Fran47
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Posted: 10/19/2006 10:58:48 AM | OP..... I've been reading the thread....but haven't come across your answer to one of the previous questions.... "Have you ever had sex with anyone...?"  | |
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Fran47
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Joined: 10/4/2006
Msg: 52 | |
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Posted: 10/19/2006 11:32:41 AM |
No I haven't.....and I honestly at this point don't plan to......
Well... you are still young, which isn't a bad thing. But... you definitely may change your mind after you've tried it. I have a son who is almost eighteen, and he had sex a couple of months ago for the first time. He was talking to me one evening and said... Wow... I never realized how hard it was dealing with sexual urges till finally having sex for the first time...(He is dating a girl that is a virgin....and wants to wait till she is older...)
Anyway... was just a thought... when the time is right... and you decide you want to have sex... you may find after having it for the first time... you can't live without it... | |
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ulao
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Joined: 6/10/2006
Msg: 54 | |
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Posted: 10/19/2006 11:43:02 AM | Dude Here is what you need to know.. My friend had this way of thinking..
He hate sex, and it did nothing for him. But here is the thing I told him.
Dude, sex is not about me when I'm with a girl it's about her. Hell some women don’t do it for me, but I love to do for them. If you find a girl you need to please her! If sex disgusts you there are other things you can do. But blueguitardude, In order for me to help you, you need to state what it is you don’t like. Can you put anything in her? Can you kiss on cretin thing? Does this talk gross you out? You also need to let her know what please you. Think about people that cant control there bodies below the belt. They find ways. Talk can be fun.. It is all about what you both want. Sex is not the end all be all. well haha, it is for me . but.. It does not have to be. Spell out what you don’t like about it and Ill give you my two cents. | |
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Fran47
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Joined: 10/4/2006
Msg: 55 | |
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Posted: 10/19/2006 11:44:36 AM | Hmm.... I must commend you!! That is not a bad thing... (while you are still young....) But... as you get older .... and marriage and having a family come into focus.... this will have to change. Besides... if you get a woman in your life...you will have to think of her needs as well...
Just a side note...Thanks for emailing me direct... I will be in contact soon... For now...I have to go pick my son up from work... And thanks for the invite!! | |
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Posted: 10/19/2006 2:33:12 PM | | that's just messed up. man.. I'm a virgin but i still think about sex all the time to the point i just wanna go to an escort and get it over with but then the rational side of my brain kicks in and tells me to put on the brakes. It's not neccearily a bad thing not to want sex but its still very odd... | |
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Posted: 10/19/2006 2:35:28 PM | | how can u say you dont want something youve never had? How can you say you want to love a woman without sex? woman most of us need sex to feel love. Maybe you have some personal issues or a chemical inbalance | |
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Posted: 10/19/2006 3:55:19 PM |
By the way, I don't think there is anything WRONG with not wanting to have sex, but God help you both if you marry a girl with a high sex drive.
We're talking "Ten-car pile-up" kind of tragedy.
I believe it would be called my last marriage. Shudder.
I am SO not kidding about that too.
OP: Find yourself a nice asexual girl. Yes, they exist just like asexual men exist. | |
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Posted: 10/19/2006 4:00:08 PM | | yeah, i can relate, I'm not very sexual. Well, it's not only that, I just dont really bond with people in any significant way. Sometimes I feel a physiological need for sex, but a few times a year is enough for me. It's an after thought, really low on my priority scale. | |
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