| Will you give up the personals if you find one that sticks??
Posted: 10/17/2006 2:15:27 PM | | I agree with you kitkit33. I would want myself and that someone special to mutually agree that we want to be exclusive, and that we're removing our profile(s) from internet dating sites completely, or note on our profile(s) that we've met someone and will only be making friends, or participating in forums. | |
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| Will you give up the personals if you find one that sticks??
Posted: 10/17/2006 2:22:14 PM | I do appreciate each and every comment on here...I would sing praises for the forums if we all knew there will be someone for everyone. May all find peace and Harmony within this little box. For the record...I would drop this place in a heartbeat... | |
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| Will you give up the personals if you find one that sticks??
Posted: 10/17/2006 6:55:28 PM | I did it.
Removed the profile based on the fact that I was committed to taking the relationship to a deeper level.
How is it possible to be continually adding "favorites" to your profile and spend time
mis-representing yourself to others while stating you want a deeper connection and the LTR with another.
If you really, really desire a LTR then it truly takes time, energy and focus on that special person.
The time you waste stringing others along would be simply wrong.
Karma, has a way of presenting itself to those that wish to challenge it.
What is more satisfying........???
the little adrenaline rush one might acheive in the 'game of chase' with few/many
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putting your efforts into a true meaningful relationship with one ?
Give up all connections to sites, less temptation, we are afterall human.
My question remains when do you drop your profile ??
Maybe I jumped the gun so too speak but, that was what was comfortable for me.
Ohhhh and when did perfection and men come into the same sentence - yikes !
Never seen it and not sure I want to either.
Imperfections are what makes us - us.
I myself,when I was looking , was seeking the perfect fit for me, not perfection.
Here's to removing profiles/personal ads and doing the right thing.
Some of us do have a conscience. | |
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| Will you give up the personals if you find one that sticks??
Posted: 10/17/2006 7:07:55 PM | i would give up my friends on here ,gladly for a true honest man,one who could commit to me>>otherwise..why do you need other woman to share things with..having friends in person,is a bit different...but on here its easy to get caught up in fantasty..the man i met,on here said he wanted a relationship,but wanted his lady friends on here.i guess i was not thinking right..so he has his lady friends on here and we longer chat..yes i feel empty..but if and when you talk long term with one person you need to concentrate on that one person...and why take a chanse for a one night stand when you have the man or woman of your dreams in your bed??good luck all... | |
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| Will you give up the personals if you find one that sticks??
Posted: 10/17/2006 7:29:45 PM | If seeing someone exclusively.......A mutual agreement of on or off the sites!!!
If there is nothing to hide or that will hurt each other then ok....know each others passwords to every site both of u are on! If the two of you TOTALLY trust each other, then don't give passwords. Make a statement that you are with someone and are only here for the friends you've made and forums.
Or both of u totally off the sites!!
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| Will you give up the personals if you find one that sticks??
Posted: 10/17/2006 8:27:15 PM | Yes I would. The point of my being here is to find someone, and once I do it will have served it's purpose and there would be no more reason to be here. The only reason to continue would be as a back-up, in case someting better came along, and I don't play that game.
Friends with benefits is overrated.
In the meantime you POFers are stuck with me  | |
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| Will you give up the personals if you find one that sticks??
Posted: 10/18/2006 6:55:52 PM | | Yes I would without reservation. If you are lucky enough to find a person that you connect with, why in the world would you keep looking, knowing what you went through to finally find that person, and take a chance on ruining it? And then have to start from square one again. Its the same thing as being engaged to a woman, and then going out with another woman and having drinks. Something might happen or it might not, andthen what happens when your fiance finds out? Duh!!!! Everyone else can keep their "friends with benefits". I will keep the person that means the world to me and not look back!!! | |
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| Will you give up the personals if you find one that sticks??
Posted: 10/18/2006 7:27:51 PM | | Yes I would give it up. It consumes so much time I don't really have now, that I can't imagne having time for it if I found someone. I would no longer be interested in visiting all those hot spots I frequent now. As my life changes, I may not have time for it anyways. | |
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cassyd
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Joined: 10/10/2006
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| Will you give up the personals if you find one that sticks??
Posted: 11/21/2006 4:32:40 AM | | If I found that special someone, I would hope that they would understand that the only reasopn I would go into the sites would be to gain more friends, if there are deep fellings for the other person, odds are that I wouldn't go into the sites. | |
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| Will you give up the personals if you find one that sticks??
Posted: 11/23/2006 3:51:29 PM |
yup men will continue to try to pick up and flirt with other women regardless if their with someone, its just a fact of life.
Sorry that's been your experience thus far, but I assure you not all of us are like that. | |
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Joined: 2/27/2006
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| Will you give up the personals if you find one that sticks??
Posted: 11/23/2006 5:39:46 PM | | I sure would that's why I am on here to begin with.I would love to find the one to get me off of this site,that would feel so good to know that I found someone, so I could delete this profile...to be honest I don't really like talking to someone on the computer that much ,but I know that's where it has to start,I would much rather use the phone or better yet there nothing better that face to face communication! | |
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| Will you give up the personals if you find one that sticks??
Posted: 11/23/2006 9:22:24 PM | I think that you should give up the personals if your starting a relationship and if they dont you know that they dont truly care about you and beleive me i know from experience if i a guy cant give up talking to other chicks he aint even worth the time of day because he wants his cake and wants to eat it too  sick of users personally cause thats all they are | |
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