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 DJChickie401

Joined: 10/16/2005
Msg: 126
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what if a guy wants to move in right off the bat after meeting you
Posted: 11/16/2006 12:56:03 PM
The holidays are coming, maybe we should all take in one "willing to move in fast" person until January for good will? Nahhh bad idea.
 quadmom

Joined: 11/6/2006
Msg: 127
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what if a guy wants to move in right off the bat after meeting you
Posted: 11/16/2006 4:18:54 PM
No. and if that hurts too much, "No, thank you."
 sun33

Joined: 4/10/2005
Msg: 128
what if a guy wants to move in right off the bat after meeting you
Posted: 11/16/2006 4:32:26 PM
uh...turn around..run and dont look back...sorry...but thats a lil to freaky
 Pink Rose Lady

Joined: 10/1/2006
Msg: 129
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what if a guy wants to move in right off the bat after meeting you
Posted: 11/16/2006 4:39:42 PM
I don't think so, just forget about it.
 Rhett1

Joined: 10/16/2005
Msg: 130
what if a guy wants to move in right off the bat after meeting you
Posted: 11/16/2006 4:55:24 PM
Run!

Who talks about moving in with someone right off the bat? He's probably got some major issues. He's more than likely looking for someone to take care of him.
 One Step At A Time

Joined: 8/25/2006
Msg: 131
what if a guy wants to move in right off the bat after meeting you
Posted: 11/16/2006 4:59:04 PM
^^^^^^^Exactly what she just said!!! Wow that's just insane..........
 bonniebrownap

Joined: 10/27/2006
Msg: 132
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what if a guy wants to move in right off the bat after meeting you
Posted: 11/16/2006 5:45:29 PM
How do you tell a person it is too soon to move in? IN PLAIN ENGLISH.
 tooltimetim

Joined: 9/17/2006
Msg: 133
what if a guy wants to move in right off the bat after meeting you
Posted: 11/16/2006 5:48:59 PM
I think he needs a place to stay and a good meal and maybe your DVD player will go missing
 mohummer

Joined: 6/9/2006
Msg: 134
what if a guy wants to move in right off the bat after meeting you
Posted: 11/16/2006 5:53:39 PM
Um... how 'bout this.. "No.. I think it's too soon..." :)
 litlemisscntbewrong

Joined: 9/16/2006
Msg: 135
what if a guy wants to move in right off the bat after meeting you
Posted: 11/21/2006 6:10:27 PM
OP: RUN LIKE HELL,,,,,,,,,,LOL,,,,,,
 Abulafia

Joined: 11/8/2006
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what if a guy wants to move in right off the bat after meeting you
Posted: 11/21/2006 6:17:05 PM
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 indigoeyes

Joined: 8/26/2006
Msg: 137
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what if a guy wants to move in right off the bat after meeting you
Posted: 11/21/2006 6:18:47 PM
OMG...flee in terror.
 cuteazabutton

Joined: 8/8/2006
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what if a guy wants to move in right off the bat after meeting you
Posted: 11/21/2006 6:53:03 PM

how do i tell him no i think its to soon i dont think im ready to move in with anyone i just got out of 14 year relatioship and have never been single in my life


You say it exactly the way u just said it in this quote that you made!!!!! Its obvious that youre a smart woman and most of the posters are being a little harsh on you but i think they are just looking out for your best interest so dont take it to heart. I believe in love at first sight or first talk as we put it on here but when it comes to a serious relationship with someone the first thing that comes to mind is "MY SONS". Not sure where this guy is from but u need to look into a bit more info on him before even thinking of dating him again too. Good Luck with your decision, we all hope u make the right one!!!!
 Mobella

Joined: 6/4/2006
Msg: 139
what if a guy wants to move in right off the bat after meeting you
Posted: 11/30/2006 8:01:41 AM
Yes. You should take this very seriously. Exit stage left.
 gtxblueyes

Joined: 1/4/2005
Msg: 140
what if a guy wants to move in right off the bat after meeting you
Posted: 11/30/2006 8:10:53 AM
I would hope all kinds of flags went up. The correct answer is No. not only No but He!! No.

 Letsgotoamovie

Joined: 11/26/2006
Msg: 141
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what if a guy wants to move in right off the bat after meeting you
Posted: 11/30/2006 8:13:38 AM
RRRRRUUUUUNNNNN, as fast and as far as you can!!~that is not a normal response.
 SinnamonTears

Joined: 8/6/2006
Msg: 142
what if a guy wants to move in right off the bat after meeting you
Posted: 11/30/2006 8:20:55 AM
Talk about a RED FLAG!!! What kind of feelings could he have in just five hours????Maybe he is looking for anthor sucker..to live off of , till he bleeds them dry while getting free bootie lol. Block him and never look back lol.
 saucysausage

Joined: 11/27/2006
Msg: 143
what if a guy wants to move in right off the bat after meeting you
Posted: 11/30/2006 8:28:58 AM
i would say run fast lol
 Who Knows_28

Joined: 8/29/2006
Msg: 144
what if a guy wants to move in right off the bat after meeting you
Posted: 12/14/2006 6:38:48 PM
Wheres my running sneakers????
 asp_industries

Joined: 11/20/2006
Msg: 145
what if a guy wants to move in right off the bat after meeting you
Posted: 12/14/2006 6:41:13 PM
um who does this?
 sassyaquarius

Joined: 4/10/2006
Msg: 146
what if a guy wants to move in right off the bat after meeting you
Posted: 12/14/2006 6:48:51 PM
I would think he's a bum who went trolling on POF to look for a warm bed as opposed to spending the evening in a hostile or shelter... and I really hope you said no.
 imyourgarden

Joined: 9/28/2006
Msg: 147
what if a guy wants to move in right off the bat after meeting you
Posted: 12/14/2006 6:49:57 PM
Honey if you have not run by now you have your push from many ppl on here... RUN and don't look back there are plenty of fish in the sea why settle on the bottom feeders...
 blue sunshine

Joined: 12/23/2005
Msg: 148
what if a guy wants to move in right off the bat after meeting you
Posted: 12/14/2006 7:43:04 PM
I pause, and then, I become silent.....and I probably don't reply anymore....I've had that happen before (albiet not often, LOL) and man, I can't think of anything that makes me get weirded out quicker than that. You know, he can even be the hottest guy and the sweetest guy ever, but talk of that moving in and combining families is just down right scary right off the bat!!! And, I must admit that the silent/running/no further replying IS probably not the best way to handle a situation like this..but, OP, I don't feel like I'm emotionally closed off, realistic and skeerd, heh, but not emotionally closed off!! So, I don't think you are either....
 dr poppi

Joined: 11/8/2006
Msg: 149
what if a guy wants to move in right off the bat after meeting you
Posted: 1/28/2007 1:40:55 PM
He's either homeless, or out on the lamb and needs to hide. Run in the other direction. I love my pad, and my time alone. Even after dating for awhile, it would take sometime awfully profound (on both sides) to make that committment!

Run, Run away very fast, like the cops are coming for ya, cuase they must be coming for him!
 LT_Dish

Joined: 8/15/2006
Msg: 150
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what if a guy wants to move in right off the bat after meeting you
Posted: 1/28/2007 2:09:22 PM
OH MY GOD.
Tell him to take a hike! There's nothing wrong with you except your self doubt. Don't make the mistake of "love at first sight." This is the real world honey, and no sane person let's a stranger move in with them.
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