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Posted: 10/19/2006 10:59:32 PM | If you like to let the steam out, then wash his towels....if not, respect the man's household. LOTS of people get uptight about that stuff, if it's such a "little" thing to you, then why is it so hard for you to do??? I'm sure somewhere deep inside, something "gets" to you too, Ask him to put in another towel rack.
And by the way, if you place your towel on top of his, his doesn't dry in time for the next shower. But if he's so retentive, why not dry with a fresh clean towel. 
A mazing. But whatever get's you thru the day. | |
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Posted: 10/19/2006 11:25:03 PM | | Run ....Run very fast, in any direction away from him. If need be, line your doors and windows, with used towels to keep him out lol. Serious thou , he sounds like a nut and your better off without him. | |
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Posted: 10/19/2006 11:54:34 PM | You were so wrong to mess with his towel. I suggest you make it up to him by cooking him a nice meal giving him oral sex.
...joking aside. His rant is likely a metaphore for some other issue in your relationship. How can you sustain a relationship with a person like this? How will he react when he hears you inadvertantly farted in bed?
Dump him as soon as you can and come to my house and tell me all about him. | |
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Posted: 10/20/2006 4:37:49 AM | wow..
I've explained this to you, and I've instructed you not to do it.
Instructed you?...does he think your 2 years old..sounds like he has some issues..
but,yes in his defense..have you ever asked him why he is like that with things? Maybe if you knew why..you'd be able to agree to his
instructions ..and maybe you would be more aware of the situation...
but then i can see your point to on the hand towels...If he doesnt want them to be used..then dont put them out..or at least have a roll of paper towels there so you can try your hands...
Hand towels?..Ive always thought that is what they were there for...lol | |
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Posted: 10/20/2006 8:22:55 AM | Not that it matters much, but I thought these were bath towels not hand towels. | |
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Posted: 10/20/2006 8:32:24 AM | if you would have read all of the OP..you would see that she did mention hand towels..
On his defense, I have to say that we did have a conversation in the past where he was upset about me using his hand towel but when he brought it up to my attention, I apologized although it seemed weird, I let it go. I mean when you wash your hands in somebody’s bathroom, isn’t that what the hand towels are for? | |
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Posted: 10/20/2006 11:47:37 AM | | That guy is treating you like dirt... how can you put up with such disrespect? | |
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Posted: 10/20/2006 11:58:12 AM | Holy crap I dated his brother.
My kids were not allowed to use his silverware...not some old crap passed down or such...just plain old knifes and forks. He would come unglued. I would shake my head...
"OCD" for sure.
I would run before he has a chance to make you off limits. | |
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Posted: 10/20/2006 12:07:49 PM | | well darling, maybe his towel issue is improtant to him, and if it ellicits such a tyraid of abuse then what will it be next? God forbit you touch his toothbrush!!!!and how angry and insulting will it be the next time you cross the hygeine line? Get out now!!!! | |
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Posted: 10/20/2006 12:08:11 PM | | I don't think it's about the towel my dear. I think it's about something else. In most of my experiences, when someone goes overboard on an issue such as that to someone they care for, even with an OCB disorder, it often times is about something else that that person is unable to bring out. It could be any number of problems but, I think it may very well be more than about a towel. You may have to open up the dialogue on whether he really wants to be with you or not. | |
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Posted: 10/20/2006 12:11:39 PM | That's totally disgusting! I mean used towels.... touching off each other...... ewww *dry wrenches*
Seriously! The guy's attitude is totally disgusting. He's treating you like a child and showing absolute and utter disrespect for you. You've been with him 1 1/2 years?? Can this possibly be the only issue?? Can't imagine how he copes with sex... ewww, yuck, all those bodily fluids. Do you actually have feelings for this creep? My advice: THROW IN THE TOWEL!  | |
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Posted: 10/20/2006 1:50:46 PM | Can you say "anal-retentive jerk"? I can. I'd get out while I can...this guy is a bomb waiting to explode. What's next? A new, individually wrapped bar of soap for each hand washing? His and Hers waste baskets? GEEEZ!  | |
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Posted: 10/20/2006 1:58:54 PM |
if you would have read all of the OP..you would see that she did mention hand towels..
Oh, I missed it, you're right. Thanks It was so small a mention, I read right over it.
And to the OP, chuck the towels and him, although a 1 1/2 years how did you not pick up on this sooner? | |
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Posted: 10/20/2006 2:11:09 PM | First of all..if you invite people over you hope that when they use your washroom that they wash their hands..and it's up to you to provide a towel...it's called a "guest towel"..as not to get mixed up with your own person hand towel.
As for the other incident...he should've brought up ahead of time what he wanted you to do with your towel...and honestly...i'm surprised he allows you to lay next to him in bed...never mind having an intimate relationship with him.
It's him that owes you the apology!!! | |
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Posted: 10/20/2006 2:21:52 PM | Interesting.... I actually had a male friend once who wanted a new, (his own), bar of soap while staying at my house before we went to the bars to hit on the ladies.. Weird.... because he was so funny, I let it go... In your case, leave..... sounds too weird........ unless he's a towel salesman attempting to increase towel sales....?  | |
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Posted: 10/20/2006 2:26:07 PM | | Dump him. The guy has problems. The longer you stay with him, he'll make you crazy. | |
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Posted: 10/20/2006 2:33:37 PM | I have to agree with the majority about this....it seems as though the issue seems to be more about his manner of speaking to her, than the issue of towels touching. (it seems odd, that he would be so anal about the OP's towel touching his, yet he does not have a problem being intimate with her).
BTW, where has the OP disappeared to? | |
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Posted: 10/21/2006 11:05:07 AM | | Hi Folks… This is my first post. I’m sorry but this isn’t normal dear and I’m sure this guy has other issues as well. I’m surprised you’ve made it a year and a half. Dump his a***…lol Just kidding… And, anyone out there who could read what I did and then defend this guy’s actions needs their own head examined as well. Ok I’m done. Good luck Zima. :) | |
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Posted: 10/21/2006 11:09:33 AM | | Damn.....this guy has some serious problems.........does he instruct you how to suck his dik too? I'm sorry but I would dump this guy in a heartbeat...not only for his anal retentive behavior but mainly for the way he speaks to you......I wouldn't put up with that for a minute .....I think the guy was potty trained at gun point and is an accident about to happen...........get the hell out while you can. | |
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Posted: 10/21/2006 2:48:06 PM |  After I was done laughing my head off I kept reading...this fool is for real..dang...Let me guess...he wears a body condom when he touches you??? Girlfriend...u need to run as fast as u can from "Mr. Clean" he is just too freaky for me !!!! | |
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Posted: 10/21/2006 3:06:30 PM | YOU CAN TOUCH MY TOWELS ANYDAY HUN. THIS GUY IS A CONTROL NUT.
GET A LIFE | |
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Posted: 10/22/2006 9:58:40 AM | Ya'll are being to harsh on this guy, Veedub has some good qualities too.
Sorry, I just couldn't resist. | |
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Posted: 10/22/2006 10:37:51 AM |
I'm sorry to laugh, but...
! Oh my God!! Ohh kay, that's just a tad bit INSANE!! Like everyone else here suggests...RUN!! RUN, MY DEAR GIRL, AND DON'T LOOK BACK!!
Jeebus, some people really do have issues, don't they? | |
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Posted: 10/22/2006 10:48:22 AM | | Refuse to have sex with him and remind him it's substantially more unhygenic than placing towels side by side. | |
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