| bein in love with more then 1person
Posted: 1/10/2006 1:50:40 PM | | All I have to is "WOW"!! Someone is really confused. Maybe you should take some time away from dating and like some of the others said raise your kid. Than maybe in time when you know what you want, whether it be a male or female you'll be right to get right back into the dating scene. Till than, G'luck.... | |
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| bein in love with more then 1person
Posted: 1/10/2006 2:02:11 PM | Here's the solution to your dilemma. There is no solution. You have made a real mess of your life and a child's life, in my opinion. Most guys your age aren't willing to commit, so count on being a single parent for some time. And you can ask the single mothers on this site if that's an advantage for meeting the right guy, or not.
Time and patience are your best bet. Maybe you'll find the right guy. Maybe he'll find you. But either way, make a life for yourself first. Know that you don't need help from anyone. Once you reach that point, you'll have enough self-confidence to make a good decision on the person you choose as a partner. Most people I know in their 20s are not ready for that kind of responsibility. | |
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| bein in love with more then 1person
Posted: 1/10/2006 2:09:41 PM | ok whats my child have in is she good well talkin care of ok and a other thing all the guys i have datin has been older then me so whatever | |
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Posted: 5/14/2008 5:37:25 AM | well hello ppl am back i really did it this time i find my soul mate we been together for 2yrs i have 2children now im doing really good im still friends with the others but im really happy with my life now i have myself my family i been dreaming about n im not to sure about the girl thing anymore thanks to all u that try to help me | |
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| bein in love with more then 1person
Posted: 5/14/2008 6:08:04 AM | Oh, there's a good idea...populate the world with more children who will likely grow up as illiterate as their parents.
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| bein in love with more then 1person
Posted: 5/14/2008 6:38:53 AM | | Let me see, you are in love with two guys but you "kind of like sumone else"? You are a game player. Figure out your own mess. | |
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Posted: 5/14/2008 6:38:59 AM | Hmmmm Maybe I'm stupid, but has this thread seriously been on here for 2yrs? Ongoing saga in POF 
well hello ppl am back i really did it this time i find my soul mate we been together for 2yrs
So it was boy, boy, girl now back to boy? Wow this is confusing... | |
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| bein in love with more then 1person
Posted: 5/14/2008 8:15:32 AM |
Oh, there's a good idea...populate the world with more children who will likely grow up as illiterate as their parents.
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| bein in love with more then 1person
Posted: 5/14/2008 8:35:22 AM | You have to seperate the two, take inventory of each of their faults and strengths.
There has to be something there that doesn't compare.
I believe one love has to be so much deeper and stronger than the other.
One is likely infatuation., you can not make someone love you.... | |
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Posted: 6/9/2008 7:56:05 PM | You are totally right with that one,It took me awhile but I love me ! It's a love that can never be broken ever again by anyone.......................................... gina | |
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Posted: 6/9/2008 8:15:38 PM | | Here is some motherly advice: ALWAYS FALL IN LOVE WITH A GUY WHO LOVES YOU MORE THAN YOU LOVE HIM. Nothing matters except for the fact that he loves you more. | |
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Posted: 6/10/2008 10:40:09 AM | Boyfriend of 12 years..."Baby Daddy"...AND, "The odd gurl out"...huh (?)
Sounds more like you're balancing a lot of plates there, Sweetie!...Godspeed and good luck to ya! | |
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Posted: 9/25/2009 7:41:36 AM | | well i did start over i been with his guy for 3yrs now he take dam good care of my 2kids n calm them as his own kids which i knowing his guy for 22yrs try to date him back in the day but we didnt i love him with all my heart hes my soulmate thanks to everyone | |
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Posted: 9/25/2009 8:06:17 AM | | I'm sorry, I'm not a spelling nazi. BUT the lack of any form of punctuation or grammar makes this a very tough read...... | |
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Posted: 9/25/2009 8:35:54 AM |
well i did start over i been with his guy for 3yrs now he take dam good care of my 2kids n calm them as his own kids which i knowing his guy for 22yrs try to date him back in the day but we didnt i love him with all my heart hes my soulmate thanks to everyone
I found some software that translates stupid to english. Let's give this a try
Well I did start over. I have been with this guy for 3 years now and he takes really good care of my kids. He even claims the kids as his own. We knew each other 22 years ago and tried to date back then but it just never worked out. I love him with all my heart and soul. Thank You.
Please understand that whenever you translate a foreign language there will always be some words and phrases that don't directly translate.
p.s. No children or animals were harmed in this translation. | |
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Posted: 9/25/2009 8:41:58 AM | | Firstly OP, I don't think you even have a clue what love is. If you did, you wouldn't be so easily torn between so many fellas. I don't mean to be hard, but you need to take a good look at yourself and realise why you are so dependent on men. It's not because you love them, it's because you can't face the thought of life without them or the attention they give you. Once the attention wears off you get bored and move on to the next one. This is a sign that you 'need' men to validate your existence, and this is a sign that unless you recognise this and deal with it you will probably spend the rest of your life hopping from one relationship to another and never feeling fulfilled. Until you can feel fulfilled as an individual, you will never feel fulfilled within a relationship. JMHO but I'm sticking to it. | |
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Posted: 9/25/2009 9:00:50 AM |
I found some software that translates stupid to english. Let's give this a try
And here I was thinking that the stereotypes about West Virginia were only a harmless joke. Guess there must be an element of truth after all. | |
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Posted: 9/25/2009 9:40:04 AM | | I had these problems in high school and realized at an early age that trying to be with two people at the smae time mentally will only drive you nuts. The best thing you can do....is try and get over all three men that you have in your head and try and make a relationship with someone that wants you and that you want to be with. Eventually having been in a solid relationship with someone, it will dull your mind of all these feelings for these men. | |
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Posted: 9/25/2009 2:57:59 PM | Thanks for the update 
For the youngin's
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=n62cbBS1nKM
    
There are times when a woman has to say what's on her mind
Even though she knows how much it's gonna hurt
Before I say another word let me tell you, I love you
Let me hold you close and say these words as gently as I can
There's been another man that I've needed and I've loved
But that doesn't mean I love you less
And he knows he can't possess me and he knows he never will
There's just this empty place inside of me that only he can fill
Torn between two lovers, feelin' like a fool
Lovin' both of you is breakin' all the rules
Torn between two lovers, feelin' like a fool
Lovin' you both is breakin' all the rules
You mustn't think you've failed me
Just because there's someone else
You were the first real love I ever had
And all the things I ever said
I swear they still are true
For no one else can have the part of me I gave to you
I couldn't really blame you if you turned and walked away
But with everything I feel inside, I'm asking you to stay
Torn between two lovers
Feelin' like a fool
Lovin' both of you is breakin' all the rules
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Posted: 9/25/2009 3:37:52 PM |
And here I was thinking that the stereotypes about West Virginia were only a harmless joke. Guess there must be an element of truth after all
~sigh~ Sometimes I'm so embarrassed by my fellow West Virginians that I can
hardly contain myself. Actually, there IS intelligent life-form there.
OP you don't speak like this ..... do you?
OT: You need to step back and give your head a shake lilmisshottie. Look
within yourself to ascertain just why you feel the need to relationship hop.
And what do you mean the guy you're with at present "calm them as his own kids"?
Do you mean....claims them as his own? Where's their father(s) in this deal?
See...I can't even understand some of this bullsh!t language damnit! | |
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Posted: 9/25/2009 4:51:09 PM | Good Lord, reading this woman's post was a chore and my WTF to English translator charged me double time in a half, some how I suspect yore not working but would it of killed you to go back to school or perhaps picked up hooked on phonics at your local walmart?
Ive never seen someone situation so bizarre, you were in love with two guys and then a woman, but now you're in love with your " soul mate" and letting go your girl but youre on a dating site looking for friends?
By any chance do you live in a trailer park with neighbors named Bubba and Billy Bob? and poor ole Billy Bob has a pumpkin on the porch that has more teeth than his spouse? | |
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Posted: 9/25/2009 10:37:23 PM | Toss both and find another to obsess over....
Till the day you get it that your problem is what you bring onto yourself will you then find happiness for real. | |
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| bein in love with more then 1person
Posted: 9/26/2009 9:15:11 AM | | It's "more than", not "more then". You are in love with nobody because the first one doesn't want you and you don't want the second one. How are you able to say you are in love with them? Is there one more another man? | |
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