in a room with hills and hills of nothing but MANURE... she gets up and runs to the hills and plays and rolls in the manure... this too confuses the observers...soon they enter the room and ask Why are you so happy and playing like this? She says with a giggle " With all this horse s**t there must be a pony somewhere"... Isn't that the case with the dating site thing? JUST HERE LOOKING FOR MY PONY and playing in the manure can be a lot of fun if you have the right perspective.... Smiles jacki | |
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| Why can't ment show respect for a women
Posted: 10/28/2006 8:01:16 AM | When I was born...!!!! The doctor came out to the waiting room and said to my father...!!!!..."I'm very sorry...!!!!.... We did everything we could...but he pulled through."!!!! ..............Just No Respect At All !!!! | |
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| Why can't ment show respect for a women
Posted: 10/28/2006 10:05:39 AM | | Women by their very nature feel the world around them far more accutely then we do I think. Women may consider most men to be inconsiderate/insensitive because the expectation is that we feel everything on the same level as women do. It's not that we can't or won't sympathize/empathize it's just that we can't vary the amplitude to which we do. | |
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| Why can't ment show respect for a women
Posted: 10/28/2006 3:02:24 PM | I think that you are thinking wrong fella.
Women think that they are more tuned to the world around them. They think they know if they run into a dud bloke. They think they know when hybby's cheating
But they are wrong. Their feelings are based on paronoia and imagination, not on sensitivity to the world. | |
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| Why can't men show respect for a women
Posted: 10/29/2006 5:43:38 AM |
I have yet to meet one that thinks my opinion and feelings are as important as his, so this was my opinion.
Not meaning to be disrespectful, but do you realize how conceited this sounds?
Have you met any where you thought his opinions and feelings were as important as yours?
Now I understand that your trying to say men don't seem to pay attention to your opinions, needs and feelings, but it does come across like you think your the center of the universe and that men should be in orbit around you. That is the very issue for which you are criticizing men. It certainly is a problem of our time, but as a careful reading of your post makes obvious, it is not limited to men.
Another poster is fond of misquoting and misinterpreting physicists, a field where I have a modicum of knowledge. Perhaps if you and she read Richard Feynman's commentaries on his "success" in social relations with women and how it was achieved, you would gain some insight. A summary would be that "when women reward men who are nice, men who are nice will not have to hide the fact." | |
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| Why can't ment show respect for a women
Posted: 10/29/2006 4:37:31 PM | | Listen not all men are bad for this please i am so tired of so many women and men bashing each other,it takes one man to show disrespect and your hammering every other man for it,thats so totally wrong theer are many men whom show alot of respect for a women and there are many women who also have respect for men,manoman get your figures right lol | |
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| That Ment Will Get You Every Single Time..!
Posted: 10/29/2006 8:21:06 PM | | You have a point, Benzjaguar. How large is your tub? Tubs are important. I don't need a huge house, but I do so heart indulging myself in steaming hot water, lightly scented, of course! | |
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| Why can't ment show respect for a women
Posted: 10/29/2006 9:42:36 PM | I have to say that works both ways.I was married for 9 years did everything for my exwife.I would come home from work cook dinner,bath the kids and all of that stuff.
All she was ever concerned about was getting drunk and noglecting our kids and me.So it is not always guy that treat people like shit there is a lot of women out there that do the same thing.And yes I now have full custody of my 3 children. | |
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| Why can't ment show respect for a women
Posted: 10/29/2006 9:48:34 PM | Thanks for the rediculous laughs!
I'll go ask some ments why they can't show no respect...then I'll ask them what they "ment" by that,,,those good for nothins! Looky there...I just generalized! How redundant of me!
wether it be intended or not ....
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| Why can't ment show respect for a women
Posted: 10/30/2006 2:01:02 PM | Hi,
Well as a man i would just like to offer a "flip side to the coin" perspective.
I happen to be quite a sensative guy, often it can come accross a little un-masculine. And it has been my downfall many times in the past. I've found that it is all well and good to be caring and kind, but a few female friends of mine have ended up in relationships with "over" masculine men, because they quite simply enjoy the excitment! Explain that one to me please!!
Could it be that it is women who want a partner and man to be all masculine and take care of them?
Dont get me wrong there are some real idiotic excuses for men out there, but i think we need to be given some credit. I often am torn between trying to be the sesative caring guy, whilst still keeping a relationship interesting.
Let me know your thoughts
Cheers
Ian | |
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| Why can't ment show respect for a women
Posted: 10/30/2006 3:06:44 PM | Memo from mam:
Men do show respect if the woman wants it.
THE LAW OF NATURE
1a: Number 1 on a mans mind always "xxx".
1b: Number 1 on a womans mind always "xxx".
2a: Number 2 on a mans mind always "will she" ?
2b: Number 2 on a womans mind always "will he" ?
3a: Number 3 on a mans mind "ok i give in".
3b: Number 3 on a womans mind "ok i give in".
4a: Number 4 on a mans mind "what happened" ?
4b: Number 4 on a womans mind "what happened" ?
5a: Number 5 on a mans mind "OMG what happens now" ?
5B: Number 5 on a womans mind "OMG what happens now" ?
Just to let u know "the law of nature cannot be changed" .
FOLLOW IT  | |
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| Why can't ment show respect for a women
Posted: 10/30/2006 4:30:09 PM | oh my, all I can say is I demand respect and if they don't,,,they can walk out the door...although I can't seem to find "Mr. Right"..i can't say all men don't have respect,,tell them from the beginning,,be honest...Good luck
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| Why can't ment show respect for a women
Posted: 10/30/2006 6:03:02 PM |
all I can say is I demand respect and if they don't,,,they can walk out the door.
...although that comment would make me question how much you *give* respect. I think all people are worthy of some respect right off the bat (ie, being honest, faithful, etc). I think there are other things that are *earned*, if a woman treats me with respect she will earn respect in return. If a woman is constantly mistrusting me and questioning my honesty/faithfulness, constandly looking for reasons *not* to respect me, she will lose my respect. If a relationship becomes all about her "demands", then there is no give and take, and thus no repect for me and my feelings. Not a healthy relationship in my book, it wouldn't last. | |
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