| 45 is it to old?
Posted: 10/9/2007 10:01:00 AM | | Gwen, I'm 46 and loving every minute of it! You must be careful though! Alot of younger guys are looking for someone to support them. Not all but alot of them! You have the choice of making life what you want it to be! Sooooooooo with that said! Girl take life by the horns and never look back cause the future is where it's at! | |
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| 45 is it to old?
Posted: 10/9/2007 10:04:49 PM |
Gwen, you yhink its hard at your age ?wait untill your my age 57 . id rather be turned down because im ugly than be told im too old.
Noodle, are you crazy? Surely no one turns you down!!!!!
I am 50 and having a ball. I once worked for a lady (she was director of the children's home we worked at) who said the over 50 has been the best time of her life, she was in her 60's at the time. | |
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| 45 is it to old?
Posted: 10/10/2007 9:07:41 AM | My eyes and joints don't work so well any more and I'm not any taller than I was in college but the women still want "tall and athletic" no matter how short they are. I guess they figure brains don't work as well in thinner air and "simpler" is easier to manipulate.
I still don't like the smell of tobacco but most women on POF smoke. I guess at 45, it still hasn't killed them yet.
I'm still not drinking near enough to keep up with most on POF but I have no plans to drink more or hang out in smoke filled bars drinking and lying.
I still have kids at home but women this age want their "freedom" and some clearly hate kids. Some say they will accept men with kids only if they abandon them but they demand integrity, honesty, and loyality????????
The women seem no more honest now than when younger, still play social games with men, and don't want men to be honest with them: "Does it make me look fat?" "Which of my friends is most attractive" etc.
Maybe 45 is still too immature for many U.S. women.
A relative of mine married a foreign doctor. After a few years for her to become licensed in the US, they now live in twice the house I have and are looking to move up...again. I just got a letter from an attractive foreign doctor who read my profile. Maybe it's time to learn another language even at my age although her English was better than most I see on POF and I don't see near that level of education.
Sorry this post is not full of the gushing platitudes demanded by the thread title but I don't do the player games women seem to thrive on and I guess honesty has to win occasionally.
Was I supposed to say something about looks?
Negativity out of the system. I'm off to the outdoors. Sailing season is back and camping season has begun. The river was up and the float trip with the scouts a blast. The college game I attended this weekend was excellent with a one point difference and I had connections to both teams! Life is good even without someone my age to share it with. Maybe a doctor could help with the aches and pains of the fun.
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| 45 is it to old?
Posted: 10/10/2007 1:44:13 PM | | I think 45 is a great age actually. By then, women know what they want and are a little more inclined to be comfortable sharing it with you. Life is too short to not tell your partner (or potential partner) what you like, love and hate. | |
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| 45 is it to old?
Posted: 10/11/2007 1:57:20 AM | 45 is not too old. 45 is quite young. 45 year old ladies are yummy.
Oh heck, they are all yummy at any age.
OOOoops! I was thinking out loud.
It is a state of mind. And I love these ladies minds!
Cookies & Milk for all the ladies over 45!
Much love and respect,  | |
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| 45 is it to old?
Posted: 10/11/2007 6:21:48 AM | Takes cookies and milk from Vangogh357 , yummy....but ummm rather have Sangria with him.
Some days you feel older some days younger **shrugs** | |
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| 45 is it to old?
Posted: 10/11/2007 8:25:12 PM | You can be young at any age. Age is mostly in the mind. I prefer to live life with the wisdom I have earned and the outlook of many more fun times to be had. | |
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| 45 is it too old?
Posted: 10/24/2007 2:45:00 PM | | Thought I would share a GREAT email I received today on this very subject.A 22 yr old man ask if he could date me and said,"I wouldnt mind dating and OLD person",Now was this a typo,did he mean OLDER person?? LOL Just made me laugh. | |
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| 45 is it too old?
Posted: 10/25/2007 4:51:50 PM | | Im 44 and I dont have a full head of hair anymore. But other than that Im just fine. Any ladies on here attracted to partly bald guys? Lets chat. | |
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| 45 is it too old?
Posted: 10/26/2007 3:07:54 PM |
Any ladies on here attracted to partly bald guys? Lets chat.
I'll be 46 sooner than I care to mention and have pleeeeeeeeeeeeeeeenty of hair to share Badmane! Come and get it!  | |
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| 45 is it to old?
Posted: 10/26/2007 4:25:48 PM | I'm only 31, but if I were 45, and single...I couldn't see any reason why someone just didn't deserve to be loved all the same. I mean, why should it matter if you're 25 or 85, you're human with emotions and the capacity of love...so why not find it? I wish you luck on here! -hugs-
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| 45 is it to old?
Posted: 10/27/2007 9:22:01 AM | Badman you should know when i was younger the man of my dreams was Telly ....
and the first man on here I ever met was bald, I knew it from our emails and trading pics. He is a sweetie.
I also work with a cutie who shaved his head and is adorable. He is only 35 an is trying to hide his hair line. He is HOT...
Oh and can we start a thread for over 50 ?????? I too am enjoying life more now ....
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| 45 is it to old?
Posted: 10/27/2007 6:20:54 PM | | If it is ....I'm a dead man! I turned 61 in April. I can do and have the desire to do anything I could at 40. My last gfriend still has her eyes crossed, she is 46. It depends on the man....sometimes 40 is too old or maybe even 37. I mean who knows when our time is up? Live everyday like it's your last! Still going strong | |
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| 45 is it to old?
Posted: 10/29/2007 5:16:09 PM | I'm too old to hand out candy on the 31st LOL, I would rather eat it :)
Of course it wasn't hitting the 45 mark that made me that way.
I think it is just being a woman and I need that candy high......
Dark Chocolate!!!! | |
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| 45 is it to old?
Posted: 11/7/2007 4:15:24 PM | | I am 47 and loving it...My kids are own their own, I have a good job that keeps me busy and if I want to go out and do something there is no looking for a babysitter...lol. I think age is what you make of it. I feel younger than I am, I take care of myself and just plain ole enjoy life. I can hang with a young crowd, a crowd in my age group or those older than me, it doesn't matter. | |
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| 45 is it to old?
Posted: 11/7/2007 4:55:06 PM | | Well if 45 is too old, Id better get out the old rocking chair and some dominoes. Guess Id better start looking for a retirement home. Thanks made my nite. | |
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| 45 is it to old?
Posted: 11/8/2007 2:16:26 PM | Noooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooope.. 45 is not too old. That includes all categories... mentally/physically.  | |
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| 45 is it to old?
Posted: 11/9/2007 6:53:28 AM | | 45+ is too old to have good excuses for being stupid. Note to self: redefine stupid......done. Now I can have fun again. | |
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| 45 is it to old?
Posted: 11/14/2007 5:03:50 AM | Some lived and learned advice. Life begins at 40 or at least did for me. Before i was 40 life controlled me, after 40 i controlled life. Now that i am 51 i am living a life to where i realized i really never got oloder, i got better looking and my brain is still 16 and groovy like the good ol days.
Bubba | |
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| 45 is it to old?
Posted: 11/27/2007 1:23:17 PM | | I am 58 and often find that I am told I am too old. Later, on the dance floor, I am informed that I act and perform like I was 17. Yes, I can do "dirty dancing" just like Patrick Swayze in the movie, "Dirty Dancing!" For me, it is simple, love does not know age!!! It is a matter of attraction. Give them something to think about and they might change their minds!!! | |
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| 45 is it to old?
Posted: 11/28/2007 6:07:33 PM | My Grandfather got remarried for his last time when he was in his upper 60's. About 67.
I am about to turn 45 this Dec.. I worry about how many years I have left in me to please a companion. I am old fashioned which means I don't have sex with every loose woman that looks my way. I believe in Love first. So that means for last 8 years... Well the words you don't use it you lose it plagues my mind..
So I do worry about growing older each year. I wonder how many years an average man has in him. These things I've never considered to even contemplate looking into. Its something that is forbidden from my younger Generation. Sex was a secret when I was a child.
Though I am turning 45, I don't feel like I am too old. I can still ride, heck when we get off of the horses my 21 complains about being sore and I feel great. I can't run any more, but I can walk 20 miles easy.
Three of my cousins when they hit 40 broke down and cried. Everyone figured I would too. So far it hasn't happened, I don't feel over the hill any. I look ahead and go, "Heck Grandfather was 67 when he got married." I keep waiting for the 40's thing to up and smack the side of my head.
I feel loneliness a lot, but heck I been all alone since 1999 and I was only like 36 back then. So between age 36 to 45.. I don't see a difference. So I have to say no it isn't too old. Might ask me again in 5 years if 50 is too old. Who knows, I sure don't. | |
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| 45 is it to old?
Posted: 12/6/2007 7:08:30 AM | Gwen,
You are absolute doll....if you decide to spend some time with an older man, let me be the first to know. | |
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| 45 is it to old?
Posted: 3/1/2008 5:33:31 PM | | If 45 is being old then Im in big trouble. I will be 45 in September of 2008. Anybody want a old man? | |
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| 45 is it to old?
Posted: 3/1/2008 11:03:12 PM | | too late for me Badmane.... I hit 46 last november... guess I'm done for now! Oh well! | |
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