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| what if a guy wants to move in right off the bat after meeting you
Posted: 2/27/2007 12:29:24 PM | | Now that's a clear sign to run the other way and never look back. I can understand if you have good feelings about someone, but that's a little extreme. It takes time to get to know someone, and 5 hours isn't going to accomplish much with that. | |
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M2k7
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Joined: 1/18/2007
Msg: 229 | |
| what if a guy wants to move in right off the bat after meeting you
Posted: 2/27/2007 4:56:31 PM | According to this - Here is the logical sequence of events
3 seconds - Third base
6 sec - You'd have sex
32 Sec - First fight
1 min - You'd meet the friends
10 min - You break up
16:30 - You can't live without each other
17 Min - You get back together
17:40 min - He confesses his love - you're flattered , but just not there yet
18:00 min - you're there - you confess your love
22:00 min - He meets your parents.
49:23 min - You discuss what you're going to name the children. You decide on Speed for a girl and Rush for a boy.
1 hour - Your dad and him have gone to a ball game. Extra innings - 4 seconds
1h 22m - You find out his dark secret of wearing women's underwear - He's been doing it most of the hour - but your love is strong enough to surpass it.
2h 24m - You join a sports team together
2h 44m - You have a fling but don't tell him - It only lasts 18 seconds though, but it's with one of the hunks on the sports team. You feel guilty and end up taking him on vacation
2h 50m 32s - You go to Cuba - Break up there.
2h 55m 00s - You get back together.
3 Hour - You finally meet his parents. His dad tells war stories for like three whole minutes (yawn)
4h 56m - He's spending at least 34 seconds of each minute at your place.
5 hr - you move in with each other. Delivery of furniture still takes two weeks. | |
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| what if a guy wants to move in right off the bat after meeting you
Posted: 3/4/2007 9:46:14 PM | any person who thinks they should move in right away is worse than insane.
i would be telling him...so long also.
reminds me of 1 guy i met for a couple hours and we had a great time together. talked to him for the next few weeks etc. but was not to be a relationship since he was moving to another province.
many months later..he brought up the topic of us getting together...he was moving back here. his idea of a relationship is he gives it his all or nothing at all.
eek!! his all..was to move in with me..after only meeting once for 2hrs. i think not happening!!
 he had a few choice opinions on me and not really interested in a serious relationship. he never did move back after i told him..rent a place but your not getting a key for my door. | |
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| what if a guy wants to move in right off the bat after meeting you
Posted: 4/16/2007 3:46:00 PM | I am a man, and have all the biological urges being a man. I have myself under control, and my urges come out only when I feel a real connection between my partner and me.
This leads to the question as to whether Internet dating poses more of a risk than real life meetings, and romanances. In real life, If you meet at a bar, many men are very humurous, and at times very philosphical-soeaking what appears to be words of wisdom. In the Internet, as in live interaction, you may meet a man who is very elequent with his words. Many can sweep a woman off with the "written word," but men that speak to women live and in person, can create false magic as well.
My advise is to be confident in yourself. Set the bar of trust high; if the man wants to be with you, he will understand. Look out for clock watchers-they may be married, or have a significant other. Make sure the prospect is self sufficient. You have survived without his help- prior to contact, so should he. Confidence and setting the boundaries sets the record straight. I met a nice woman from the Net. I knew we were not meant to be. This is where I think the "bar scene," and Internet differ. With the "Bar scene." you can bring your friends, tell a bouncer, and if necessary go to the bathroon and call the police on your cell phone. With Internet interactions, sometimes the setting and locations are different, and a woman can be more vulnerable. The thing which hurts is thaqt on ass like that, ruins it for many who are loving and good hearted. Guys it happens, be empathic to women. | |
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| what if a guy wants to move in right off the bat after meeting you
Posted: 5/9/2007 4:18:45 PM | Well, folks this is not my own story but it is worth telling.
A buddy of mine from waaaaaayyy back met a gal when he was 19 and she was 23. They moved in two weeks after meeting up in a coffee shop. Both knew each other from school and she hated him!! Her dad hated him even more. Said he'd never amount to anything.
He was a long haired guy without a steady job, drove a truck worth $100 which everyone called the puke mobile. Believe me if any relationship looked like it was doomed it was this one. Except for thing. He loved her. He told me and I believed him. Weeks turned into months and they were still together. Months turned into years. Two kids and over 21 years. Guess what? Still together.
Yes, I agree with everyone else that says to "run like hell" if a guy wants to move in right away. But , this is one time that choice would have been a bad one for these two people anyway. | |
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handsm
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Joined: 4/8/2007
Msg: 236 | |
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