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dene
| Joined: 8/12/2006 Msg: 108 | |
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doness
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| what if a guy wants to move in right off the bat after meeting you Posted: 10/26/2006 2:16:22 PM | This just hapened to me, and once I suggested he get his own place first for a while.....he slowly but surley started backing away....
he went from head over heels, to trying to offer buying me a house, ANYTHING to live together right away.............
I felt trapped and pressured, he finally backed off, and now he isn't interested.
I think the all or nothing thing has to have something behind it.
I just find it weird someone can be so "in love", but if you don't do everything they're way it fizzles away.
Mabey it is a bit of a controll thing. I don't like it personally. I like my space. | |
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dannol
| Joined: 9/29/2006 Msg: 112 | |
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| what if a guy wants to move in right off the bat after meeting you Posted: 11/16/2006 8:52:56 AM | OMG!!! you can't seriously be thinking about this!! If someone wants to move that fast there is something so very wrong there... Ask him the WHY question..... hahahahaha... don't say no just ask why? Why would you want to do that? Whydo you have feelings for me? Why do you like me? Why can't we slow this down... and keep asking why..... and then SAY GO AWAY!!! My favorite answer is because I have feelings for you and I like you... ummm yea right buddy you don't even know me.... Think about it... Why would you want to live with someone you don't even know???? Or how about the " I love you" after 5 hours....ummm sure you do ( don't buy this one either).... how can you "LOVE" someone you don't even know????
VERY SCARY!!!!!! | |
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HzChld
| Joined: 9/27/2006 Msg: 118 | |
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| what if a guy wants to move in right off the bat after meeting you Posted: 11/16/2006 11:03:26 AM | no no no, this is not healty hun, 5 hours, thats actually scary take a step back , you need far much more tim eto get to know him, this is silly to say he wants to move in, he is acting upon lust, and baby lust is not love. take it easy and explain to him that love cannot be rushed but fullfilled with memories and actually spending time getting to know him:) good luck | |
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