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Din-Da
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Joined: 2/7/2007
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| what if a guy wants to move in right off the bat after meeting you
Posted: 2/21/2007 11:51:51 AM | Some times you meet people that are just:heart you: and want some one right away.....believe it or not it does work...but very very seldom....meeting and wanting to move in right away is just a .....think about...I would say kinda needy right.... I don't think running for your life is the answer.....but buddy ssllooww down and like they say smell the roses.....get to know ohhh I don't know at least there last name....this is the first time a ever attempted one of these......so that's it from me....been there done that.....omg that's right I am single....again : keep it simple....stupid lol | |
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| what if a guy wants to move in right off the bat after meeting you
Posted: 2/22/2007 12:53:53 PM | I would say Run VERY quickly away.....
I actually can even do one better one of my friends( female) met a guy. He moved in within a month. We all told her she was nuts.
There were plenty of warning signs..this guy was a BS artist.
He said his car was being fixed on their first date could she drive( shock of all shocks-NO CAR)
He kept using a nickname instead of a real name, Then he told her what his name was & gave a fake middle name( found this out because he ended up in a hospital)
Kept saying he was starting a new job.. Just left his old one
By the way on a side note I hate when people talk about what they USED to do.
and what they are about to do--- NOT what they ARE DOING NOW!!!! Always a red flag.
I could go on ,but you all get the idea.
She did a background check on him because of his erratic behavior
Arrested 2 times for drugs.
Has 2 restaining orders agains him by 2 different women...
Lets just say We are glad she got rid of him before something bad happened | |
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| what if a guy wants to move in right off the bat after meeting you
Posted: 2/23/2007 5:10:10 AM | This is a True story .. it really did happen. Please READ .. this could happen to you ..
I had a friend.. who met a guy online.. they wrote online and spoke on the phone everyday.. they knew each other for four months. They met .. and started dating.. After two months.. He wanted to pack up and move in with her. She had her reservations about that.. So she told him .. she thought it was too soon.. He said he didn't understand why ? and got angry .. She tried to explain .. He left.. angry.. Three days later.. she was DEAD.. found in her home .. stabbed 20 times.. He waited until she went to work.. broke into her home.. cut the phone lines and the electric.. sat in the dark .. waiting for her to return from work.. So Yes .. if I guy wants to move in that quickly .. right off the bat.. RUN .. RUN as I have said.. Something is wrong.. | |
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| what if a guy wants to move in right off the bat after meeting you
Posted: 2/23/2007 5:21:36 AM | I am sorry to hear that about your friend, theone4u2. There are also many incidents of people getting fleeced financially by online partners.
I had one guy on here who started chatting with me.... and every time, as soon as I logged in on MSN, he was right there, talking.... this was before you could log in as "appear offline" This went on for a couple of weeks..... and by the end of week two, he was telling me he loved me, etc. etc. etc...... and we had not even met me yet. I blocked him, and reported him for stalking.... and I got another email from him a few days later, under a different profile name... I reported him again, and after that, he finally left me alone.
Very scarey individual...... so as many others have said...... RUN! RUN! RUN........ as fast as you can!
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CTR916
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Joined: 11/27/2006
Msg: 213 | |
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a1na2
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Joined: 10/3/2006
Msg: 214 | |
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| what if a guy wants to move in right off the bat after meeting you
Posted: 2/23/2007 10:20:03 AM | Run..Run Fast...He knows your soft Why don you think He picked You ! If you can't face talking to him because you don't want to feel like your hurting him...don't talk, just run.
Think of it this way....He survived before you were in His life and He'll survive after you in His life. | |
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| what if a guy wants to move in right off the bat after meeting you
Posted: 2/23/2007 10:36:23 AM | LOL... Lets see... it seems to me, the gentleman in question is:
A) Just getting out of prison... lol. he needs somewhere to crash until his old lady takes him back
B) Has a whole nother family in another city... this way, he can just 'work out of town' a lot
C) Homeless
D) Completely nuts
Whichever the case may be, I totally think you should move in with him. I mean, really, Everyone needs to shake it up a bit sometimes, right? LOL | |
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kk42
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Joined: 1/18/2006
Msg: 221 | |
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| what if a guy wants to move in right off the bat after meeting you
Posted: 2/27/2007 11:53:48 AM | | well im not a girl but i'd be alittle scared don't you think thats alittle too soon, it's not like you've even gone out with him let alone done anything with him and he already wants to move in one of two things come to my mind this guy falls in love real easy, maybe he's a moucher or maybe he hasn't gotten laid in a long time whatever it is i would play it safe | |
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