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ya472
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Joined: 4/29/2006
Msg: 27 | |
| When she complained about the toilet seat, is it over ?.
Posted: 10/16/2006 10:14:36 PM | I just remembered an interesting situation where the woman wanted both the seat and lid left up, so her pets could drink 'fresh water'.
I dind't understunnd.
edit ^^^(msg26) my thought exactly.... lol | |
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| When she complained about the toilet seat, is it over ?.
Posted: 10/16/2006 10:23:05 PM | | How come we have to put the seat down for them but they don't have to put it up for us? We should have taken a much harder stand on this when women first came up with this stuff about us putting the seat down. Nobody to blame but ourselves guys. | |
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| When she complained about the toilet seat, is it over ?.
Posted: 10/16/2006 11:01:23 PM | How come we have to put the seat down for them but they don't have to put it up for us? We should have taken a much harder stand on this when women first came up with this stuff about us putting the seat down. Nobody to blame but ourselves guys.
It's not to be polite. It's because we end up with wet ass if we go in there on a midnight run.
And my animals drink out of the toilet as well. :) | |
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| When she complained about the toilet seat, is it over ?.
Posted: 10/16/2006 11:45:39 PM | | If i go in the middle of the night, i generally sit down because i dont want to turn on the light and blind myself. not once in my 37 year shave i ever fallen in or "forgot" to put down the seat before i sat down | |
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| When she complained about the toilet seat, is it over ?.
Posted: 10/17/2006 12:11:34 AM | That would be because your putting the seat down is not usual for you. (I assume.)
For us, if it's usually down, we don't think about it. I would never pick a fight about it. I was just answering the question that was asked about why you should have to lower it if we don't have to raise it.
Considering you shit sitting down, we pee and shit sitting down. Majority of the toilet's use is with the seat down. Majority rules. Now quit your bitching.
second off if your too stupid to put the seat down, you deserve a wet ass.
I've nothing to discuss with someone who doesn't see the irony in "your too stupid." | |
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| When she complained about the toilet seat, is it over ?.
Posted: 10/17/2006 1:07:28 AM | message 10 that what my bf and I argue sometimes I tell him to put the seat down he tells me the toilet seat is wet with water argggg, you see what happens when I wash my hands some water sprinkle on the seat before I wipe it and he hates it, so I gues we even. | |
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| When she complained about the toilet seat, is it over ?.
Posted: 10/17/2006 2:29:59 AM |
It's not to be polite. It's because we end up with wet ass if we go in there on a midnight run.
I'm usually really good about putting the seat down and do try to help out the ladies, but one question looms in my mind..... how come women don't look down before they sit? Simply looking down at the toilet would eliminate wet asses forever. | |
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| When she complained about the toilet seat, is it over ?.
Posted: 10/17/2006 3:38:50 AM | Depends OP - when you complain about her using your razor to shave her legs, is it over?
This is all dependent on the people in the relationship. Are they tolerant or not. Compromise goes a long way
From my own female perspective, really dont care about the toilet lid. If its up I simply put it down. Not a big deal He has to use it too and he has to put it up, which = same amount of effort all 'round I would say. | |
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| When she complained about the toilet seat, is it over ?.
Posted: 10/17/2006 7:01:00 AM | and the bit about "she can too", well, she can open doors for herself too, and maybe even pull seat out for you when you take her out to dinner! but its just so uncharming and unromantic!
Honestly, I agree. However, would you **** at your man for not paying attention and missing the opportunity to open a door or pull the seat out? Romantic gestures are best when they are intentional, not automatic. That's my opinion, anyway. I try to do the gentleman deed all the time, but sometimes I forget.
And it really makes no sense to me why a woman would not look at toilet before they sit on it. I've asked once, and figured I'll never get it; so do my best to lower it. You can bet I'm lowering the lid also. It does look better, and if she wants to sit down and find out she sat on a lid, needs to get up and raise it, then sit back again... maybe she'll start to look first and not get upset if I forgot to put it down one time.
As for using my razor, I always rinse it out first anyway. Besides, I like a woman's legs on my face 
But I agree with those that have said big arguments about this are about other things. It often reveals emotional issues that she or you have. Paying attention to each other and the interaction around the toilet seat arrangement discussion, is far more important than paying attention to the toilet seat itself. | |
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| When she complained about the toilet seat, is it over ?.
Posted: 10/17/2006 7:12:13 AM | Doesn't anyone turn on the bathroom light?
And even if they don't, is it not common sense to "use your hand to quickly see if the lid is down?
I mean the blind do it, duh.
Quite frankly it's not my fault if someone falls into the toilet at night.
I don't just randomly start pissing in the dark without first checking to make sure the lid is "UP."
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| When she complained about the toilet seat, is it over ?.
Posted: 10/17/2006 7:12:55 AM | | At 3 in the morning I'm sleepy and since I expect it to be down I plop down on it, since I don't have extra padding plopping means going down hard on the ceramic rim and in the water.....mmm..... that's what you call a rude awakening. | |
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| When she complained about the toilet seat, is it over ?.
Posted: 10/17/2006 7:12:59 AM | It sounds to me like she wasnt complaining about the toilet seat at all...
She was unhappy with the relationship, unhappy with you, because she was unable to talk about it, she displaced her anger and began nit picking at things that werent really important. The toilet seat argument was just a cover, she was really arguing about your relationship. | |
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EB1
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Joined: 7/31/2006
Msg: 43 | |
| When she complained about the toilet seat, is it over ?.
Posted: 10/17/2006 7:14:22 AM | I was just going to write almost the same but MB beat me to it.
How do you fall to a toilet?
Has never happened to me. I have to turn the light switch on before I use the bathroom.
Oh Jesus God, this is one thing that I never understand. Up or down, does it really matter? | |
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| When she complained about the toilet seat, is it over ?.
Posted: 10/17/2006 7:33:34 AM | None of my ladies ever had an issue with the toilet seat...I always lowered it after use. Replaced the bum paper too, rinsed this bathtub after my shower, always placed dirty laundry in hamper, etc...
Not very hard to do right.
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ya472
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Joined: 4/29/2006
Msg: 46 | |
| When she complained about the toilet seat, is it over ?.
Posted: 10/17/2006 8:58:47 AM | Msg #42
The toilet seat argument was just a cover, she was really arguing about your relationship.
Nice pun. lol
And it is 'just a cover', where I religiously try to be considerate, but like all things, sometimes I forget. (and maybe it wasn't me who forgot either! )
I really didn't see the point of the 'argument', because she could have just reminded me without the emotional texture.
And, I genuinely see the point of a woman being so very considerate, as to NOT turning on the light, in the middle of the night, in the ensuite. But her two hands are not 'blind'.
Anyway, it has taught me nothing, because in subsequent dating relationships, when the woman starts to 'emotionally complain' about little things, I have tried to figure out if I did something wrong, it it is really a hormone-related (period) rant, or if she really is just a bit-ch.
I am still single. LOL | |
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| When she complained about the toilet seat, is it over ?.
Posted: 10/17/2006 9:17:26 AM | Sounds more like a control issue that stemmed from a feeling of not being appreciated. ..................
If it was not the seat it would be the socks on the floor, the dishes in the sink that were not put in the dishwasher, the soap,the toothpaste, etc...
The real problem is that communication is not valued and/or feelings honored.
That's when adults begin to behave like children... | |
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| When she complained about the toilet seat, is it over ?.
Posted: 10/17/2006 12:56:06 PM | IMO If you cant talk about your problems in a rational and OPEN!!!!!!!!! way then maybe you shouldnt be in a relationship. I dont like how our relationship is going so im going to be a b*tch and nit pick about everything thats irritating about your behavior...To me this sounds like a bad person.
I HAVE sat down when im half asleep and almost gotten a wet ass......The difference is I BLAME MYSELF FOR NOT NOTICING....Women blame EVERYONE BUT THEMSELVES!!! | |
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