M2k7
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Joined: 1/18/2007
Msg: 151 | |
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| what if a guy wants to move in right off the bat after meeting you
Posted: 1/28/2007 2:55:49 PM | Is this a serious question OP?
What do you really think?
This sounds as creepy as some of the scam emails that I've received from guys in Nigeria and other places. In the very first emails from these guys they talk about how much they're in love with me, want to marry me, want me to be a mother to their kids, want to relocate to my city, and so on and so on.
Go with your intuition. If you feel rushed, creeped out and pressured, then say and do what you need to, to get out of the situation.
Good Luck.
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sudeki
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Joined: 9/30/2006
Msg: 154 | |
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| what if a guy wants to move in right off the bat after meeting you
Posted: 1/28/2007 5:59:50 PM | being a guy and seeing some of my friends say that to a couple girls they know. They were looking for more of a mother figure and not a gf per say. I think a guy should be able to live on his own for some time and really get to know the girl and actually see if it will work. I mean its not that you cant spend a night or two at there place but just dont take off saying i want to move in with you right away.
It throws some girls or guys off right off the bat and throws up some defences. | |
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| what if a guy wants to move in right off the bat after meeting you
Posted: 1/28/2007 8:19:35 PM | He is homeless and looking for you to take care of him. Even if he has an apartment, he only got it to pass time in between girlfriends (care givers) . He'll quickly break his lease to live with you, he grabs a few belongings and off he goes to play house with you. From there he will mess with your mind while you pay his bills and feed him, wash his laundry (and be sure to fold his socks just so) He'll tell you how he does everything for you while he lays comfortably on your sofa.
He'll act like a deviant teenager rebelling against his mommy. He'll cheat on you and spend your money.
Ahhh the joys of the one's who want to move in after 5 minutes of meeting. | |
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| what if a guy wants to move in right off the bat after meeting you
Posted: 1/28/2007 8:36:01 PM | | I know a girl that fell in love got married in 6 mos...2 years later she was $20,ooo in debt ( he had no credit) all in her name,(his name Ken) got divorced, devasted,and emotionally a wreck! He is now on to his next victom. Learn from this!!!!!!!!!! She will never trust again!!!!! | |
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| what if a guy wants to move in right off the bat after meeting you
Posted: 1/28/2007 9:01:21 PM |
From there he will mess with your mind while you pay his bills and feed him, wash his laundry (and be sure to fold his socks just so) He'll tell you how he does everything for you while he lays comfortably on your sofa. He'll act like a deviant teenager rebelling against his mommy. He'll cheat on you and spend your money
Oh I see you've met my ex. | |
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Tarika
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Joined: 8/30/2006
Msg: 163 | |
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| what if a guy wants to move in right off the bat after meeting you
Posted: 2/1/2007 5:33:20 AM | Sure, pack your stuff and get a place together as soon as you can!!!! 5 Hours is more than enough time to know someone. Hell, at 4 hours you should be picking out curtains together and comparing appropriate paint swatches..
As if!!!!!!! Personally, Id run like hell, 5 hours is just a little too quick to be telling anyone you love them! For me that would be "RED FLAG RED FLAG" written all over it! | |
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| what if a guy wants to move in right off the bat after meeting you
Posted: 2/1/2007 6:07:49 AM | | If a guy says that he loves u and wants to move in right off the bat. thats a red flag and is quiet scary and is a turn off i think. I think that there rushing things and u should definitly say no. i had a an ex try that with me and i just kept putting it off. it made me feel like he was trying to trap me i dident understand how he knew he loved me the first day that he met me, it was almost like he just wanted to settle for anything that to him searching for the right girl would take to long. definitly do not let someone move in right off the bat and if the bring it up just look for warning signs of a real loser!!! | |
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| what if a guy wants to move in right off the bat after meeting you
Posted: 2/1/2007 6:21:07 AM | | I really cant belive your even thinking about it what could you know about this man after 5 hrs?you better back up and take a long look he cant be right to ask such a question and my question is why would you even think about it you know nothing about this person sounds like a wreck waiting to happen say no no no!!!!!!!!!! | |
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diit
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Joined: 12/26/2006
Msg: 173 | |
| what if a guy wants to move in right off the bat after meeting you
Posted: 2/1/2007 7:49:38 PM | | I'd figure he had only a few days to find a place to live.... and is perhaps already in a hotel or sleeping in his car. No matter how wonderful you are, no one in their right mind can figure this out and want to move into your home, all in the first half day of knowing you. | |
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| what if a guy wants to move in right off the bat after meeting you
Posted: 2/1/2007 7:59:29 PM | He's broke and homeless. Either has no job or wanting someone to support him so he can quite working. He most likely is younger than you and has lived with older women before. He could even be living with one now and knows he is about to get kicked out. Run and run fast. He is using you and will leave you with nothing including your self esteam. Remember, no real man truely falls that fast no matter who you are. | |
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