| HES SEEING OTHER PEOPLE AND DOESNT WANT ME TO SEE OTHER PEOPLE
Posted: 12/19/2006 7:38:18 AM | | you dont want to lose him????What is wrong with u...dont u think u deserve someone better?He is a loser who is trying to control u...he wants his cake and eat it too...why would u think he is a great guy...great guys dont treat women like this...get a backbone and some pride and drop him. | |
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| HES SEEING OTHER PEOPLE AND DOESNT WANT ME TO SEE OTHER PEOPLE
Posted: 12/19/2006 7:49:07 AM | well here is what you should do honey don't call him and then wait to see if he will call you back. The other part of the letter where you said he is seeing other people but don't want you to see other people i would go ahead and see other people anyways and see how he likes it.
sincerely mellows
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| HEY GUYS A QUESTION FOR YOU
Posted: 12/19/2006 8:17:37 AM | Hey Sweetie,
I have some input too! From the sound of things you are loving way to much. What I mean by that is you have set your heart on the fact this is the "right" man for you.
Try and look at this dating as you are on a journey. You have only this moment to live.
What your responsibility to yourself is first, take care of yourself. Take some time out and see what it is you want in a man. This may take some time if you approach this as a study just for you.
It sounds like you have a friends with benefits going on here. That means you may or may not be sleeping with him, but he can see you just when he has time between all his other dating or just plain life. You deserve more than this, but first you have to learn how to do this.
You must start with seeing yourself as worthy of an awesome man. You are a beautiful young woman and you deserve a man who desires only you, not all the ladies out in the world too.
It is time to say later gater to this guy who has no respect for you, first, yet who likes you available when he wants you around.
You are much more valuable than this! Make a decision you are an awesome woman and you will not settle for just any guy.
I get a newsletter "Dating Without Drama", this lady has taught many of us what a good man is looking for and how is it best to handle ourselves in this dating period of our life. She also teaches the remarkable differences between us sexes. We woman do not think like a man and they do not think like us. We would be wise to search this out, then begin to live it out in our daily life. I know I am!
You go girl! Thanks so much for exposing your heart to us, to learn from!
Blessings,
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| HEY GUYS A QUESTION FOR YOU
Posted: 12/19/2006 8:26:53 AM | LOL....yes amen agreed! 
This is the drama we do not need nor want in our life actually! | |
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| HEY GUYS A QUESTION FOR YOU
Posted: 12/19/2006 8:37:38 AM | Please bear with me. I'm learning how this works. That last reply was to one I read on a different page! Duh..I guess I need to look at the name of the writer. Geezzz
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| HEY GUYS A QUESTION FOR YOU
Posted: 2/15/2007 10:13:48 AM | | HMMMM your in love with a player? you want to know where real men are?? A real man dont play with all kinds, your just in love with him because all the tramps are doin him too. I see very few women on this site actually looking for a MAN. Most of you have no clue what a REAL man is. and why are you on this site if you have someone and are in love?? can we say PLAYER?? sounds like you both enjoy the game and he has more women doing him than you do guys,, possible?? | |
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| give it up people this thred is OLD!!!!!!!!!
Posted: 2/15/2007 2:12:15 PM | ok, so were done he broke up with me over the phone,in january,in the background i heard kids and another woman,so he broke up with me while he was at her house.azzz!!!
he slept with her 3 weeks before he broke up with me and didnt tell me till we were done,and i feel so sick to my stomach cause i was with him the same week. he kept telling me since the begining whitch was november 2005 that it was all my imagination and he wasnt cheating,but i found out he was all lies!@!! im heartbroken,but i cant hide under my blankets and cry forever either!!!!!!!!! ive talked to several women on here that have been talking to him,it makes me sick!!! yes, im on here to,but i was looking for friends,he was not!!!
so, now im looking for long term all over again. and not not not interested in playing bullshit games anymore!!!!!!!!! i just kept forgiving him over and over again,even though i had proof i wasnt the only one in his life,that makes me sick too. i loved him with all my heart,but he started showing his true colors,and i guess i woke up and saw that wow, hes been playing me and everyone else for 2 years. hes very very sweet it took me along time to see through him. please please email me i dont want anyone else hurt or played by him. | |
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| HES SEEING OTHER PEOPLE AND DOESNT WANT ME TO SEE OTHER PEOPLE
Posted: 2/23/2007 10:00:15 AM | DUMP HIM SWEETHEART! I WAS IN THE SAME BOAT!!! I WASTED TOO MUCH TIME ON THE MAN. If he seeing other people he cannot commit to you..who wants to be treated second? His excuse of you "calling too much" is just his excuse to put you off and make you feel bad for caring about him, and it bides him time to flirt elsewhere...you are too valuable to be treated that way..give yourself a hug and find another guy who doesn't leave you feeling so bad. The way he treats you after this long of dating tells me he has no intention of sticking with it. Hes zooming you...you are too sweet and smart for that...move on and DITCH HIM! hugs! | |
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| HES SEEING OTHER PEOPLE AND DOESNT WANT ME TO SEE OTHER PEOPLE
Posted: 2/23/2007 4:11:02 PM | Harsh method or not, glad it's over for you. Love like that's a form of mental illness I believe. Been there....a smart woman making excuse after excuse for bad male behavior and still feeling unexplainable emotion. Except I pulled the plug......I thought it would kill me. Of course, it didn't.
Is it possible he's out here still looking?? Played around for two years? Probably playing around still. Too bad we can't learn who he was.
Or was he actually married and those were his kids, his wife found out and made him break up on the phone in front of her.....or else.
Weirder things have been known to happen. Many sympathies and good luck. | |
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| HES SEEING OTHER PEOPLE AND DOESNT WANT ME TO SEE OTHER PEOPLE
Posted: 3/22/2007 11:35:51 AM | | This sounds an awfully like someone I just met on here. He wanted me to tell my friends I was taken but he couldn't do the same. Then called me controlling when I questioned him on it. HAHA. Don't waste your time on someone like that, God knows I'm not going to. I deserve awhole better than that and so do you. So open up those wings and fly. You just caught a bad fish in the bad of the stream is all. | |
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| HES SEEING OTHER PEOPLE AND DOESNT WANT ME TO SEE OTHER PEOPLE
Posted: 4/5/2007 9:35:38 AM | | Unfortunately, he is controlling you. I had it recently where I was separated from my husband (he became addicted to the online dating on POF and actually lived with one woman after knowing her for three days), he came back to me for a possible reconciliation and during our time together this hoe that he lived with was calling, emailing him and carrying on wanting him back. I had signed up on POF to see what all of the buzz was. While he was carrying on having conversations with women and talking to them on his cell phone, he was accusing me of seeing people just because POF was in the history in explorer. We have broken up and I feel that he controlled me, it was okay for him to see/talk to people, but was quickly accusing me that I was doing the same and I was not as I wanted the reconciliation to work. I told him to leave this hoe from Muskegon alone, but he refused and kept on. I wasn't going to be his wife in the middle of his girlfriends, confronted him and he left THANK GOD!!! Now, I am having a great time chatting with gentlemen here. | |
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| HES SEEING OTHER PEOPLE AND DOESNT WANT ME TO SEE OTHER PEOPLE
Posted: 4/5/2007 1:19:43 PM | | I read what you had to say and I think the guy you're involved with wants to have his cake and eat it too. You say you guys have been together for a year and he hasn't changed. Maybe he never will. I think you need to love yourself first. A relationship is supposed to be a partnership. Sounds like you guys have a one sided relationship. His way or the highway. You have to think of your happiness first. | |
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| HEY teddy bear, my feelings about your concern
Posted: 4/8/2007 2:03:42 PM | Well said Historyraider,
A yr of ur life.... How many times have u cryed ... This will take over all of u if it has not already done it. It is not healthy or love .... I would want to talk to his momma or someone who knows his track record myself.
Lepards can not change there spots.. & Honey U got a Lepard.
albrial | |
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| He is seeing other people and does not want me to
Posted: 4/8/2007 5:24:07 PM | Move on it stops hurting pretty fast... I promise....
Keep your heart locked down until the right man comes along. He will know how to open it with out even trying.
Men as well as women can do pretty mean and hateful things in what they call love. It does not however give them permission to use another persons heart.
Now Evil Me:
Find a better looking man find out where he is going and never even look over at him. Pay attention to only him and have alot of fun do things you never did with him.. (maybe a little lap dance). He is more than likely married anyway.... | |
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| HES SEEING OTHER PEOPLE AND DOESNT WANT ME TO SEE OTHER PEOPLE
Posted: 4/8/2007 7:07:31 PM | | i was in your spot with my kids dad when we got together i couldnt have friends that were guys. so i lost my friends. as we broke up for 3 years with out seeing him at all we started seeing his kids and we started talking he was going to see his ex and me at the same time.. i went out and went to a guys house he seen hickes on me and freaked out.. we werent together. then we got to gether and same old him didnt want me to have friends that were guys. i dont understand why they do that i havent ever cheated on him he cheated on his ex... i would let him go and see what happens.. and if u are with him and u love him why be on here?????????????? . i wasnt when i was with him i would never ever be with someone and be on a dating site.. | |
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