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 Suchafnlady56

Joined: 9/20/2006
Msg: 101
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what if a guy wants to move in right off the bat after meeting you
Posted: 10/25/2006 10:04:13 AM
mike....toooooooooooo funny!!!!!!!!!!!! You should take that show on the road dawg!!!
 .liv2222.

Joined: 4/16/2006
Msg: 102
what if a guy wants to move in right off the bat after meeting you
Posted: 10/25/2006 10:21:16 AM
I'd run. That's just creepy.
 Larissan04

Joined: 4/28/2004
Msg: 103
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what if a guy wants to move in right off the bat after meeting you
Posted: 10/25/2006 9:58:58 PM
id' say that's a HUGE red flag! a neon sign!

if i may quote monty python..."run away!....run away! .....run away!"

lar
 !somewhere

Joined: 1/16/2006
Msg: 104
what if a guy wants to move in right off the bat after meeting you
Posted: 10/25/2006 10:04:05 PM
I see the OP's deleted her profile.
I guess she doesn't need it, now that she's found someone to move in.
 mike919293949596

Joined: 4/5/2006
Msg: 105
what if a guy wants to move in right off the bat after meeting you
Posted: 10/26/2006 11:05:19 AM
^^^^^ lmfao, Perhaps you're right, Or the worst has already happened.
And to think so close to the holidays.
 wwwwwhatever

Joined: 7/6/2006
Msg: 106
what if a guy wants to move in right off the bat after meeting you
Posted: 10/26/2006 12:10:13 PM
Guys want to have sex the instant they meet you; why's your time table any better than his?
 gessie

Joined: 4/12/2006
Msg: 107
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what if a guy wants to move in right off the bat after meeting you
Posted: 10/26/2006 1:08:32 PM
That's crap, sounds like this guy is thinking with his head but not the one on his shoulders:) OR he could be a freeloader, I would get rid of him real fast!
 dene

Joined: 8/12/2006
Msg: 108
what if a guy wants to move in right off the bat after meeting you
Posted: 10/26/2006 1:15:31 PM
If you live in winnipeg and his first name starts with a G and his last name starts with an S.....run like hell.
 i8icarus

Joined: 6/15/2005
Msg: 109
what if a guy wants to move in right off the bat after meeting you
Posted: 10/26/2006 2:07:34 PM
I would douse myself in creep repellant & run as fast as I could.
 doness

Joined: 10/21/2006
Msg: 110
what if a guy wants to move in right off the bat after meeting you
Posted: 10/26/2006 2:16:22 PM
This just hapened to me, and once I suggested he get his own place first for a while.....he slowly but surley started backing away....


he went from head over heels, to trying to offer buying me a house, ANYTHING to live together right away.............

I felt trapped and pressured, he finally backed off, and now he isn't interested.

I think the all or nothing thing has to have something behind it.

I just find it weird someone can be so "in love", but if you don't do everything they're way it fizzles away.

Mabey it is a bit of a controll thing. I don't like it personally. I like my space.
 specialtimes

Joined: 9/24/2006
Msg: 111
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what if a guy wants to move in right off the bat after meeting you
Posted: 10/26/2006 2:23:12 PM
Best advice-run like you just got caught for stealing
 dannol

Joined: 9/29/2006
Msg: 112
what if a guy wants to move in right off the bat after meeting you
Posted: 10/26/2006 2:30:51 PM
Some of us don't pee on the seat because we lift it and put it back down when we are done!

Say politely " R U on drugs?" and then say bye!
 bugsybears

Joined: 10/6/2004
Msg: 113
what if a guy wants to move in right off the bat after meeting you
Posted: 10/26/2006 2:39:50 PM
that is just so uncool. that would be scarey. i doubt there would be any plans for a second date. hard to tell what would happen then.
 specialtimes

Joined: 9/24/2006
Msg: 114
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what if a guy wants to move in right off the bat after meeting you
Posted: 10/26/2006 9:55:57 PM
When you stop and catch your breath, run again
 Guitar nut

Joined: 10/16/2005
Msg: 115
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what if a guy wants to move in right off the bat after meeting you
Posted: 11/16/2006 7:46:00 AM
If you have to even ask that question then you might want to seek counseling
 pfdems91

Joined: 1/18/2006
Msg: 116
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what if a guy wants to move in right off the bat after meeting you
Posted: 11/16/2006 8:52:56 AM
OMG!!! you can't seriously be thinking about this!! If someone wants to move that fast there is something so very wrong there... Ask him the WHY question..... hahahahaha... don't say no just ask why? Why would you want to do that? Whydo you have feelings for me? Why do you like me? Why can't we slow this down... and keep asking why..... and then SAY GO AWAY!!! My favorite answer is because I have feelings for you and I like you... ummm yea right buddy you don't even know me.... Think about it... Why would you want to live with someone you don't even know???? Or how about the " I love you" after 5 hours....ummm sure you do ( don't buy this one either).... how can you "LOVE" someone you don't even know????

VERY SCARY!!!!!!
 hellynuk

Joined: 7/11/2006
Msg: 117
what if a guy wants to move in right off the bat after meeting you
Posted: 11/16/2006 8:56:33 AM
i would tell him fo fcuk off and lock my windows and doors
 HzChld

Joined: 9/27/2006
Msg: 118
what if a guy wants to move in right off the bat after meeting you
Posted: 11/16/2006 8:59:14 AM
Run Simba RUN!!! Be safe!
 mizminx

Joined: 11/6/2006
Msg: 119
what if a guy wants to move in right off the bat after meeting you
Posted: 11/16/2006 9:33:33 AM
I met a guy like this off FP.. wouldnt leave me alone. It ended up me going to the police and gettin him in court for harrasment, he was found guilty, altho he denied it.
 jenny~dee

Joined: 10/10/2006
Msg: 120
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what if a guy wants to move in right off the bat after meeting you
Posted: 11/16/2006 11:03:26 AM
no no no, this is not healty hun, 5 hours, thats actually scary take a step back , you need far much more tim eto get to know him, this is silly to say he wants to move in, he is acting upon lust, and baby lust is not love. take it easy and explain to him that love cannot be rushed but fullfilled with memories and actually spending time getting to know him:) good luck
 Serendipityone

Joined: 7/23/2006
Msg: 121
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what if a guy wants to move in right off the bat after meeting you
Posted: 11/16/2006 11:33:17 AM


I met one of those once. He made it all the way to the third date. We had only gone as far as kissed once and he was already hinting around to live together. He was a BUM with a Ph.D.
 *buzz*

Joined: 6/1/2006
Msg: 122
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what if a guy wants to move in right off the bat after meeting you
Posted: 11/16/2006 11:50:41 AM
RIGHT off the bat?! Ahhh ... that gear would be swiftly changed!
 POFer4Life

Joined: 9/25/2006
Msg: 123
what if a guy wants to move in right off the bat after meeting you
Posted: 11/16/2006 11:54:48 AM
"Run like hell and change your phone number" comes to mind.............
 sweetandreal

Joined: 10/7/2006
Msg: 124
what if a guy wants to move in right off the bat after meeting you
Posted: 11/16/2006 12:35:09 PM
Anyone who wants to move in 5 horus after meeting you is either homeless, or has serious issues! That is not normal, nor is it "love".
 Fab_ricated

Joined: 10/20/2006
Msg: 125
what if a guy wants to move in right off the bat after meeting you
Posted: 11/16/2006 12:45:10 PM
Just tell him that with the 20 dogs and 50 cats you have...you just don't have room for him!!!
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