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 Silver Surfer

Joined: 10/30/2006
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Posted: 11/8/2006 4:25:02 AM
I think we make all our conclusions based on our own personal observations and experiences or they would not be valid conclusions...
 apachie64

Joined: 9/24/2006
Msg: 27
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Posted: 11/27/2006 7:43:14 AM
Hi to all I my self would just love to have a date with a Russian women one that is in South West of Florida.
 BoltThrower1206

Joined: 8/22/2006
Msg: 28
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Posted: 12/25/2006 3:45:44 AM
I get e-mail from ppl claiming to be young sexy Russian Woman wanted to scam me out of my money.......LOL! Actually, the photos of these young Russian models where stolen from a Russian modelling agency and are used by scammers to con lonely and desperate American Men. These are not the models themselves talking to you, but the scammer that stole their photos whoever he/she maybe. Just like the Nigerian scam about some hot sexy broad that's can't pay her hotel fee and they're holding her plane ticket as collateral. Ok 'nuff said.
 allshookup98

Joined: 4/22/2006
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Posted: 12/25/2006 5:00:45 AM
I have been emailing women from Russia and Ukraine for several months and when someone asks me to send them money I most of the time find out that its not a real woman but only someone using a picture to get money.

Think about this a woman is coming to another country and, leaving her family, friends,job, and everything that they have known all their life just so they can come to the USA.

I love my country but let me tell you there are a lot of people in the world that hate Americans and don't want anything to do with them so if she is willing to come halfway around the world for love then I think that sounds great.
 SOBEIT19

Joined: 10/15/2006
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Posted: 12/25/2006 7:31:25 AM
Prostitution huh..... Well when two people provide for each other, say you pay for the house, say I clean, cook, and make wild monkey love you .. does that fall under the same heading?

Eyes wide open.. you get what you ask for
 heyitsdoug

Joined: 3/8/2006
Msg: 31
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Posted: 12/25/2006 8:16:27 AM
HHHhhhmmmmm.........something's not right here?


I have had several relationships with Russian women who used their 1st husbands for citizenship


Sooooooo......you're repeatedly seeking out women who have gone to great lengths
to use a man to gain citizenship........and you call the men they used "fools"?

I'd say someone who repeats his mistakes expecting different results is much
more a fool than one who is decieved by one woman with bad intentions.

........and for hammersickle.........


If he was racist he would have not asked any questions


Maybe I missed it, but I didn't see ANY questions in the first post?
What I did see is the pot calling the kettle black when in his next post.....


You are probably a lonely, bitter person who has nothing else to do but insult people you don't know.


I'd guess that there will be Russian women who find the OP somewhat bitter and
offensive.......and the guys who you say "appear to be big fools"......are probably
guys you don't know, who will feel insulted.

Bottom line.....if you don't want to date "users" stop seeking them out! Bonehead!


 ColonelIngus

Joined: 9/16/2007
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Posted: 10/29/2009 12:39:10 PM

it's no wonder that Americans of both genders, when we finally do seek a spouse, have to turn to foreigners

Not sure where you're getting the idea that there's some gender equality thing going on here...

My inquiry into the mail order husband trade ... demonstrated that it’s practically nonexistent in the commercial realm. ... Other than [a] gay-oriented site (which obviously won’t work for heterosexual women), there’s no trace of a commercial mail order husband industry. ... Apparently the demand among Western women for husbands from abroad is minimal, or the women who are seeking foreign husbands don’t want the mail order kind.
- http://www.associatedcontent.com/article/27496/mail_order_husbands.html

From what I understand, some of the businesses in the trade tried offering mail order husbands, but droppod it due to lack of demand.
 misssynne

Joined: 10/18/2009
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Posted: 10/29/2009 1:58:19 PM
wouldnt dream of dating a mailordergroom but i know some people dont have hgh standards...
 Arabianangel

Joined: 6/9/2007
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Posted: 10/29/2009 2:09:01 PM
OP...Here is the thing that realllllllly gets under my skin. Why do men complain AFTER the relationship has ended?

You mentioned that she married husband # 1 for citizenship did she tell you that or are you assuming? because either way you're a fool. Surely if you knew this about her PRIOR to getting into a relationship then you're a fool for expecting her to treat you any different...If you didn't know but only ASSUME that this is the case than once again you're being foolish...
 deltadallas

Joined: 7/13/2009
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Posted: 10/29/2009 2:09:42 PM
i agree with half and half of the folks on this board. women are the same all over the world whether it be in the states (black, white,hispanic, asian) or in russia, australia, vietnam, the list go on.

to the poster that said the Op was racist and this thread should be deleted and against the law: someone (a white guy) posted the same thing a few weeks about american black women are "worthless" compared to african women (africa) or the caribbeans and i didn't see anyone delete his thread????

the men need to stop with these erotic fantasy of certain races of women or country of origin. treat everyone with the same respect you want your sister, mother, or daughter to be treated.

 kiev95

Joined: 1/19/2006
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Posted: 10/30/2009 10:39:52 PM
stop dating russian women
 kiev95

Joined: 1/19/2006
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Posted: 10/30/2009 10:48:31 PM
and folks keep in mind: only old loosers are looking for a woman in a foreign country. a guy who is successfull in US would find a woman here.
 wild1-1

Joined: 9/5/2009
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Posted: 10/31/2009 1:57:14 AM
I agree with you for some of them women and many other from different countries. I met some Asian women older Australian men only to leave him once she gets her citizenship.
 Magnum Speedo

Joined: 10/26/2009
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Posted: 10/31/2009 3:00:31 AM
There is a learning curve . . . dont be naive !!! Foreign women are doing what is best . . for them and their children. People who have professional lives have to go to college or trade school to be professionals. It is quite intentional for them to go to college. Women who have drive and desire to get ahead use all the tools and opportunities to get ahead. They arent cruel but they are realistic about life. If you get real about things then how can you expect love and loyalty to bloom from nothing ? "Making love from nothing at all" is only a song by Air Supply. After they arrive here in the US (their land of opportunity) they have time to be themselves and perhaps seek someone who truly pleases their soul or body (as they choose). The women who use men arent mean or nasty . . . . they are smart and desire all the good things but wont sell their souls for them or be anyone's slave. We are all prostitutes . . .we sell our services for money . . or we starve. Some just use their body as an asset in the process. Did I miss the difference between the worker and the prostitute ? Have you ever compromised to get your way or wimp out from doing the right thing ? . . .then your a prostitute also.
 boinkboinkboink

Joined: 3/20/2009
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Posted: 10/31/2009 4:36:03 AM

and folks keep in mind: only old loosers are looking for a woman in a foreign country. a guy who is successfull in US would find a woman here.


What a stupid thing to type. I am currently dating a Russian woman. Does she want Canadian citizenship. Maybe, and so what! Why shouldn't she be able to seek both: a man she loves, and home that is safe and allows her to persue her career?

People, kindly park your negative attitude about Russians. Most of you really don't have a clue what you're talking about. OP, did it ever occur to you that the idiot was actually the first husband? Perhaps, he lied, gave her a false sense of hope, and then was later discovered for what he really was, so this woman smartly divorced him. So often this is exactly what happens to these Russian brides. THEY are duped, led to believe that this Western man has something real to offer her, only to discover that he is actually and idiot.
 Serenity Sam

Joined: 4/24/2008
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Posted: 10/31/2009 5:50:08 AM
I have only had one encounter with a Russian women. She did want the money, she was divorced from husband number one and was looking for number two. She met her first husband who owned a once very successful mexican resturant which failed due to over extending finaces, she did have expensive taste for the budget she was on, forign saab car, clothing, ect which could of been booty from the first marrage. I met her in at social group meeting, she was older than me but attractive. We dated a few times, she made it clear to me she was looking for a rich guy, I knew I had no chance with this women due to my income but decided to have fun regardless during this interm while she preparing to pass her real estate licensing exam. She did use others, I knew I was being used so I figured why not go along to understand the workings of such a person. When we went out to lunch she insisted on an expensive place and didnt consider paying for her own meal but me footing the entire bill. The second date I took her to a car show cause it was free and cause she liked antique and clasic cars, kept things on budget. The last and final date was she used me to help her pass her real estate exam. I was good at math and test taking and she needed someone to help quiz her cause the test was coming up. Needless to say after she got her real estate license that week, she never called after that date. Two months later she informed me she found what she was looking for a really wealthy guy she sold a home to. He had a son and worked on wall street and planed to soon move in with them.
She admitted to me she wanted all the stuff she had when in Russia, apparently her parents were wealthy and came from a wealthy household back there. She couldnt do it on her own so was intrested in being in an enviornment to meet wealthy guys, she started selling homes and the area she was selling them was to affluent people, she made her score. She was attractive and used her physical assets to get what she wanted.
I dont know if all Russian women are this way, and I would say there not, but some are. Just like any individual who aspires for more on the back of others they exist and always will.
I think the thing is to remember people in general want good things for themselves and and thier life, if they can do it on thier own they will, if they cant they will either struggle or find someone that can give them what they are looking for.
 boinkboinkboink

Joined: 3/20/2009
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Posted: 10/31/2009 8:33:24 AM
Sam, it sounds to me like you found yourself a very honest Russian woman. Nothing whatsoever wrong with what she did. She set a goal, achieved her goal, and did so honestly. It sounds to me like she is a woman who seeks a man who matches her own career ambitions. Nothing wrong with this.

My own girlfriend sees my income potential, but accepts me now with little money as I acquire the education I need to succeed. There is nothing whatsoever wrong with a woman being attracted to an existing or potentially successful man. I wouldn't expect her to stick around if I fail indefinately. She deserves a quality life. Successful people confront failure and turn it into success. Why would she stick around if I can't do this in my own life? Is she a gold digger if I fail? No. She wants her future children to grow up healthy and comfortable. Russian or not, I think this applies to all mature women.
 Brunopolis

Joined: 8/2/2009
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Posted: 10/31/2009 8:49:57 AM
@choctaw

Russia isn't some sort of third world nightmare land. It has its problems but it's a very liveable country. Russian women that marry for US citizenship are worse than prostitutes because they fool regular men into thinking they aren't. This applies to most(men and women) that marry to get into the US with exceptions being for the truly poor of certain countries.

I'm tired of seeing people assume that every country that is not USA or Europe is automatically a third world hell hole where everybody is trying to escape.
 dogslife2live001

Joined: 11/4/2008
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Posted: 10/31/2009 9:54:28 AM
why thank you but you got it wrong...
first i am not gorgeous
second in my home town there were many fat ones
skinny ones
tall ones ....and so on and so forth but one thing i can see for sure. is as many close minded people as there here with hearsay knowledge of russian people....you would be happy to know there is an equal amount of ignorant people in the motherland....but the vodka is original...........
 dogslife2live001

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Posted: 10/31/2009 10:07:15 AM
I have been emailing women from Russia and Ukraine for several months
I most of the time find out that its not a real woman but only someone using a picture to get money.
I love my country but let me tell you there are a lot of people in the world that hate Americans and don't want anything to do with them
if she is willing to come halfway around the world for love then I think that sounds great

that sounds like reality and you do not share the same galaxy......

do you also support fair pay for americans by shopping at walmart?
 damassteel

Joined: 7/22/2009
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Posted: 10/31/2009 12:48:25 PM
I've got LOT'S of experience with Russian women and the Russian community. I was married to a Russian woman for 18 years and we had a daughter. My wife was as good as gold and as talented and hardworking as they come. However, I had several Russian GF's after her passing and they in NO way live up to the standard she set. Every negative sterotype possible was embodied at some point by one or all of them. They've a reputation for being calculating and users of men. I saw a great deal of this. Mind you I'm a fluent Russian speaker and am/was completely incorporated into the russian community, so I got the "insider's view"of things. It's well understood even by their community, that there are women within it that are just plain scammers and gamers.
Of course not all are, as my own experience shows, but I believe The Russian community here and elsewhere has more than their fair share. Where there's smoke there's fire. Many stereotypes have an actual basis in reality.
 colt8301

Joined: 10/25/2006
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Posted: 10/31/2009 1:30:49 PM
lol, yeah you have to keep your eyes peeled dealing with any kind of women, doesn't matter where they are from, they are all the same and it's going to be that way forever. Now If russian women want to be golddiggers fine, as a matter of fact if all women wanted to be fake and golddiggers fine it's their choice and preference.
 Serenity Sam

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Posted: 10/31/2009 1:50:19 PM
One additional comment, this "show me the money" individual, would not be considerd a women that would "stand by her man" but flee the scene as in "see you down the road jack, dont you come back no more more,no more". It was apparent when I heard she married guy#1 when he had the money and resturant but fleed when his luck went bad, lost the resturant and thier home. So for the present guy#2 sake he may have a rude awaking if the investment firm on wall street went belly up during the recent stock market jolt two years ago. The saying is very true "money cant buy me love" but it certianly can rent you things.
 wild1-1

Joined: 9/5/2009
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Posted: 11/1/2009 1:03:35 AM

Maybe, and so what! Why shouldn't she be able to seek both: a man she loves, and home that is safe and allows her to persue her career


I give you 2 years and you will be back to tell us how you got ef'ed by your situation. LOL
 Svetlana Blue

Joined: 6/23/2009
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Posted: 11/1/2009 8:26:52 AM
Yeah. I run into this as well. People like you who claim to be athletic and are hired by the pound. In US Dollars. I was adopted by an American family, And get this cupcake; I work, I pay my own bills, I live alone and I bet I am ten time smarter than you. And Husband #1 did not get me anything but bills thet HE managed to rack up.So, stop blaming "Russian woman" on your misfortunes. If you have a problem with a woman's Ethnic background, go find another one. How hard is it? And start being honest with yourself; I see a few areas of BS just from your profile, to stats , etc. If you are meeting those "type "of women, stop using mail order Bride's, get off your rear end and go meet women of substance. In your condition, you will not meet many. Anyone can be "corrupt" it does not take a certain ethniticity to be lame. Good grief.
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