| Re: Whats wrong with sex based relationships?
Posted: 5/6/2004 8:01:31 PM | | Sex-based relationships are good until one of you wants something more. My ex-girlfriend kept trying to get me to go into jewelry stores to look for rings. I finally told her I was not ever going to marry her. I may be a scuzball for saying that, but at least I was honest enough not to lead her on. | |
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alura2
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Joined: 3/18/2004
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| Re: Whats wrong with sex based relationships?
Posted: 5/7/2004 12:43:34 PM | ummm owwwch bird!!!
and yup.. making love to someone that you love is sooo much better..its like you WANT to make the ohter person feel good.
a fuk buddy..its get the job done..get satisfied..... see you next month..... | |
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| Re: Whats wrong with sex based relationships?
Posted: 5/7/2004 7:41:18 PM | | Yes, I used to be a mean person. I am 99% sure that the phrase "I love you" will not ever come out of my mouth with real meaning. But I also won't say it to get some. Just sex for me, no more relationships! Oh crap, I think I may be jinxing myself, but what the heck. It's the truth. | |
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rjn40
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Joined: 2/15/2004
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rjn40
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alura2
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Joined: 3/18/2004
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| Re: Whats wrong with sex based relationships?
Posted: 5/10/2004 10:29:08 AM | IIIIIMMMHEEEERRREE!!!!
AWWWW DID U MISS ME???? ok heres the deiao.... i post at work on lunch and quiet times..and i dont work weekeends.I dont have a comp at home...or id be posting or in chat till 6 am lol...
and see u next month meant hey fuk budee that was great see u next month.. ect... | |
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alura2
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Joined: 3/18/2004
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Asoka
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Joined: 7/15/2004
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| Re: Whats wrong with sex based relationships?
Posted: 7/15/2004 9:44:43 PM | I totally disagree only someone on drugs speaks that garbage.
'Whats wrong with having a relationship that is just good sex. When the sex goes bad, just move on. Why do women always want more than that?"
I would agree sex is very important in any serious relationship,after all do you want to share your bed with someone for the rest of your life even the though you can't enjoy the sex? God no.In a relationship sex is away of showing your feelings for one another and if both partners don't enjoy it something is wrong in the relationship most likely and it doesn't always have to be due to the sex in itself.Sex is an important part in any relationship however it isn't the only important thing,there also has to be love,understanding,being there for one another,compramize etc.
Outside of a relationship sex is simply bang bang thank you mam.
Who the hell wants to be single forever though?
A relationship based just on sex takes you no where.Chances are if a relationship is just based on sex,he/she is banging several other people too,which means she or he may be enjoying it more with other people and just making you think you're special when you're not.
Most women want to feel special is this not true?
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| Re: Whats wrong with sex based relationships?
Posted: 8/26/2004 3:44:41 PM | | Pal you should go back to school or talk with your parents. No one "makes (sic: "us") lie, cheat or steal ... you choose to do it and you are responsible for you own actions no one else. In a good relationship, one well grounded in love and respect sex finds it's place amid the chores and the laughter. | |
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| Re: Whats wrong with sex based relationships?
Posted: 8/26/2004 5:16:15 PM | Good morning from aussie land..... wow what a topic ..... just put my specs on to answer this one (laughing)
Ok when I was first seperated I met up with a guy around 47yrs and he called it a special relationship..... he would come up every weekend and yes have a three day weekend of sex and oh the lovely words that came out of his mouth.... your beautiful your a special one your children are wonderful.... god I love you little one..... (BLA BLA).
then he went back to work and he call to say its your turn next weekend (MY TURN) yes viewers what I didnt know was he had a woman every weekend lol...... But his words was he was hunting for gold coins but he has to try out the silver ones to see if they make gold coins (HAHA)
It became a relationship of sex from him but what he was not doing was telling them he was trying before buying (laughing) But oh dear his life crumbled before him all ladies fell in love with him and wanted more visits.... Oh dear whats he do now...... Well he found more ladies to replace the ladies until some ladies turned up at his address and omg look out jerry springer... (Laughing)
As for me caught him at it .... and guess who told the other ladies.... who happen to all go to the same chat room on msn chat lol...... revenge is sweet.......
I dont disagree on sexuall relationships as long as they are upfront and dont lie about it and if I was any normal woman I would hire a gigalow for sex because if I wanted someone in my life it would be built on a solid relationship of friendship first..... HEY its ok to say no on the first date...... But if you crumble in sexual desire lol...... don't make promises you cant keep lol. | |
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| Re: Whats wrong with sex based relationships?
Posted: 8/29/2004 8:08:22 PM | I think its entirely possible to have a sex based relationship, however that's different from having a loving relationship. In a loving relationship sex is like a bonus. I contain within myself the ability to love others, but I can also have joyful lusty sex without feeling love for the other person. I'm not saying I wouldn't care about the other person, but its different from being in love.
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| Re: Whats wrong with sex based relationships?
Posted: 8/31/2004 2:26:45 PM |
SON SAYS: Daddy, how was I born?
DAD SAYS: Ah, well, my son, one day you will need to find out anyway...
Mom and dad got together in a chat room on MSN. Dad set up a date via e-mail with your mom and we met at a cybercafe. We sneaked into a secluded room, and then your mother downloaded from dad's memory stick. As soon as dad was ready for an upload, it was discovered that neither one of us had used a firewall. Since it was too late to hit the delete button, nine months later you, the blessed little Vincent the Virus appeared. And that's the story.
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alura2
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Joined: 3/18/2004
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| Re: Whats wrong with sex based relationships?
Posted: 8/31/2004 2:30:40 PM | ahahha my parents still dotn know the full story of how my bf and i met...they just think i met him on a merritt site..wich is umm well kinda true..I MET HIM RIGHT HERE ON LOVELY PLENTY!!
i dont think they would like the fact that i am on dating sites at work lol. considering i work for the family business heheheeheheheheheh | |
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Leeana
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Joined: 5/30/2004
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| Re: Whats wrong with sex based relationships?
Posted: 8/31/2004 10:38:21 PM | Dude, what ISN'T wrong with them? I know this thread is old, and APPARENTLY you just did this as a jest, well why would you want to get people pissed off anyway? I mean think about it; saying something like that in the first place isn't going to make you very well-liked with some of the women here. By the way, you should think about coming up with better come-backs than "I was referring to men with balls" or whatever, because that's just childish.
Sex-based relationships will crumble and burn, why? Because a three-legged square table can't stand up, can it? You have to have all four legs. A relationship is like a four-legged table. One leg; emotion, second leg; mental, third leg; spiritual, fourth leg; physical. Most of those can't be replaced...in fact they just can't (and granted you need more things in a relationship, but that was just an example). You need all those as a basis to your relationship, or it will shatter and fall aprart. I'm sure men like to be showered with affection and love just as much as us gals do. It's nice, it's comfortable, and feels good, sometimes better than the sex itself. And some of the other ways of showing affection are a lot less tiring lol. | |
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| Re: Whats wrong with sex based relationships?
Posted: 9/1/2004 1:42:31 AM | Well this thread is pretty interesting.
I'd like to mention something said at the very begining that i think
contained a ton of wisdom...
Griffon said something to the effect, (as i understood... and i paraphrase) if you are involved in sex-based relationships, you are spending valuable time/energy/attention that you could be using to seeking the partner you truely desire... life is short, while yor busy playing, a truely exceptional mate may have crossed your path, but you were wrapped up in petty desires/indulgences... It is empowering to strive after your goal with a clear mind.
That is a pretty powerful way to live with corresponding results.
I also believe that each must experience thier own path and are only ready til they are ready, when they understand what they want and believe that they have the power to get it. Some are delusional as to what they really want, locked in ego driven indulgences or afflictions of the spirit... lust, sexual power, addictions...
And lastly I believe that a sex-based relationship can contain, friendship, love, respect... the will to be there when your friend needs you, and the will to give pleasure far beyond self gratification. But they are dangerous without honesty, communication, and respect. It is just another form of relationship that may be enjoyable for like-minded individuals.
Some here say they will crash and die out... well the sexual part must at some point, and friendships can wane at times, even disappear.
So, like, to each thier own... Its all good, live... love... find people you like to be with and experience the best of life with them, find ppl of like goals and fulfll each other... ideally you sort it out and find your mate and take care of each other til death do you part.
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Leeana
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Joined: 5/30/2004
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| Re: Whats wrong with sex based relationships?
Posted: 11/12/2004 6:39:39 AM | "WHAT ABOUT LOVE?!?!!?!" There is no such thing as love. We are animals and not the kind that mate for life. SEX is the whole purpose, love is the illusion your mind puts up to insure more SEX. The concept of there being more to it than SEX is as baseless as life after death.
I like the way you think! | |
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