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Posted: 8/18/2005 5:32:10 PM | ok...one...im not gay...two...im not bi....
i am into the whole sub/dom thing i am VERY attracted to domminate women....finding one in my area is next to impossible...finding one interested in this is like trying to find a needle on the bottom and in the middle of the ocean.....
this is actually one of my darkest fantasies....i mean....im not talkin a girl basically bend me over every night but just out of the blue or something....that would be increadibly erotic.....maybe its the whole power exchange thing....i dont know....im not a dominate guy by any means....i much MUCH prefer the woman to take control...tell me what she wants...or just do what she wants...i dont want a selfish girl dont get me wrong im not an inanimate object to be used and discarded but...i do love women who know what they want and will get it without hesitation....
my first experiance with anything like this was with an ex gf who was really drunk one night and said if she did anything i didnt like to just tell her to stop...well she proceeded to basically molest me down and back there and at first i was like WHAT THE FU....wait thats kinda nice...and then just the idea made it all the hotter....
one thing i think would completely ruin the entire thing is a woman who would be interested in doing this but using a strap-on or toy that is larger than me....now granted....im not the largest guy ever...but im not small either ....and the size of the toy isnt really all that important its more of a situational and experiance thrill for me and of course theres the whole male g-spot stimulation.....
i dont know where im goin with this but....i would love to find a woman in my area that would be open minded enough to have fun like this not all the time but every once in a while....damn why are there not more kinky girls in my area....stupid midwest... | |
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Posted: 8/20/2005 7:24:09 AM | READY AND WILLING DECATUR ILLINOIS AREA TAKE ME NO GUYS PLEASE | |
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Posted: 8/20/2005 12:21:25 PM | well im still new so i hope this is right.
im a 35 yo white malt that would love to find a strap on sally and make me her bend over boyfriend.
i love toys and i love serving a woman in any way that gives her pleasure so count me in. im near Peterborough Ontario if there are any takers. | |
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Posted: 8/20/2005 5:46:44 PM | | i would love to have a woman who was comfortable with a strap on. I have been wanting that for a long time | |
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Posted: 10/19/2005 5:09:19 AM | DO what makes ya feel good, as ong all are consenting adults..
To the people saying it makes the guy bi or gay, by that logic if a lesbian uses a dildo/bib does that make her straight or bi? didn't think so, your point is mute. | |
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Joined: 9/25/2004
Msg: 206 | |
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Posted: 10/19/2005 6:52:36 AM | eimmat,
that will be great idea and i love it .
for long time and it is my fantasy to see that happen .wooooooooow so hot . | |
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Joined: 9/25/2004
Msg: 207 | |
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Posted: 10/19/2005 6:57:02 AM | | yes i agree with you im in love . i would love to be f***ed by your strapon . | |
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Posted: 10/19/2005 9:11:47 AM | I very much enjoy ocassionally giving my lady the upper hand and submitting to het strap on. I find it very exciting.  | |
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Joined: 10/10/2005
Msg: 209 | |
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Posted: 10/20/2005 4:16:59 AM | | any ladies wanna dress me up real sexy as a female with a thong short skirt heels nice top wig and some makeup and then u can take ur strapon and do me like a little girl | |
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Posted: 10/20/2005 6:30:39 AM | | One of my exes wanted me to do that, and i just couldnt stomach the thought. | |
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Posted: 12/23/2005 12:05:29 PM | | i have always dreamed of a women to get a big strapon and F U C Kme like a little girl but i guess first i better put on a sexy thong short skirt heel top wig and some makeup so i can really become this little girl and get F U C K E D just like one | |
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Posted: 1/8/2006 7:54:47 PM | | i always think of this with a woman wearing it and getting on with me. it's my fantasy, but i like a woman to do it with me without me asking first what i'm expecting..kind of surprise....difficult ehhh...i think impossible. | |
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Posted: 7/10/2006 10:03:25 PM | | strapon sex is super fun i myself find it a huge turn on and will try to bring to all my future relationships..... | |
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Posted: 7/12/2006 2:02:58 PM | | great post there, cosmo. it's something a lot of males would never think of doing. but i say why not.. i've had the real thing before, tho not yet a good strapon from a female. would love it. there's something very erotic about the role reversal in it for me. and it is true with the prostate. us males can have one heck of an orgasm from it.. not a cumming one sometimes, but it is quite powerful all the same. | |
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Posted: 7/12/2006 2:05:32 PM | add on to my last post. lol
it's so hard to find females that wanna take charge that way with a male. would love to find one here in Sarnia that enjoys giving it as well. | |
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Posted: 8/4/2006 8:19:29 AM | | good god a man that likes to experiment is perfect at least you know he is experimenting with you and stuff but the only thing i would be afraid of is him leaving me for another MAN!!!!!!!!!!! | |
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Posted: 8/15/2006 9:54:42 AM | the truth of the matter is..men can reach orgasm simply by anal stimulation of the prostate..so really it just feels really good to men when they are getting it played with ....it makes for an explosive orgasm... | |
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Posted: 8/15/2006 9:58:26 AM | | What a coincidence. I have a strap-on. Now I wouldn't force it on a man, but I would like to put on my leather boots and have a go. | |
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Posted: 8/15/2006 9:59:25 AM | Yeah! It's all fun and games till she pulls out one of those Johnny Wad models the size of Texas!  | |
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Posted: 8/16/2006 1:17:41 AM | The idea repulses me.
My fantasy would be making love to a woman who is as in love with me as I am with her.
Since this fantasy hasn't happened yet..... | |
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Posted: 8/21/2006 1:20:59 PM | A few thoughts on the subject -
Since I don’t watch a whole lot of television at home, I have only very basic cable service that doesn’t even get CNN. So when I was traveling and staying at a hotel recently, I saw the Oxygen Channel (ala Oprah) for the first time and was surprised to see that the programming for the evening consisted entirely of sex-related shows ranging from the softness of Queer Eye for the Straight Guy to a drama, which I think was the L Word or something similar, to the more serious “Talk Sex with Sue Johanson” show with a little old lady host. Apparently she is considered Canada's foremost sexual educator and counselor.
The grandmotherly Dr. Sue Johanson spent most of the show answering questions that mostly had to do with anal sex. She said that the topic she gets THE MOST mail on is asking about women using a strap-on harness with their male partner. She even brought out a strap-on harness to show that she recommended for beginners.
She spend a significant amount of time describing how the man’s prostate and other regions make up the male “A spot” as compared to women’s “G spot” and talked a lot about technique. I guess grannies can talk about just about anything on TV. 
It seems that most people think that guys who are interested in being on the receiving end of a strap-on are closet gays who want to be with a man but that is not necessarily the case. Most of these guys are heterosexuals who want it to be made love to in that way by a woman.
And although there are a lot of guys interested in the whole domination thing too, that’s not necessarily the case either. A huge number of guys simply want to experience the change of sexual position and the anal stimulation.
On another note, I know a bi woman who is attracted to other women and loves to wear and use her strap-on with her female lover. It’s a major part of her love life but the idea of doing that with a man is completely foreign to her and she would never ever have that kind of sex with a man.
So I would draw the following conclusions:
1 – That if a man wants to have strap-on sex with a woman, it does not necessarily mean that he is gay or wants to be with another man.
2 – There are practical reasons for men to have anal sex, being as they possess a prostate and have other sexual hot spots in that area.
3 – People like all kinds of different things sexually that may not be easily explained - or even impossible (like men understanding the feeling of the G spot and women understanding the feeling of the A spot, for example) - so we should just not make a big deal about it.
As long as they are consenting adults and are being safe and respectful of one another, it shouldn’t matter what they do behind closed doors. Let them explore one another however they want and don’t act like homophobes is they tell you that they like something that you don’t.
Any thoughts on these ideas? | |
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Posted: 8/21/2006 3:10:21 PM | | If I love him then I guess Id do it ..... But I would be laughing so hard and asking him for pointers as how to manover the dang thing... LOL | |
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Posted: 8/21/2006 3:16:14 PM | I guess a women might be able to enjoy this if she get the right tool for the job..... They have ones that have a vibrating egg for the G- Spot ... so with every thrust would be like Hooooha! | |
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Posted: 8/21/2006 4:11:51 PM | | I let a chick do me in the ass with a strap-on. It felt awesome. | |
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Posted: 8/21/2006 4:21:58 PM | | Only 50% want to have sex with two females at once? Well we all know that number is off by alot. But really i cant see me ever doing this. Hi honey i am home now bend over baby and take it like a man. Hmmm no thanks. | |
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